Self-discipline depends on the heart, not for others

In the shower, on the way to the bathroom (including going to the bathroom), before going to bed, while waiting for the bus, I will inadvertently think about what I have done recently, what I will do in the next few days, and whether the plan has been completed.

Often the plan is written and the list is made, but it will not be completed, or the time is up. Why? After thinking about it for a long time, I think it is still a matter of self-discipline.

The so-called self-discipline, starting from the literal meaning, should focus on the law, but it should start from itself. Self-discipline depends on self-management, whether it is work or life. If you wait until someone tells you, urges you and urges you, then your self-discipline is not enough.

Have you ever heard of a saying? Self-discipline can be free.

Let me talk about my own problems first. For example, you need to hand in your homework on Sunday. In fact, you have six days (Monday to Saturday) to think about how to write an article. You always think there is still time behind, but sometimes it is temporary. Coincidentally, your Sunday time is disrupted and filled. As a result, you don't hand in your homework until the last few hours. We can often see such examples in our daily life and work. I get bored when I have time. When there is no time, it can't be done.

Procrastinate yourself and make excuses for yourself. Brush a Weibo, watch a circle of friends, browse a small video, and time will be spent there.

Every day, I can see people I like to watch online, subscription numbers, chicken soup and chicken blood, inspiration and encouragement, and dry goods skills. You have everything you want to enrich your life, provided that it belongs to others.

Although I feel very different from when I just graduated, I found that the growth rate is too slow.

I haven't read any books, so there should be 100-200 books now. Fitness, there are small abdominal muscles at present, as well as travel, work and so on. I feel better than I never planned before. But then again, I still haven't seen anything real, not just money, but other things. Compared with other friends, I still belong to the original place, because these can't bring food to the economy or work. To be clear, I haven't got an identity, and I haven't made some achievements.

So even if I read all kinds of stories about chicken blood, positive energy and inspiration every day, I can't change my present situation at all, because I don't have a plan for 3 or 5 years at all, and sometimes I often make excuses for myself. Is it because I don't have a career I like, so I can fight for it? But I think some people start their own businesses. At first, they didn't know that they belonged to this material. Didn't they start slowly? Sometimes I wonder what kind of person I am. I like too many things, but I don't have that kind of obsession. It's just that some people are addicted to or keen on basketball, baking and photographic lights. I'm not afraid of jokes. I like dancing, making cold salad, being crazy, organizing activities and doing interesting things. Then the problem is coming. Can these be an extension of my career? Because everything is three-point heat. Promise yourself to learn an instrument, and then a guitar. I just learned fingering and didn't go to class. At present, I only say a little star. Yoga bar, practice a few classes, don't even pay tuition, swim, just play with water every time you go to the pool, you can't learn at all, it's too difficult! You see, without self-discipline, you can't learn any of them.

Many facts can explain this truth. If you always study and live in a demanding environment, it is difficult to make progress, so you should learn to restrain yourself, demand yourself, and turn passivity into initiative. So I also want to give myself a new plan.

1, customize the priority of things and prioritize them.

2. Aim at a self-disciplined lifestyle.

3. Challenge your excuses

Before you do something, put aside the reward.

5. Focus on results.

I always hope to find someone with the same frequency and cure our procrastination and excuse. Have you always wanted to learn something, but never insisted? You've always wanted to see a movie, but you've never clicked the play button, wanted to read a book, and never opened the catalog. Have you always wanted to go for a fitness morning run, but you never get up early? Have you always wanted to travel, but never booked a plane ticket? There are too many small things and so-called important things in life that you haven't dealt with and completed. Even in our life, we take off our clothes, wash our shoes, meet a friend and buy some things. It's not that we don't have time, but that we all ignore it! Yes All I have to do now is finish those damn trifles as soon as possible.

So interested friends can trust me privately. Let's build a WeChat group to list the things we want to do every day, supervise each other, encourage each other and make progress together. I just think it's a simple idea, because I think I read something inspirational and useful every day, but if I don't do it, you will always belong to the same place. No wonder someone else got promoted, started a business, got rich, traveled, and you commented and left messages with others. So, no matter what good courses, books, movies, and so on, as long as you want to have a beautiful day and a bright future, we will be together.

I said to myself, "only move forward, not stand still."