Just say Kangxi-a failed father who ate his own fruit.

There are countless romantic figures in the long history. When it comes to the word "one emperor through the ages", there are always two "great men" in people's minds: Qin Shihuang and Kangxi.

Tonight, I will take advantage of the long rain outside the window, unable to go out for exercise, and talk to you about a little-known Kangxi.

When I mentioned Emperor Kangxi, I immediately thought of the four brilliant Chinese characters "Kanggan Shi Sheng". If you are accompanied by friends who like TV series, the image of the screen emperor in Chen's classic TV series Kangxi Dynasty will surely emerge.

Indeed, the glorious deeds of Emperor Kangxi, such as "excluding Ao Bai", "pacifying San Francisco", recovering Taiwan Province Province, personally conquering Geerdan and killing Russian "Luo Cha", are enough to show his unparalleled martial arts as a generation of emperors.

But is Kangxi really so perfect in the Qing Dynasty drama-forgiveness and fraternity? Respect the teacher? Distinguish right from wrong? Appreciate the grace of the monarch and the minister?

Then the following historical materials may surprise you!

It is said that throughout the history of China and even the world, there is no king of any dynasty or generation who does not attach importance to the cultivation of the culture of his successors. Therefore, reading and being taught are the deepest memories of every emperor when he was young. Because among them, there is the owner of the future empire. Therefore, heavy study and almost strict teaching are essential.

But it's really not easy to be the teacher of the prince and grandson. Who is the prince? The descendants of the son of heaven are naturally arrogant and extravagant, and it is inevitable to develop the habit of arrogance. Therefore, in the face of the prince's teaching, in addition to having extraordinary knowledge and teaching level, it is more important to have a heart that can withstand the pressure from outside the chart!

Not strict, neglecting the knowledge of the prince, responsible for the division of the prince; Strictly teach, the prince complains, utters bad words, and even hits him. You must be prepared to wait for the prince to retaliate in the future.

If you meet a king who understands justice, that's all. When you meet an emperor like Kangxi, the princes will be abolished for eight generations!

During the Kangxi period of the Qing Dynasty, it was also an era of "famous ministers came forth in large numbers", and Tang Bin was one of them.

Tang Bin, a native of Suizhou, Henan Province, was born late in Jingxian and Gan 'an. Politicians, Neo-Confucians and Calligraphers in the Qing Dynasty, officials to ministers of the Ministry of Industry, died as writers. Tang Bin was honest and upright all his life, and he was an advocate of practicing Zhu Theory. Wherever he went, he sympathized with the people's difficulties, and his shortcomings were obvious and his achievements were remarkable. It is also respected as "a famous official of Neo-Confucianism" by later generations.

The honor of "Zheng Wen" alone is enough to make him proud in history.

But such a famous science minister with both ability and political integrity was also planted in the hands of the "Prince Teacher".

In the 25th year of Kangxi, Emperor Kangxi planned to choose a lecturer for Prince Yi Yin, who was spoiled, grumpy and perverse since childhood. Pearl knew that this errand was bound to harm people and intended to recommend Tang Bin. Pearl intended to woo Tang Bin, who was straightforward and not attached. Emperor Kangxi agreed with this and praised Tang Bin for "always being cautious, strict with himself, solid and responsible, and smooth sailing." As a result, Tang Bin was appointed as the minister of rites and the chief lecturer of the Prince.

Nightmare, so slowly pulled open the curtain. ...

After taking office, Tang Bin tried his best to assist the Prince, but because of Yin Yong's long-standing habit, he didn't see much effect. At this time, Mingzhu participated in the dissolution of Tang Bin on the grounds of poor teaching. Kangxi believed it, so he punished Tang Bin and reduced his official position to five levels. After the news came out, people were filled with indignation, and some even played drums for Tang Bin. Kangxi was surprised at the will of the people. In order to calm the people's grievances, Emperor Kangxi pardoned Tang Bin.

Out of the oil pan into the fire pit. One day, the prince ordered Tang Bin to circle the words he thought were good with a "red pen". Tang Bin, a gentleman, didn't care much, so he took a "red pen" and circled a few words that he thought were good. At that time, such a "red pen" could only be used by emperors and princes, that is, the so-called "imperial pen Zhu Pi".

As a result, Tang Bin, who was treading on thin ice every day, was impeached again, and before long, the generation of "famous officials of Neo-Confucianism" who were exhausted in body and mind ended in depression!

There is no worst, only worse!

If Tang Bin died of depression, it would be a sad thing. What happened to Prince Xu's teacher was not terrible.

In the summer of the twenty-sixth year of Kangxi, the lecturer Xu suddenly received the appointment of the emperor as the teacher of the prince. The so-called mighty demeanor is nothing more than that.

