A plot for a second marriage

Hello, everyone. I'm Lao Wu, the shopkeeper who writes true stories.

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Although divorced, I still have illusions about marriage and always hope to meet a good man in the future.

My divorced friends who are not going to remarry always laugh at me. Once bitten by a snake, aren't you afraid of straw rope?

I always smile. I know that I am the kind of person who will never forget that kind of thing.

So, when I met Lao Xu who spoiled me like a princess after my divorce, I felt really lucky.

Therefore, it is fate to remarry with Lao Xu.

But because of 500 yuan, our relationship fell to the bottom and even separated.

At that time, Lao Xu and I were not poor. On the contrary, our life is quite rich.

Is everything fate?

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I am 48 years old and was born in Fujian.

I think I am a very independent person, and I will stick to what I believe.

When my ex-husband and I were in love, everyone didn't like it. They think my ex-husband has no ambition and idles around all day.

Radish and vegetables have their own tastes. I think we are in love, and we can struggle with other external conditions.

It was naive to be young at that time.

However, the ex-husband who has been married for many years has never made progress, dreaming of making a fortune and changing 5-6 jobs a year.

Don't talk about making money, you can't even afford it yourself. Until the daughter 10 years old, the ex-husband is still like this.

I tried to persuade him for more than ten years, but it was useless. Over the years, all my expectations for him have disappeared into the accumulated trivial matters.

Obviously, I have a husband, but I have become a widow. This unspeakable embarrassment can only be felt by yourself.

But for the sake of my daughter, I often convince myself to make do. Whose marriage will not work?

But my ex-husband stepped on my bottom line.

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On that occasion, my ex-husband went to a junior high school reunion and came into contact with his first love.

My ex-husband secretly went out with that woman behind my back, and I was caught sending her a mobile phone.

Seeing my ex-husband spend my hard-earned money on other women, I have no heartache, only anger.

Rome wasn't built in a day. I asked for a divorce calmly, but my ex-husband didn't agree.

I had a quarrel with him and said a lot of ugly things. Maybe the woman outside gave him courage, and finally my ex-husband agreed.

But my ex-husband said, I know you still love me, and you are just angry. I promise to divorce you first, and then we will remarry when you are not angry.

I ignored my ex-husband and left home with my daughter and divorce certificate.

Now that we are divorced, how about remarriage?

There is such a sentence in "Double-sided Tape", which I think is particularly good:

Marriage is a mistake, divorce is a consciousness, remarriage is a fallacy, remarriage is stubborn, giving birth to a child is a big mistake, and a person will not delay anything.

Although I don't think it's a mistake to marry my ex-husband, after all, I got married because of love, but no one has ever misjudged someone because of their youth.

Learn from mistakes.

The so-called remarriage is just that you finally climb out of a fire pit and can't find a way out, so you jump into the same fire pit again.

I won't do that.

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Every step of life is important. Although experience is cruel, at least you can gain experience from it.

My ex-husband and I have been married for many years and have been the manager of a hot pot restaurant. After the divorce, I used my little capital to start a new stove.

Hotpot restaurant is my tool for making a living, and I have devoted all my efforts to it.

Life is good or bad, only you know, there are tired and sweet, but fortunately, life is made by people.

At the age of 36, the hot pot restaurant has stabilized. Although I didn't become a rich woman, my daughter and I at least had a good life.

My friends think I'm still young and I can find a boyfriend to fall in love with.

I don't refuse to find someone to fall in love with, but I choose someone.

At least, what I want from my other half is that I have the same independent financial ability as myself, not the same ambition as my ex-husband.

Lao Xu was introduced by a friend, because Lao Xu and I are colleagues, and he is also the manager of a hot pot restaurant.

In fact, I didn't think much about him at first, but I thought this man was very affectionate and righteous.

Because a friend said that Lao Xu's ex-wife was ill and left, Lao Xu spent a lot of money on her and didn't keep her.

In the end, people and money were empty, leaving only a pile of debts and a daughter of 16 years old.

There are still such men these days, which are rare. So I still have a little affection for Lao Xu.

But if I really want to fall in love or even get married with such a man, I won't agree.

A very realistic reason is that his economic conditions are not good and he can't compare with me.

Second-married couples, beware of each other, I don't want to take money to make up for the other half.

