What effect does parental quarrel have on children?

Husband and wife should avoid children when quarreling, which will affect the growth of children. Although the husband and wife have quarreled all their lives, no matter how big the contradiction is, don't quarrel in public. You have to have children to win people's hearts and make people laugh.

1, it is easy to cause children to form inferiority and grumpy personality.

Parents often quarrel in front of their children, and it is easy for children to mistakenly think that the reason for their parents' quarrel is related to themselves, resulting in their own bad ideas, so they often doubt themselves and deny themselves. Over time, it is easy to form inferiority complex and even self-harm behavior.

In addition, when parents quarrel in front of their children, it is inevitable that their emotions will get out of control, so we set a bad example for our children, which often leads them to become very irritable when they encounter problems.

2. Let children think more and have negative emotions.

Sometimes, parents quarrel and don't care about their children's emotions. At the same time, the two sides inadvertently left their children in the cold war, which may make the children think that they have done something wrong, and their parents do not love themselves, resulting in negative experiences such as fear, anxiety, sadness and helplessness.

3. Causes children's insecurity and social fear.

Parents are children's mirrors and the best role models. If children have some bad memories as children, they may feel insecure and afraid of making social friends. In the future, when children choose the other half of their lives, their hearts are always full of doubts and disbelief, which is easy to form psychological barriers.