"Husband, I want to eat durian" "170 yuan each, too expensive, let's eat watermelon" What should I do?

01.

Everyone who has been a mother knows that the taste of pregnant women will change drastically after pregnancy.

Just like Dulan, before she was pregnant, when she smelled durian in the supermarket, she would cover her nose tightly and walk away quickly.

The stench of durian filled her chest and almost suffocated her. She thought she would never like eating durian in her life.

After Dulan became pregnant, she finally got through the most dangerous three months, but her taste changed drastically in the fourth month.

She and her husband held hands that day and went to the supermarket as usual. They also took it as a walk after dinner to enhance their physical fitness during pregnancy.

The two of them wandered to the fruit area. The golden, ripe durians filled the air with a fragrant smell.

Dulan found that he fell in love with the taste of durian. Suddenly I felt a strong craving for food, as if a kitten was scratching me.

02.

But when she saw durians costing dozens of yuan per pound on the label, Dulan felt it was too expensive. She quickly held her husband’s hand and left the durian area. , bought a few boxes of yogurt and went home.

Du Lan continued to work even after she became pregnant. Her husband’s income was only average. She did not dare to resign easily when she thought of the huge cost after the birth of her child.

Although being pregnant, squeezing buses and subways, and being busy at work made her feel overwhelmed, she still gritted her teeth and persevered.

In those nights, Dulan dreamed about stories related to durian. Pregnant women usually want to eat something, and they want to eat it so much that they can't help it.

Dulan decided to go to the supermarket in a few days and buy the cheapest durian. It was really uncomfortable not being able to eat what he wanted when he was pregnant.

03.

After Dulan became pregnant, because she was too busy at work, she basically had no time to cook, so her husband took her mother-in-law home and took care of her three meals a day.

That day, as usual, my husband, mother-in-law and Du Lan slowly moved to the supermarket. The weather was too hot in summer, and everyone liked to use the air conditioner in the supermarket.

This time Dulan walked directly to the durian. Her husband was looking at her mobile phone next to her. While her mother-in-law was looking at the products in the supermarket, she made a tut-tutting sound and said: Things in the city are just too expensive, even watermelons. It costs 4 yuan per catty, but in the countryside it costs 50 cents per catty.

"Husband, buy a durian." Dulan said to her husband.

"It's too expensive, one costs several hundred." My husband said, staring at the screen.

“I chose the cheapest one, which costs 170 yuan and weighs 5 pounds. The fruit seller just told me that durian shells can be used to stew chicken. It is very nutritious and especially good for pregnant women. "We can eat together then." Du Lan still wanted to convince her husband.

"Forget it, 170 yuan is too expensive. Don't spend money randomly. Just buy watermelons. Watermelons are cheap." The husband did not change his decision.

"Yes, Dulan, it is indeed too expensive. A durian costs 170 yuan. Who can afford this? You are pregnant now, which is a special period, but you can't spend money indiscriminately. The child is born. There will be a lot of money to spend in the future, but you still have to save a little now." The mother-in-law also helped her son.

04.

Three people voted for it, two voted in favor, and one voted against it. Dulan simply said that she could not win against her husband and mother-in-law, so she had to go home unhappy.

Actually, she has lived a very frugal life since she became pregnant. When other colleagues were pregnant, their husbands would buy a lot of fruits, walnuts, red dates, and pregnant women’s milk to replenish their wives’ bodies, but Dulan’s husband bought everything. They would not prepare anything for her, and even if she wanted to eat a coveted durian, her husband and mother-in-law thought she was spending money frivolously.

Du Lan suddenly felt that she only wanted to eat one durian, and it was not something she would eat every day. If she did, she would really not be able to afford it. Could she not afford even one durian?

The next morning, my mother-in-law cooked an extra egg for Duran and advised him: "Eggs are cheap and it doesn't cost any money anyway. When you finish eating the eggs at home, I will go back to my hometown and help you again." Bring some here, that durian is really too expensive, let’s not spend money randomly, keep all the money, and buy new clothes for the baby when the time comes.” Du Lan took the eggs prepared by his mother-in-law, but he didn’t have any. After talking, she picked up her bag and went to the bus station to get ready to take the bus. Why did she feel that her marriage had just begun, but she already felt very tired.

A durian has seen through her husband's stinginess, and maybe she has to make other plans for herself.

Among the fruits, durian is indeed relatively expensive. For Dulan, if she wants to eat a durian after she becomes pregnant, I think it can be done.

First of all, Dulan didn’t eat it every day, and she didn’t like it at all before. After getting pregnant, Dulan’s taste changed and she really wanted to eat it. She was reluctant to spend money, but she still decided to buy one. Treat yourself well.

I think that if the fruit is very expensive, it is completely possible to eat one occasionally and let your family try it out for a taste.

Moreover, this is still a special period for Dulan. She wants to eat because she is pregnant, but her husband and mother-in-law think she is spending money randomly.

In the end, Dulan did not just have a free time. Although she was tired and hard at work, she still gritted her teeth and persisted in order to reduce the burden on her husband. A woman who devoted so much to her family was really not worthy of that 170 Durian for 1 yuan? So I can understand why Dulan felt tired and chilled.

I hope men can satisfy their wives’ little requirements during this special period of pregnancy. Because women don’t want much, maybe they just want to eat durian once, maybe they just want to watch a movie.

Life is very stressful, and adult life is indeed not easy, but the occasional sense of ritual and occasional satisfaction are enough for women.

These small touches of warmth and ritual were enough to warm up the loneliness and coldness in the rest of her life. Dulan is a very good woman and I hope her husband will treat her well.