The poorer you are, the more you love life. Why are poor people more willing to have a second child?

The opening of the second child is a great blessing for many young couples. They can finally welcome the second child without any worries. However, even if many couples join the craze of having a second child, many couples still choose to have fewer children and have better children, because it takes too much to raise a child now. Without sufficient economic strength, time and energy, it is difficult to educate children well.

Therefore, many couples are reluctant to have a second child even if their financial strength is enough to raise a second child. But for some couples with average family conditions or even "a little poor", they are very keen on having a second child. So there is a ridiculous saying: the poorer you are, the more you love life, and the poorer you are, the more you love life. Although it's just a joke, it's not rough, and it tells many stories about families with two children.

The poorer you are, the more you love life.

I believe that in life, we can easily see such an example. Obviously, the living conditions are average, it is a bit hard to raise a child, but you have to regenerate one when you sell iron. I have seen such a living example on the Internet. A couple and two sons live in a house of only 24 square meters. The eldest son felt inferior because of poor family conditions, and he didn't like to associate with people since he was a child.

There are also some couples who are obviously past the age of pregnancy, but still want to have children. They say that the child can be raised after birth, but in the end Dabao still has to bear the responsibility of raising his younger brother and sister, which is unfair to both children. Parents don't have enough ability to choose to have a second child, which will not only hurt their children, but also drag down the whole family.

Why are poor people more willing to have a second child? These three reasons are realistic.

One, another new hope.

For couples with relatively average economic conditions, they place all their hopes on their children, hoping that they will win glory for their parents when they grow up. So these couples will be very strict with their children from an early age. In order to give this family more hope of success, they will choose to have another child, which gives them another chance of success.

It is said that children from poor families are in charge early, which actually has a lot to do with parents' educational methods. Although it is not a bad thing for children to grow up early, every child wants to have a happy childhood. Often those children who are "early masters" are actually unhappy in their childhood.

Second, I hope to have a son.

Many couples with ordinary conditions are more eager to have a son, because they think that only a son can continue the incense and his son will be more promising. Therefore, compared with wealthy families, those families with weak economic strength will prefer to have sons.

But in fact, their concept is too feudal, sons and daughters are all the same, and daughters can become pillars when they grow up. When they grow up, they are more considerate and filial to their parents. And those couples who gave birth to sons often spoil their sons too much, which leads to their son becoming incompetent and not knowing how to be filial to their parents when they grow up.

Third, many people are self-reliant.

Couples who are not so experienced don't have so much savings and can leave little for their children. At this time, they will begin to consider the future pension problem. It must be very stressful for one child to support two old people. If you have another child, both children will support their parents in the future, and the pressure of life will not be so great.

In fact, every parent wants to have a lively family, but nowadays, raising a child doesn't mean that it's over when you raise it well. Now it is not so easy to raise a child and pay attention to all aspects. Therefore, couples who have a second child plan must consider all aspects comprehensively and don't blindly follow suit.