Mom always peeks at my diary. I am very distressed. What should I do?

Write your troubles in a diary (smirking), then wait for your mother to finish reading ~ and then write at the end of the diary: I hope my mother can understand my troubles, and I also want to know what my mother thinks. If possible, I hope mom can write down her thoughts ~ (fake smile)

The above is my bad idea from generate. You can try it if you are interested. How to deal with it will also be described in detail below.

First of all, I think it is very unreliable to lock hair, hide hair and grab bags. It is impossible to prevent this little trick from treating parents.

Let's analyze the psychology of parents.

There are two aspects, one is the desire to peep into the human heart, the curiosity that is eager to move, and the other is the concern of parents, hoping to understand their children's thoughts by reading diaries. Maybe you will know how much your parents want to get to know you after you have children.

Even my mother, who had special respect for me, once turned over my diary, but after I expressed my dissatisfaction, she sincerely apologized to me and said it wouldn't happen again.

From then on, I will often exchange my ideas with them and tell them the latest situation. After all, it is much more labor-saving to listen to me than to read the diary word by word ~

Therefore, what you need to do is not sulk alone or fall out with your mother, but find an opportunity to tell her that it is wrong to steal a diary (don't say anything that infringes on personal privacy, my mother will definitely refute it and be sad), and tell her that if you want to know about your life, you can ask you directly and communicate with you.

No matter how close people are, they should keep a certain distance and give each other space. After all, parents don't tell others everything, do they? Diary is also a place where you can sort out your thoughts and reflect on yourself. Parents should understand.

Then don't talk empty words, talk to your mother more and communicate. This is the right thing. Parents also need a sense of security ~