A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and Lao Xu and I know each other like ordinary friends.

Most of us take the initiative to care about me. I have no initiative and no time.

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I approached Lao Xu on a typhoon day. It rained heavily that night, and I was afraid that the shop would be flooded.

So I hurried from home to the store, just as I expected.

The shop is on the downhill side of the street, and the water flows directly into my shop.

Looking at that big pool of water, I cried and picked up the bottled water and threw it out.

Soon, Lao Xu came. Lao Xu said that when you came out alone so late, the child was frightened and kept crying at home. She called me.

I admit, as a single mother, I have struggled for a long time, and I also need someone to face the storm with you.

Lao Xu and I have been quietly cleaning the floor for more than two hours.

I sighed and thanked him.

It's stormy, a man is willing to come for you. At that moment, I set foot on the heart wall erected by Lao Xu.

I fell in love with Lao Xu.

Lao Xu is very kind to our mother and daughter. He did a lot of chores for me, and I suddenly felt a lot lighter on my shoulders.

Lao Xu's daughter is the same age as me, and they get along like sisters.

Although Lao Xu is two years older than me, he is still romantic to me and often gives me some surprises.

I still like romance in my bones, so my feelings for Lao Xu are getting stronger and stronger.

After two years of love, Lao Xu and I remarried.

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After getting married, I asked Lao Xu to resign and we ran my hotpot restaurant together.

Perhaps it is the unity of husband and wife's interests. The next year, we opened a second hot pot restaurant.

Lao Xu is a man with brains and hard work. In the third year, the third and fourth stores opened.

Our quality of life is getting better and better.

I think my life is quite complete, rich, my husband loves me, my own daughter has grown up, and my stepdaughter is filial to me.

My family lives in a house of 180, which is quite comfortable.

Lao Xu once said to me: Thank you, wife. Meeting you is the greatest blessing of my father and daughter in my life. I will spoil you well. You are the princess of my life.

Lao Xu's words made me very happy. He is really kind to me, although the house is our two names.

But all the money at home is in my charge, and all the expenses in the store are in my charge. Although Lao Xu knows the password of my card, he won't ask these questions.

I always thought that Lao Xu was selfless to me, until what happened that day, I began to have other ideas in my heart.

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I went shopping with my friends that day, and we walked into a shop selling bags.

My friend bought a bag, and I also took a fancy to a bag, more than 3000.

When I came home with my bag on my back and asked Lao Xu if it was nice, Lao Xu said that the bag was really nice. how much is it?

I am still immersed in the joy of buying a new bag. I didn't go to see Lao Xu, just casually said, more than three thousand dollars.

Old Xu's unhappy voice sounded, and I saw that his face was quite smelly.

Lao Xu said that in the future, if you spend more than 500 yuan, you should first ask me if I can buy it and show me any fees.

As soon as I heard this, I was very unhappy. I immediately threw my bag on the sofa and asked, why?

You can't spend the money you earn? Do you think I should always be reluctant to spend money because I usually scrimp and save?

The purpose of making money is to live a better life. When do you think I bought such an expensive bag? This is the first and only one.

Seeing that I was so unhappy, Lao Xu softened his expression and kept apologizing to me.

Lao Xu explained that he said he was used to my usual frugality, so he was not used to me buying such an expensive bag for the time being.

Hehe, this is human nature.

I bought all the bags on my own, and he told me that if I lived in Lao Xu, I would have bought this bag with more than 3,000 yuan today. I can't imagine what that would be like.

I feel embarrassed and sad.

Seeing my silence, Lao Xu immediately promised that he wouldn't say anything no matter what I bought in the future.

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However, things have passed.

Old Xu blurted out instinctively, proving that he thought so.

In his eyes, I don't know if I don't deserve this 3000-odd bag, or if he thinks I should break a penny into three parts so that I can be a good wife and mother.

The second marriage and family reorganization should be extremely cautious. At that time, when Lao Xu and I were getting married, my mother's family said so. On the one hand, they feel that Lao Xu is in a bad condition. On the other hand, they feel that Lao Xu is attracted by my money.

But I think the truth is true. I don't think Lao Xu is that kind of person.

In fact, after so many years of marriage, I have never been unfaithful to him. I think he is very single-minded to me.

