Comfort her vulnerability in time.

When a woman is weak, she sometimes wraps herself tightly like a hedgehog and forbids anyone to get close to her easily. Sometimes, she is like a confused lamb, afraid to move forward or retreat, full of panic and helplessness. Maybe she always says that she needs help now, but deep down, she really wants you to give him a shoulder to lean on.

A careless man, after hearing a woman say "I'm fine", really thought she was fine, but as soon as you turned around, she might have been crying. However, when a careful man hears a woman say "it doesn't matter", he never leaves, telling her jokes or chatting with him to ease her inner gloom. When she leaves, her eyes are full of gratitude and gentleness.

No matter how strong a woman is, her heart is fragile, and fragile women are most likely to lose confidence. If you are the man around her, your indifference or negligence will only make her mood more depressed. It is said that grief is greater than death, and her concern and enthusiasm for you are likely to vanish in an instant. So, when you find that the woman around you has become weak, please comfort her in time.

Xiaobo was working when the phone suddenly rang. After the connection, his wife Haiyan sobbed from the opposite side. Xiaobo heard his wife crying and asked what was going on. Haiyan cried and said, "I quarreled with my boss, and he asked me to resign and leave." Xiaobo said anxiously, "Don't cry yet. Where are you now? " Haiyan said, "I am on the side of the road." Xiaobo said, "Go home first and pay attention to safety. I'll go home immediately after work." Haiyan let out a cry and hung up the phone.

When Xiaobo came home at night, he found Haiyan asleep on the sofa in the living room. He quickly carried her to bed, covered her with a blanket, and didn't wake Haiyan until dinner was ready.

Xiaobo asked his wife while eating, "What's your problem with the boss?"

Haiyan said: "When other colleagues did something wrong, he just said a few words, but when I did something wrong, he scolded me loudly and said that I was irresponsible in front of my colleagues."

Xiaobo continued to ask, "What did you do wrong?"

Haiyan said aggrieved: "The boss was practicing calligraphy in the office. I accidentally knocked over his ink bottle when I delivered the document, and his calligraphy and painting were destroyed. " . But he insisted that I destroyed important documents and caused great losses to the company. Where can I stand this slander? I just scolded him a few words, but I didn't know that he would let me go when he was angry. "

Xiaobo listened and said, "Your boss is really a little grumpy and unreasonable. But if you ruin my painting, I'm sure I'll be angry, too This is a slap in the face, and being reprimanded is inevitable. Don't be angry! "

Haiyan felt wronged, but she was even angrier when she heard her husband speak for her boss.

Xiaobo smiled helplessly: "well, I'm not angry about this!" There are so many good jobs, why don't we find another one? Eat first. "

Haiyan saw that her husband didn't seem to understand how wronged she was now and seemed to blame her for being unreasonable, so she didn't want to say anything more.

After that day, Xiao Bo only asked Haiyan about finding a job, and he didn't care about anything else. However, Haiyan always felt relieved. Gradually, Xiao Bo noticed the change of Haiyan. She stopped going out to find a job, stayed at home every day, didn't want to go out, and even ignored him. Once, Xiaobo asked her, "Wife, why don't you look for a job?"

Haiyan immediately got excited when she heard this: "Why? Don't you like that I don't have a job? Do you think I eat your flowers? Are you distressed? You have long looked down on me in your heart? "

When Xiao Bo heard Haiyan's sarcastic words, he suddenly froze. He said, "What are you talking about? Who hates you? May you wait for me at home every day and be a housewife in peace. "

Haiyan heard this, and her voice was even higher: "So you think I'm not ashamed to go out?" Well, I'll satisfy you, and I'll die at home in the future. "

Xiaobo really can't listen anymore. Haiyan's temperament has changed too much for him to understand. It's no use telling her now, so he has to turn around and go out. Maybe it's good for both of us to calm down now.

Xiaobo wandered downstairs alone. He wants to know why Haiyan has become so unreasonable. He thought a lot, maybe he didn't care about her too much. It seems that the affair between Haiyan and the boss is not as simple as he thought. Maybe the shadow in her heart changed her temperament greatly.

Thinking of the key reason, Xiao Bo hurried home, only to find Haiyan sitting in the corner crying. Xiaobo went over and hugged her: "Fool, you will catch cold like this." Haiyan cried even more when she heard her husband's concern. Xiaobo comforted her and said, "Cry, cry. It's all my fault that I didn't comfort you in time ... "Xiaobo also encouraged Haiyan to calm down. In the later days, Xiaobo always praised Haiyan's advantages and often made her laugh. In his spare time, he takes her out for a walk. Slowly, Haiyan got rid of the shadow in her heart and understood that her husband's tolerance and pain for her had a long history. Since then, Haiyan has become cheerful again.