Why can’t the friendship between three people last forever?

In the friendship between three people, one person is destined to be ignored. This seems to have become a law.

If three people play together, especially if there is a conflict, although there will be someone to mediate, it will be more difficult for the person in the middle, because both sides are friends, and they are caught in the middle. The middle one will be difficult for everyone. If you lean toward one, it will conflict with the other, and vice versa. So the friendship between the three people is difficult to balance.

Just like what is happening in Douyin now, you introduce a friend who you feel has a good relationship with you to another person who you feel has a good relationship with. At that time, you think there will be a good relationship between the three of you. There is a good friendship, but everything is just what you imagine. When a friendship between three people really begins, one person will always be ignored. It doesn't matter once or twice, but as time goes by, the ignored person will be very unbalanced and emotionally depressed. Especially when this person introduces two other people to each other, this person's mood will hit rock bottom. From then on, he will slowly become inferior and sensitive. Just like in the show, the three people in the past have gradually turned into a world of one person. Things that were happy before seem more like jokes now.

The story of three people in Douyin, in the end only one person is left waiting silently, one person celebrates his birthday, one person prepares surprises for the other two, but in the end it is found that the other two people are already happy After eating out and watching a movie. The world is actually inherently unfair. In a world of two people, if there is one more person, the balance will be broken and it will be difficult to maintain the relationship. One person can be jealous of the friendship of two other people. Although the old saying goes that when you are young, you are always making friends, but they do not last long. There will always be people who leave you because of various things. You will be sad, you will be sad, but when the sadness is over, please cheer up.

Please believe that the person leaving is just a passer-by in your life. If it is really a friendship worth maintaining for your whole life, it will not be broken so easily.