Maybe people will change. Life is good, and people's minds are active.

I accepted Lao Xu's apology for the time being, but I alienated him.

Lao Xu thought I forgave him, but later, from my words and deeds, he also knew that I had not let go.

Lao Xu no longer indulges me as she did when she was in love and just got married.

The communication time between us is getting less and less, so little that both our daughters feel it.

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In fact, these two daughters are not easy, and their personalities are still very good after family changes.

However, how can children understand the complexity of adults, especially the second marriage family?

This kind of life is half a year. One day I suddenly had a terrible stomachache, and there were only two daughters at home.

When they rushed me to the hospital, they realized that I had acute appendicitis and needed immediate surgery.

When I woke up and saw only two daughters, I asked my daughter where Lao Xu had gone.

Lao Xu's daughter carefully said that her father would come soon, and my heart was cold.

My own daughter told me privately that Lao Xu returned to the store after completing my hospitalization and never came again.

Lying in a hospital bed, I think marriage is really sad, but it is between husband and wife.

Later, Lao Xu explained this. He said he had to take care of the business in the shop.

I replied coldly, your reason is too far-fetched. The business in the store is important, but all four stores have managers, so it doesn't matter if you walk away for a while.

In your eyes, business is more important than me.

Lao Xu was silent and made no answer.

In middle age, people will experience divorce and remarriage. When they met this man, they thought they would be happy forever.

Unexpectedly, because of money, the bad blood between me and him is getting bigger and bigger.

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One month after leaving the hospital, I rented a house directly and moved out with my daughter.

On the same day, our two daughters cried, but Lao Xu didn't keep us.

In this way, we began the day of separation, and the moment we walked out of the door, perhaps our ending was already doomed.

But we can't solve the problem separately, and the contradiction between Lao Xu and me is getting bigger and bigger.

We are no longer fit to do business together. At this time, Lao Xu broke up. Isn't breaking up actually a divorce?

I'm struggling.

I'm not young either. I'm over 40. Am I getting a divorce again?

I didn't decide whether to divorce, so I refused Lao Xu's request for separation.

Lao Xu said that he thought that husband and wife could live a good life together, but now this kind of life is boring, so it is better to split up.

When I was angry, I said, it's okay to split it. You get 30% and I get 70%.

At the beginning, you said that if one day we really want to separate, you would give me all the money at home, not much.

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Lao Xu flew into a rage at my words. He said it was impossible. These four stores have made today's achievements. Let's work together. I can't get less money.

I laughed till tears came to my eyes. Have you forgotten everything you said? Or did you say it at the beginning?

Lao Xu was silent, so I asked directly, what do you want?

My husband said, I'm definitely not more than one point, and many of them are one point.

I said, just do as you say, let's meet each other half way.

Lao Xu finally said, all right. The house is also sold, 50-50.

How happy my husband was when he promised, and how hard it is to go back on his word now.

I didn't expect him to be so haggle over every ounce. I know every penny.

However, he forgot that without my capital and my first store, would he be where he is today?

In this regard, Lao Xu behaved very roguishly, and he was unclear. Anyway, he will spend it with me.

I'm tired. I don't want to argue with Lao Xu any more. Almost a month later, we got a divorce certificate.

Just go your separate ways after the divorce.

However, Lao Xu really makes me sick.

At that moment, Lao Xu said, why don't you believe that I didn't mean it? How did we get here?

Lao Xu really doesn't know? I believe he knows, perhaps, that I am his springboard to a rich life.

It's too late to worry about the real purpose of Lao Xu and me getting married.

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I sat patiently and told Lao Xu that since you don't believe me, since you think I don't deserve to buy a bag, we are not suitable.

What's Lao Xu trying to say? I took one look at him and left.

It is true that I want to spend my life with that old man, and it is also true that I don't want anything to do with him now.

I will never get married again in my life. Living a single life is actually quite good.

What's the point of life if your hard-earned money doesn't even have the right to spend it?

Moreover, after my daughter gets married and has children, I will try my best to help her through every step of her life, which requires money.

So will Lao Xu agree? I don't know.

His daughter will go through this, too. What if my method is different from Lao Xu's?

So, leave it alone. It doesn't matter, except for strange bedmates.

Goodbye, Xu.

Your promise to me is a mirage after all.