What should I do if I meet an unreasonable old man in public?

When we meet unreasonable old people in public, we should adopt the following strategies to deal with them properly:

1. Stay calm: When you meet unreasonable old people, you should first stay calm and avoid emotional excitement leading to escalation. Keeping calm helps us to deal with problems better and make wise decisions.

For example, on the bus, when unreasonable old people grab seats, keep calm and express their demands with a rational attitude, instead of having a heated argument with them.

2. Listen to the demands: understand the demands of unreasonable old people, and sometimes there may be some truth behind their actions. Listening to their demands can help us better understand their behavior and find a solution to the problem.

When I was waiting in line at the supermarket, I met an old man who lost his temper because he had no money. Listen to their demands patiently, understand the difficulties they encounter, try to provide help and ease the tense atmosphere.

3. Euphemistic communication: When communicating with unreasonable old people, try to keep a euphemistic and polite tone and avoid using provocative or insulting words. Euphemistic communication helps to reduce each other's resistance and solve problems better.

For example, if you meet an old man who takes up public facilities for exercise in a park, you can politely remind them to pay attention to the influence and respect the rights and interests of others, so as to solve the problem.

4. Ask for help: If you can't communicate with unreasonable old people, you can ask people or staff around you for help. They may have better communication skills and experience and be able to solve problems more effectively.

For example, if you meet a noisy old man in a subway car, you can seek the help of the train staff to stop the behavior of the old man and maintain the order of the car.

5. Keep your distance: If you still can't solve the problem by trying the above methods, you can choose to keep your distance temporarily to avoid further conflict with unreasonable old people. Keeping your distance helps to protect yourself and prevent things from getting worse.

For example, if you meet an old man who has a bad attitude towards the waiter in a restaurant, you can choose to change seats to avoid getting involved in unnecessary disputes.

In a word, when encountering unreasonable old people in public, keeping calm, listening to demands, communicating tactfully, asking for help, keeping a distance and other strategies are helpful to properly handle problems and safeguard public order and personal rights and interests.