The child is too attached to his grandmother and is a little jealous as a mother. What should I do?

I totally understand my mother's feelings. As a stay-at-home mother, sometimes it is a little uncomfortable for a baby to get too close to her grandmother, not to mention that the child is with her grandmother all day.

Mom can be like this when she is jealous:

1, first of all, comfort yourself psychologically.

You can take a deep breath for three or five times, and then tell yourself that I am'' I am very sad and jealous now. I accept this emotion and get along well with it''. After telling yourself a few times, you will find yourself slowly calming down.

Then try to find out what grandma does with her children every day to make them happy. On the one hand, observing grandma,' grandma takes care of children and does a lot of things' will make you see grandma's difficulties, which may make you less concerned about the intimacy between children and grandma. On the other hand, we can also see what children like to do. When you are free, you can play with your child more things he likes.

2, others, when you are free, you must ensure high-quality companionship with your baby. Compared with grandma, grandma spends more time with her children, but it doesn't necessarily guarantee high quality. However, mothers spend less time with their children, so they must ensure high quality, put down their mobile phones, put their work behind their heads and concentrate on taking care of their children. Psychologically speaking, when one person focuses on another person, telepathy will occur. Children can feel your company. A quality company is definitely more important than a long-term company.

Try to spend a fixed period of time with your baby every day and create unique memories with your child, such as happy bedtime and early morning reading time.

If you can, try to sleep with your child at night, starting with a series of things such as taking a bath, reading picture books, telling stories and telling jokes. Children will feel very happy when they do these things, and if they do them with you, they will especially want to be with you.

The child comes out of the mother's stomach. To win the child's favor, grandma has to make great efforts. A mother may work hard for five minutes, but the key is that she must be careful when accompanying her children.

Be with children, be with children, be with children, say important things three times, and children will like being with you when they feel your heart.