Can you accept living alone in your fifties? Why?

I am 69 years old. I have lived alone since I was 47 years old, and my life is clean and comfortable. There is no need to take care of others, and there is no need to endure and endure the content that must be balanced because of the combination of two people.

Personal experience is this: if the economy and spirit are independent enough, there is no need to combine with anyone; If you can't be financially independent, or you don't have a house, or you are bored alone, you can also consider finding someone to live with, or holding a group, but you must have enough psychological preparation and expectation at this time. After all, there is no more reliable sense of security and comfort than yourself. Everything you get is paid for by equality or inequality. It's lucky to get it. It is also possible to give and not get in contrast, or get nothing.

It is best to be independent, if not, then pay+leave it to fate.

I can accept living alone over 50 because I am experiencing it.

I am a female, born after the age of 60, 5 1 year old, married at the age of 24, gave birth at the age of 25, and divorced at the age of 28. My son was raised by me, and my ex-husband did not pay a penny for support. This is what we negotiated, and there is nothing to complain about. I haven't thought about finding another one since I was single, but to be honest, others don't like me and others like me.

My relatives and friends around me advised me that almost enough is enough, so don't be too picky. It's really not that I'm too picky.

There is one person for both of us. After a week of dating, he asked me to send my son away and concentrate on taking care of his daughter, because her daughter is going to high school ... I'll go. As a professional woman, it's not that she can't earn money to support herself. I don't care about raising your daughter, but you let me abandon my son. What is the reason? !

There is another one who feels that he is not valued in the company, dreams of making a lot of money to do direct sales, insists that I join in, and wants me to use my contacts to promote it. To put it mildly, for our future ... I have known him for 10 days. As a person who has been in the sales industry for so many years, I still can't see this kind of direct selling scam. Kindly advised him not to listen and invested all his money. I thought this man was too unreliable, so I ignored him again. After a long time, he chatted with me on QQ and said that his career was not good, mainly because I didn't help him … He wanted to make money for our future …

I guess God wants me to be single. In other words, I have met many such people. Maybe men think it's not cost-effective to raise a son for others. Anyway, they either despise me or tell me not to have a son.

How is that possible? My son is my soul. For the sake of my son, I left home cleanly, with no job, no money and no house. How could I abandon my son for remarriage?

Fortunately, I take my second marriage seriously and concentrate on my work, because I know where the focus is and where the gains are.

No matter how good a man is, he has the ability to earn money. Besides, can we divorced women really find a good man? Maybe, but the success rate is too low. You are more likely to work hard and earn money.

Single for more than 20 years, bought a suite in Chongqing, bought a car in Chengdu and raised a son. Retired at the age of 50 last year, no mortgage, no car loan, a little savings. This year, I completely let myself go, didn't go to work, had a good rest and spent time with my parents.

Don't be too happy when you are single and live alone.

Go where you want to go.

No one complains about overtime in this job. Need to travel for a few days to pack up and go out.

You don't have to ask for leave when you go home for dinner. If you are thrifty at home, you can keep your home spotless. If you are tired and don't want to move, you can order takeout.

You just need to consider whether you want to buy something, and you don't have to look at people's faces.

You don't have to wait on a man's food, clothing, housing and transportation, wash a man's clothes and smelly socks, consider the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and worry about having a mistress.

It is much easier to earn money by yourself than to find a good man.

I don't encourage single people to live alone, but I respect everyone's choice, because respecting others means respecting themselves.

My daughter was born in the 1960s. If I enjoy living alone now, some people may say that I am not eating grapes.

Everyone has his own story. I am single because my husband cheated and divorced. I have been entangled with him since I was in my thirties. This process lasted for eight years. For eight years, I didn't have sex and my husband didn't dare to touch me. He worked hard, and I will make him feel ashamed.

At that time, there was only hate in my heart, and it made me sick to think of what he had done to that ugly woman (short man with glasses).

At the time of divorce, Jingnei was 4 1 year old. She is extremely disappointed in the opposite sex. For example, my husband turned down any suitors. I spent three years trying to live alone (my son is in the army). I belong to the kind of heartless person, who can digest big things alone. No one will see my weakness outside, just on the right track. My ex-husband has esophageal cancer. I hate him, but I don't want him dead.

San Xiao is an accountant in his unit, a divorced single woman with children. After our divorce, they lived together openly, and their affairs made them look down. In other people's words, I am in the sky and that woman is underground. I used to be friends with that woman, so we both resigned and went to other places.

He was ill, and the woman said that her daughter did not agree with them, so she let him move out. Women's work and business are ok, and people are conscientious, but emotional things are hard to say. In their company, there are several others besides my ex-husband, but her ex-husband was arrested. However, my ex-husband will never give them money because he is very stingy. My son and I can spend his money at will, and his parents are distressed to use him!

He needed surgery, a series of chemotherapy and radiotherapy, and he moved back to the house he rented. Before he died, he gave me the real estate license and land certificate, which he bought, me and his name. As an ex-wife, I did my duty for three years until his death. Many friends don't understand why I care about him. He hurt me deeply and became my laughing stock in the county. I told them:

It's for my son. He is in the army, so he can't take many vacations, which also makes him feel better.

Second, we had a happy 12 years. He and his family are very kind to me. Divorce is not his problem alone. I'm also responsible. Now I'm doing all this to pay for my willfulness and put an end to it!

He left the home where we used to live. He has lived here since he was ill. He was sent to the funeral home the afternoon after he left. I found two people, lost all his things, including some furniture, and erased his traces. I didn't cry, and I won't go to the wake for him and send him the last journey. He is not worth it. I'm sorry he died, but I'm not sad, so I won't pretend!

Ten years have passed in an instant. I like being alone and enjoying loneliness. One person, one world, don't please others, don't look at their faces, the room is spotless and untidy. Eat snacks, watch TV, play mobile phones, go to the bathroom, take a shower without closing the bathroom door, and you can shuttle back and forth in the room without clothes after taking a shower (summer). If you are not ready to open the door, you don't have to wash your face or comb your hair ... On a whim, you packed some clothes and dragged yourself to see the world.

This kind of life is quite good!