Contradiction with cohabiting boyfriend

How sad it is for cohabitation to develop like this.

Men can enjoy a woman's body and her hard-earned money for free ~

It's been two years, it's really not easy, but if you have a man all your life, will you think you are a happy woman?

Living together for a long time, there are two possibilities:

First, get tired of each other and break up.

Second, get married, get a license, have children, and live a lifetime.

Which of these two possibilities will make you happy?

The first possibility is that you have been living together for a long time, and there are more and more contradictions between you because of money. You raise him, you are tired of living, and it is hard enough to work hard outside to see his face. Isn't it pitiful for a woman to raise a man? Then more and more dissatisfaction with each other, and finally broke up. You will find that after living with your heart for two years, there is nothing left: money and material aspects have been consumed by both of you; Your youth is less and your face is old; Feelings, quarrels, nothing left.

The second possibility is that you have lived together for a long time and entered the marriage hall. But in marriage, you have to raise a man, have a child, and you have to raise another child. Nowadays, children's milk powder and education costs are staggering. Are you sure you can spend your whole life with such a man?

It can be seen from your description that your income is increasing slowly, which proves your efforts and efforts. A good woman and a good man should be happy together?

What is a good man? Self-reliance is the foundation. On this basis, you can be responsible for women and afford a home. Life is real, not an idol drama.

It is correct that women should have their own careers. Because women's youth is limited, they are aging quickly, so the money earned by women should be used to protect their bodies and maintain their skin, and also to reward their parents who have worked hard to have children and raise themselves for more than ten or twenty years. Maybe your parents tell you that you don't have to worry about them because they love you dearly and are afraid that you will suffer a lot if you try to make money for them again, but should you take the initiative to think for them? At least give them as much money as possible, let them live a better life, support the elderly and supplement nutrition, and one day they will be seriously ill and have the money to save their lives. Your own health and beauty and the health of your parents are the places where you should really invest.

I can see that you are a woman who has a career and values family life. Can you choose a happy lifestyle rationally?