Besides being scolded for playing with his mobile phone, what else can Bao Dad do when he is with his baby?

Does the prospective father want to go into the delivery room to cut the umbilical cord?

Whether to enter the delivery room or not is actually dad's personal choice. It was a good thing to experience the arrival of a new life, but it brought such troubles to a father. He said in the comments: @ Spongebob: If I can start over, I will definitely not accompany my wife to have children. I'm really scared. Until now, my child is 2 years old, and I still have a shadow in my heart.

Therefore, before the wife asks the prospective father to enter the delivery room, it is still necessary to evaluate his tolerance rationally and objectively. Considering the complexity and uncertainty of the delivery process, the scene may be very different from the warm scenes we saw in the movie. There is also a treasure mother on the Internet who really takes care of her husband. She obviously fainted and went into the delivery room to see the baby. As a result, when she was born, her husband fainted and asked her to take it out. Once the delivery room was in a hurry.

I also want to remind you that entering the delivery room doesn't mean anything. After all, everyone's psychological endurance is different. Bao dads haven't even been to their period, and this is really awkward for them. As long as you can take good care of us before and after delivery, you are also a responsible and gentle man. So what preparations should dads make to take care of their new mothers?

These things will not be understood until the wife is pregnant.

When I visited my girlfriend the next month, my husband, who was in shock, told us the whole process of his girlfriend's labor, which made us laugh. My best friend suddenly broke water one night when she was 37 weeks pregnant. She woke up her husband and calmly said that I broke the water. As a result, my best friend's husband woke up from his sleep and said, where is the leak? Run to the bathroom ... check the pipes.

If you want to be a good helper for your wife before delivery, it is best for fathers to learn maternity knowledge from the time of pregnancy. At least those exclusive names such as seeing red, breaking water and having contractions should be known so as not to make fun of their girlfriends. Here are the three most important points for Bao Dad.

What is the situation when the baby is coming?

If the labor period is approaching and expectant mothers feel stomachache regularly, they should start to calculate the interval of labor pains (contractions). If it has reached 5 minutes, you should go to the hospital immediately for labor. Other precious mothers may not have contractions, but because the mucus embolus mixed with blood blocks the cervix, when the mucus flows out, it looks like bleeding, which is called "seeing red". Don't go to the hospital immediately because of bleeding. Observe and wait for contractions or "water breakthrough" (contractions lead to amniotic membrane rupture and amniotic fluid outflow) before going to the hospital for delivery.

What should I prepare before going to the hospital?

Because the mother's labor situation is generally sudden and unpredictable. Therefore, it is suggested that fathers can prepare the items to be taken to the hospital in advance and pack them well, which can be roughly divided into four categories: ID bag, mother's products, baby's products and hospital life bag. Among them, it is best for dad to carry his ID bag with him so that he can use it when going through the formalities.

Although many times these are prepared by the mother, the prospective father should at least participate in the packaging so as to find them quickly when the mother is in labor.

What will a wife face when she gives birth to a child?

After arranging for the pregnant mother to be hospitalized, some prospective fathers will feel at ease, and some prospective fathers will be extremely anxious. The excitement of being a father can't overcome the confusion about the "childbirth process". In fact, knowing the process of a wife giving birth to a child early will make fathers know fairly well and not be in a hurry. Starting from regular contractions every 5 minutes, my mother will enter a long first stage of labor, which is also commonly known as "opening her fingers". The pain will become more and more severe, and the parturient will not enter the delivery room until the doctor judges that the cervical dilatation speed can enter the delivery room. The second stage of labor is usually carried out in the delivery room, which is the key moment of delivery. After the baby is born, the placenta is discharged and the process of observation is the third stage of labor.

These things should be done in labor.

Knowing all kinds of situations that may be faced in the process of delivery in advance is helpful for Bao Dad to keep calm, handle correctly and ask the doctor for help in time at the critical moment of his wife's delivery. After all, the pregnant mother is in great pain, and the father is the one who wants to control the overall situation. So when it comes to labor, what are the things that Bao Dad must do?

1, calm down and check what you want to bring.

When the wife shouts "Break the water", take a deep breath and let her lie flat. Then check the documents you have prepared (it is recommended to put them in the trunk of the car as soon as possible). Don't panic, because the more you panic, the more scared the pregnant mother will be and then feel wronged. Nervous and anxious emotions will amplify the pain. Steady, get your papers, call your relatives, and then go to the hospital.

2, comfort: relieve maternal pain.

As the contraction intensifies, the parturient will feel more and more pain. However, the first stage of labor is very long, so many Bao dads can't empathize and may feel bored. A best friend said to me. She is in great pain, but her husband is cooperating to eat chicken.

But in fact, there are many things you can do, such as massaging your wife, comforting her in various ways, or just holding hands quietly. It will make the suffering pregnant mother feel better.

3. Diligence: Hydrate pregnant women and remind them to go to the toilet.

During ten or even twenty hours of waiting for cervical dilatation, pregnant mothers will forget to go to the toilet or drink water because of pain. However, if pregnant women do not urinate in time, it may cause problems such as not urinating and urinary retention. At this time, the prospective father will undertake the task of reminding the pregnant mother to urinate and drink water.

4. Note: Record the times of pain and observe the maternal status.

The doctor will make a birth plan for the mother according to the number of contractions and the degree of uterine expansion. But in hospitals, there are often many mothers giving birth at the same time, so doctors or nurses can't stay in the ward all the time. The task of observing the pregnant mother's condition is undertaken by the prospective father: observing the fetal heart rate and labor pain monitor and making records in time for the doctor's reference.

5. Patience: Be a punching bag and stand by at any time.

The birth of Dabao was particularly painful, because it was the first child, and the first stage of labor was very slow and nervous. Even though my husband has been massaging me, playing music, comforting me and encouraging me. But I am still full of anger emotionally, constantly reprimanding him and telling him to stay away from me, but my husband is always patient and gentle with me. Once in the second trimester, he told me that it was because he read a paper that the parturient was stimulated by pain and secreted a lot of hormones to enhance her fighting spirit and become irritable. This is a defense mechanism. He knows it's not personal, and he can only survive the second stage of labor if he is full of fighting spirit!