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Please live like human beings-girl, please cherish your body!

I extracted this article from someone else's blog because I felt very sad after reading it. We have too many misunderstandings about love. We girls are taught to be complete devotees. In fact, true love is to make yourself more complete, become a better person and make life better. Love is selfish first, and then beneficial to others. Because you are happy with someone, you love him and are willing to do what he can. But this kind of contribution should be mutual, without damaging personal happiness and health. Smart women know how to cherish themselves, how to pay in time, and how to get in time.

Remember: Only those who know how to truly love themselves can truly love others. Love is not blindly unprincipled, nor is love blindly unprincipled!

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When I opened the mailbox, I saw such shocking words again.

"Elder sister, you tell me, what should I do? I had two abortions for him, and now he doesn't want me. I am so sad. I don't know what to do. I really can't live any longer. Please help me. " I asked myself, I am a very emotional and compassionate person, but when I read this letter for the nth time, my once sad heart seemed numb.

I still clearly remember that the first time I came into contact with such a story was one afternoon a few years ago. At that time, I was designing in front of the computer, and suddenly there was a harsh voice at the door of the office. "You play enough isn't it? You've had enough of me, so you don't want me. I had two abortions for you, and you broke up when you said you broke up? " "Roll, roll away, hear. I already said I broke up with you. What are you doing here? You want an abortion. It's not the first time you've done this. Didn't you do it twice before me? What do I care if you are willing to do that? This is a company. You'd better not throw water around here. If you don't roll, I'll call security. "

I can't help but follow the sound and take my eyes off the screen. I saw that the girl who came to the company for a part-time job was being pushed out by my boss, that is, his boyfriend. I didn't see the girl clearly, but I heard a bang in my ear and the door had slammed shut. All the crying and noise came to an abrupt end in an instant. In just a few minutes, everything seemed to return to its original state, except those sad eyes, which were like an image frozen in the air for a long time. Later, when I heard everyone talking about it, I seldom mentioned how miserable and unfortunate the girl was. Many people just regard it as a joke, perhaps because most of my colleagues are men, or perhaps it is something that everyone has long been accustomed to.

It's just that for that girl, after several such experiences, it may not matter to many things. Even on this wrong road, I repeated the same mistake over and over again, without caring.

I don't know who is to blame for such a thing. Is only that irresponsible person to blame? Is there anything wrong with girls? There are so many topics such as persuasion that even I feel bored. But I really don't understand why so many girls stumble over this matter one after another.

Don't you really know nothing about basic common sense? Or you don't care about your health at all? Especially for those girls who have had more than one abortion, it is really hard for me to understand that a broken little finger still hurts for a long time. If you suffer such a crime, how can you not care? Is your body made of wood? Don't you feel any pain? It is not enough for you to suffer for him once, but you have to hurt yourself again and again. How can he be so worth paying for? Do you know what love is? In order to satisfy his own desires, he repeatedly makes you suffer. Can this be regarded as loving you?

What's the difference between this reckless possession and rape? Don't be fooled by the so-called sweet words of love. The gorgeous coat of love is not a sincere heart, but a sword that kills people without seeing blood. When you are out of your mind, he will give you a knife at any time, and the only difference between this kind of injury and rape is that after you get a knife, you not only don't condemn the rapist, but also delude yourself into taking it as a duty in love. If abuse is the duty of a woman in love, then I believe that all smart women will never fall in love again.

Maybe you don't believe it, but I must tell you that what happened to you was not love at all, but a rape that was not punished by law. If a man really loves you, he would rather be wronged than do anything to hurt you. If irresponsibility after rape can be regarded as love, then rapists in this world should become lovers.

If you admit that you are so humble in your bones, you like to be a tool to vent your sexual desire. I really have nothing to say. But if you want true love, please stand up and live as an individual from now on instead of turning yourself into someone else's doll. People who don't know how to respect themselves and love themselves will not be loved. A person who knows nothing but unprincipled dedication can't get true love. Love is a kind of communication and interaction, rather than one person blindly giving to another person and the other person completely accepting it. What's the difference between that and sow dedicating herself to human beings?

The sow gave everything to human beings without reservation, but have you ever heard of a person who loves sows? Of course, sows are actually forced, and if they have the ability to resist, they are not willing to make such stupid dedication. Therefore, if you are fully capable of controlling your behavior, but are willing to pay like a sow, it is really worse than a sow.

Sows are no longer loved, and it is even more impossible for anyone to appreciate being a person who is not as good as sows. Therefore, if you still want to be loved and respected, please learn to be a person who knows how to love and protect yourself from now on, instead of being a sow who is slaughtered by others.