You should never tell others about family matters that are not yours, right? After all, it’s not like everyone in my family is just a joke, right?

Yes, that’s right.

Others know that apart from giving you some comfort, they cannot make decisions for you or give you particularly effective suggestions. You are the one in the situation, and you still can’t figure it out. , counting on others? . Sooner or later, you will know who to rely on in the end? It’s still up to you!

If others know about it, it will make you feel a little worried about seeing this outsider again. Not a good thing! Especially colleagues and leaders! This is true even for the best of friends.

What you think is a big deal now will turn out to be nothing in a year! It's not as serious as you thought at the time! It's just that your mentality at that moment couldn't let go or accept it.

As for whether "others" take it as a joke or not, I won't comment. But the question is, is there any difference between being a joke and not being a joke? Not a joke, so what?

When we encounter difficulties, we habitually hold on to others as if they are life-saving straws. Occasionally, let go and chat for a few words. It doesn’t matter. Don’t talk to others too much or too deeply. It will become auspicious forest. Sister-in-law