I've seen too many rural elderly people bring their children into the city. what do you think?

I don't know how to answer, because I am one of these young people.

However, my situation is quite special. At first, because of a major change in our family, my sister died in a medical accident, which my mother couldn't accept at the moment. She cries every day, at night, during the day, and doesn't go out to see people or talk. I was going to take care of the children myself, so I wanted to be scientific. As a result, after this incident, the sisters discussed it and asked my mother to find something to do. After taking care of the child for a month, I obviously feel that my mother is in a much better state. He may also see my sister's figure in my baby, because my baby's mouth is very similar to her. Now my mother has brought us a baby for 3-4 years, which is not bad. The baby is very close to her mother.

However, from the perspective of the elderly, my mother will go back in a week or half, and one day I will ask her, Mom, isn't this your home? He said, I feel more comfortable at home (because my husband and I are not often at home, they are basically babies, so I thought my mother would be very comfortable at home). You can meet your neighbors as soon as you go out and know everything. Now you have to go through several doors to buy a dish to go to the supermarket (there is a fingerprint door at the entrance of the community). If I am at home, I can pick something to eat in the yard.

So this belongs to the loneliness of the old people with children in the city, or my own mother (because my mother-in-law passed away a long time ago). I have never quarreled with my mother. I belong to the kind where mother and daughter have a good relationship and usually give money in advance.

If it is a mother-in-law, or a mother and daughter who often quarrel, or if the old and the young are not harmonious, then the loneliness of the elderly may be stronger.

However, it is undeniable that having an old man to help with the baby will bring many benefits to the work, life and even feelings of young people. He can work harder, and he and his wife may have some space alone than taking care of the baby by themselves, which will be better for enhancing the relationship between husband and wife.

But in this process, we must take into account the emotions and psychology of the elderly.

There was a joke.

The old lady brought a baby to her daughter and finally brought it to the first grade at the age of 6. The daughter happily told her that she was pregnant with a second child, and the old lady fainted on the spot.

Appreciate the old man with the baby.

I once knew a man. He is not an old man in the countryside, but an old man in the city. My son works in Shenzhen. My son bought a house in Shenzhen and settled in Shenzhen. His wife went to Shenshen to take care of her son (grandson). Once he came back and took a photo in a residential area in Shenzhen. During the day, a couple or an old man sat on many stone benches in the community, holding a baby. Is this problem a problem now? Don't know yet. In the past, all the young people in the countryside went out to work, leaving only the old people with their babies in the countryside. This is a problem (such as life, education and parents' love). ) There is this problem in the city now, but Eva's parents come home at night to give her some parental love. The problem of education may be that cities are better than rural areas! This man I know has a house in the city where he lives, has his own things to do and sits there every month.