If a girl says we are friends, will you still pursue her?

1. Girls say they want to be friends and treat you as a backup. Some girls are very thoughtful. Just because boys like them, they will do whatever they want to say to boys who like them that they want to be friends. When the boy is really discouraged and ready to retreat, he gives the boy hope and makes him feel that he still has a chance to be with the girl. In this way, he whets the boy's appetite and plays with the boy. With such a girl, I suggest you not even be friends with her, and stay as far away from her as possible. 2. The girl politely refuses you when she says we want to be friends. If you have been in contact with the girl for a long time and you have expressed your feelings to her, but the girl does not directly agree or reject you, but tells you that we should be friends. What the girl actually meant was: I don’t like this boy, but it wouldn’t matter if I blocked him directly. I didn’t want to hurt him, so I chose a tactful way to tell him that we weren’t suitable as a couple, so let’s just do it. Just friends. In this case, if you want to continue pursuing her, you have to show some shining points to increase her favorability towards you, and you may be able to pursue her. If you keep chasing girls the same way, you may not even be friends. 3. Girls say that being friends means being reserved. If you and the girl haven’t known each other for a long time, you start pursuing her. Although the girl still seems to have a crush on you, she is a reserved girl and feels that you have only known each other for such a short period of time. It's time to make sure the relationship isn't very good. She also wants to spend more time to see if you are a person worth trusting. Such girls are generally more introverted, more cautious in doing things, and are good girls. In this case, don't give up the pursuit in a hurry. As long as the girl is still willing to chat with you and go on a date with you, you can make more appointments and chat with her. As long as the girl feels that you are a person worthy of her trust, it will last for a long time. It worked. Of course, if you feel that it would be a bit awkward for you to continue pursuing the girl after she said we should be friends, then just treat the girl as a friend, interact with each other in normal spaces, make more jokes, and don’t put too much hope in her that she likes you. Wait until If you confess your love again and she accepts you, it may be that she has experienced other people's bad things and discovered your good qualities. Of course, it may develop into a pair of really good friends in the end. Do you still pursue a girl who says we are friends? d2 1. In this case, you may as well continue to pursue her. (1) The girl doesn’t understand you. If a girl rejects you because she doesn’t fully understand you, in this case you can continue to pursue her. But in the subsequent pursuit process, don't confess your feelings again. This will put too much pressure on the girl, and she may even alienate you because of it. You should focus on showing and expressing yourself when getting along, and continue to increase your attraction to girls. Enhance girls' sense of security. Pay attention to girls' emotions when chatting. You can also use jokes to make girls laugh. Boys with a sense of humor are fatally attractive to women. Humorous chat topics are the catalyst to quickly build your relationship. I used to disdain these sweet words, but it was only later that I read Linghu Guanglei's Counterattack, a book on how to pick up girls. I have completely eliminated many of my misunderstandings about love. Now I have been using the heart-warming chat plan in the book to pick up girls. Basically, I can win a girl after chatting for three or two days. When I meet a girl, I just push it to her. Now the girls around me are better than each other. A Zheng is not far away from Shengge every night. Brothers who are single can learn to change themselves. You can get a free e-book by searching online - Linghu Guanglei's Counterattack. It's very simple to get out of singles. (2) Send you a good guy card. If a girl sends you a good guy card, it means that you are not attractive enough to girls. In this case, you need to take off the "good guy card" label on your head and increase your attraction to her. It is recommended that you do not contact girls for the time being to avoid causing psychological burden and social pressure to her. Secondly, you should abandon the attitude of worrying about gains and losses, and strive to improve and change yourself. You can enrich your circle of friends, read some books to improve your emotional intelligence, and expand your social circle. Learn some humorous chatting skills. When chatting again, use humor to make her giggle from time to time, providing her with a steady stream of joy.

2. In the following situations, you have to learn to give up. If a girl puts you on the list of spare tires and wants you to become a "licking dog", in fact you are dispensable to her. Just keep pursuing her. It will make you fall deeper and deeper into it, and even involve your entire youth in it, and finally you will work hard to raise a girlfriend for someone else. As the saying goes, "There is no grass anywhere in the world." It is better to give up on her directly. You may be sad for a while, but when you get to know other girls, you may find that there is someone more suitable for you. I hope you can find your destined partner in the near future, spend a wonderful and happy time together, and become each other's most important existence.