Are boys and girls all the same?

I think it's different. There has been a preference for boys since ancient times, although it has been greatly improved with the development of society and the changes of the times. However, the birth of a baby boy is undoubtedly the happiness of the whole family. In China's traditional concept, a boy represents the blood of a family. So many big treasures in the family are boys, and he will consider having a second child. Today is not the past. Modern people's concept of fertility has undergone a qualitative change in the past. Today's baby depends not only on the fertility of men and women, but also on the economic situation of the family.

There used to be a joke: If you see this person in the street with a good or average family condition, you can see how many children she takes out. The more children she takes, the better the family condition. Actually, it's true when you think about it. Now that you have a child, you should not only feed him, but also bring him up. It can give children love and good material education conditions during their growth. If the oldest child in the family is a boy, many parents will think twice about having another child. After all, there is a saying that boys are CCB and girls are China Merchants Bank.

If you have a second child and a boy, it will undoubtedly increase the pressure of family life. After raising children, you have to worry about their marriage. Some families with two boys said that if they had two boys, they would be "bankrupt". But many parents say that they are willing to work hard for their children's happiness. However, for families whose first child is a baby girl, there is no need to consider having a second child. It doesn't matter whether the second child is male or female.

Perhaps in some families with strong blood relationship, they are more eager to have a second child as a baby. They don't want to have a second child just to leave a souvenir for the treasures of the world. Some parents think it doesn't matter whether the second child is a female treasure or not. There are girls at home now. When they get married, they just need to buy a car for their daughter as a dowry. Driving is enough. Not too concerned. So I think it's different.