But just a few months later, a little thing made Xu thoroughly realize the aphorism of "accompanying a gentleman like a tiger".

In autumn, Kangxi led the philosophers to visit Yingtai in Zhongnanhai. During this period, Emperor Kangxi decided to personally teach his ministers how to shoot arrows accurately on a whim. Suddenly I saw Xu standing by, and Kangxi told him to give it a try. After all, it may be Manchu, and riding and shooting have always been the pride of Manchu.

Faced with the kind invitation of Emperor Kangxi, Xu was embarrassed to refuse, so he had to give it a try. However, Xu's performance disappointed Emperor Kangxi-he fiddled with it for a long time, but he couldn't open the bow and crossbow (he went to Imperial Camp to teach his ministers to shoot arrows, but Xu couldn't pull it up).

As mentioned above, riding and shooting has always been a skill that Manchu people are proud of. As a member of the Eight Banners of the Manchu Dynasty, Xu couldn't even open a bow, and the emperor flew into a rage, thinking that this behavior really humiliated the Manchu Dynasty. What's more, he was the teacher of his ministers, so wouldn't the ministers laugh at the emperor for not choosing a teacher?

Xu Yuan Meng's performance disappointed Emperor Kangxi and severely scolded him. If it was someone else, I would listen, and maybe it would be over. However, Xu is straightforward and can't help arguing a few words, which probably means: "I have been a civil servant for many years, and riding and archery has little to do with me."

Kangxi's pent-up anger broke out instantly. Immediately, Emperor Kangxi ordered Xu to fall to the ground, and then he immediately found the instruments of torture of the imperial staff, and punished the imperial ministers and the Prince Division on the spot with a stick (Xu argued, but was furious, saved his life and created it). Xu Yuan Meng was pale with pain, cold sweat, speechless.

If the fight was not counted, it was hard for Emperor Kangxi to get rid of the evil spirit in his heart. He ordered the Xu family to be copied and his parents were sent to exile in other places. A civil servant insisted on being forced to pull the bow, but he couldn't afford it. In the face of Xu's unreasonable reprimand, he was humiliated in public for a normal excuse, and even almost ruined his family.

Kangxi, the "Emperor through the ages", was moody and overbearing.

Poor Xu, the nightmare has just begun, far from over.

In the forty-sixth year of Kangxi, Kangxi saw several princes writing greetings to him, and every sentence was unreasonable. He thought this was caused by the teacher Xu's carelessness in teaching, so Kangxi ordered all his sons to be supervised and ordered the guards to be responsible for Xu's thirty. Among these princes, there are many students who strictly teach, and these princes have the right to be a laughing stock at the moment. If they don't learn well, they can "revenge" their teachers. You can imagine what virtue Kangxi's sons can learn!

In the fifty-second year of Kangxi, before the Prince was abolished for the second time, the "teacher of the Prince" who had worked hard for the royal family for 30 years somehow angered his Royal Highness and was scolded by the Prince in public, even without regard for decency, until Xu's parents were in their sixties.

Not only that, the prince also ordered people to push Xu into the river and drown him, and then pulled him up and beat him up. This matter reached the ears of Kangxi. At this time, Kangxi was angry not about his son's almost animal behavior, but that his son dared to carry himself behind his back when he beat and scolded the teacher. ...

Looking through the official historical materials, it is not difficult to find that Kangxi's own sons always severely punish their teachers when they misbehave and violate the ethics. To this end, even at the expense of arguing irrationally and distorting the facts. What's more, let their sons supervise and punish their teachers personally. ...

This is how the so-called "generation of wise kings" educate their sons. Kangxi did business as a prince in his later years and suffered a lot. I watched my beloved son Yin Yong do something in Fei Li twice, and finally had to be banned and never met again. In order to compete for the country, the sons all want to bite each other to death. When Emperor Kangxi saw this tragedy on his deathbed, did he regard himself as his father?

Who has developed his son's surly behavior of arrogance, disdaining affection, hypocrisy and false filial piety?

Are they teachers like Tang Bin and Xu Yuan Meng? Do they "match"? They don't even have the complete "qualification" to normally fulfill their obligation to teach students. How can they "influence" these favored children?

In real life, are there still few parents like Kangxi? Always blame other people's children for not understanding their uncles' sufferings and doing everything they can. If they are a little unhappy, they say "disobedient and unfilial" and accuse them. Even if his son forgets his ancestors, his affection is weak and there is no trace of filial piety, he will never admit that there is something wrong with his education. Such people are often generous and sophisticated on the surface, but actually six words are enough to sum up-"forgive yourself; Responsible people are strict! "

Kangxi, a failed father who suffered his own consequences, his history is a sad continuation of our real life. ...