A girl's joke

Most of the characters in A Dream of Red Mansions are rich in layers. It's hard to say who is a good person and who is a bad person, but Jia Huan can be said to be a "bad boy", a bad boy who is not liked by people from the outside to the inside.

In the eyes of his father Jia Zheng, Jia Huan was "stingy and rude" and was called "black-hearted seed" by Mrs. Wang. Even his own mother, Aunt Zhao, said that he was "dirty and lifeless" and "not allowed to stand on the high platform".

Jia Huan intentionally knocked over the oil lamp, blinding his younger brother Baoyu, and falsely accused Baoyu of raping a servant girl to his father. These two things he has done have also become irrefutable evidence that readers don't like him.

But was Jia Huan born a bad boy?

In fact, Jia Huan had a hard time. He has never been loved by his parents. His most familiar feelings are "despised", "reviled", "ridiculed" and "ignored". His world is cold and dark, lacking sunshine. Even so, he still lives very hard and has to say that he is tenacious. However, the dark living environment created his gloomy psychology and deformed personality, and Jia Huan grew up to be a "bad boy".

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The twelfth time Jia Huan appeared for the first time. This time, the protagonists are Wang Xifeng, Lin Daiyu and others, and only Jia Huan appears in the middle. Of course, a small person like him is not allowed to return to his goal.

This is the first month, and everyone is mainly entertaining. Jia Huan came to Baochai to play. Their game is called "hide and seek". The first time, he won, and he was very happy. After losing several sets in succession, he was a little anxious. Finally, he lost again and cheated directly. Being robbed by Yinger, "the master still depends on our money, even I don't care." I played with teacher Bao the other day. If he loses those games, he is not worried. The rest of the money was still taken by several little girls, and he just smiled. " Jia Huan said, "How can I compare with Baoyu? You are afraid of him, you are all good to him, and you bully me. My wife didn't raise me. " He cried when he said it. Jia Huan at this time should still be a child of about ten years old. His words and deeds are childish. He will cheat, he will cry indignantly, and of course he will tell the truth.

"My wife doesn't support me" tells Jia Huan's living dilemma, but this sentence is to be laughed at in the adult world. Baochai quickly stopped Jia Huan's complaints with kindness. From then on, Jia Huan never said such a thing again, but it penetrated into his blood like poison, making him gradually vicious.

Is Jia Huan really as short of money as Jia San Ye? So much so that you lost a few dollars and cheated on that girl. I think what Jia Huan lacks is not money, but respect.

Although Jia Huan is unpopular, the monthly example should be indispensable and there should be no shortage of materials. But because of his background, people always look down on him, and Aunt Zhao always makes trouble for no reason, which makes Jia Huan's situation even more worrying. Don't say that Mrs. Wang doesn't like him, even girls of all ages don't take him seriously, but he is still a "Jia" and a serious master in name. He didn't get the respect he deserved, which made him very painful.

Jia Huan was able to play with Baochai and others this time because Baochai thought he looked like Baoyu and didn't like him, so he asked him to come up and sit in a place to play. Maybe Jia Huan had been to several places before, but people didn't want to play with him, especially those arrogant little girls, which made him angry and sad. He came to Baochai to try his luck, but fortunately Baochai accepted him. He thinks he must win these girls and make them afraid of themselves, so he is glad to win and eager to lose. He really can't afford to lose. He lost not only money, but also dignity. A ten-year-old child who tries to gain respect in this way is doomed to lose even worse.

As a result, it was robbed by the maid and taught a lesson by Baoyu. He went back in frustration, hoping to get some comfort from his mother, but what did Jia Huan get? Aunt Zhao spat, "Who told you to go to the high platform?" Dirty and shameless thing! Where can't I play? Who told you to run away to discuss this boring! "

Aunt Zhao's words were fatal to Jia Huan. If Jia Huan's previous injuries were all skin injuries, Aunt Zhao stabbed Jia Huan in the heart. Jia Huan can run to play with everyone, crying with grievances, which shows that he thinks from the bottom of his heart that he is a person worthy of respect, and he is entitled to be respected by others, but Aunt Zhao has completely ruined Jia Huan's heart for goodness. Aunt said so much, Jia Huan felt that he was a dirty and shameful person, a person who could not stand on the high platform. He accepted that he was born humble, and humble people can only do humble things.

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Later, Jia Huan became "petty" in the eyes of his father. Every time I see this, I feel sorry for Jia Huan. Some people think Jia Huan is obscene. Shouldn't a biological father reflect on something when he sees his son? But all I read from Jia Zheng's eyes is disgust.

What exactly is a "small belly and chicken intestines"? "Petty" is not "obscene", the latter has an evil taste, and the former means to curl up and not stretch. Children who have never been loved will almost always appear in this position. They are always on the defensive against the world. They dare not open their arms to embrace the world and make eye contact with others. Their eyes are more evasive and squinting, but this adds to his family spirit.

Jia Huan was not treated gently by the world, and "evil" bred and spread in his heart. At an early age, I put all these accounts on my half-brother, Baoyu, who was loved by thousands of people. He thinks it is his brother who blocks his sunshine. If there is no brother, everyone will see him and he will get everything he wants. Therefore, he bears a grudge against Baoyu.

Finally, one day, Baoyu snatched the only girl who was good with him, Cai Yun, which made him unbearable and took a hard revenge. It is said that Mrs. Tianwang kindly asked Jia Huan to copy the Diamond Sutra mantra on her kang, which was a great gift to Jia Huan. You know, only Baoyu can move freely on that kang, as if he were on Mrs. Wang's kang, on an equal footing with Baoyu and enjoying the feeling of being the master of the house. He wants to control Mrs. Wang's arrogant maids and ask Cai Yun to pour tea later. But the ladies-in-waiting ignored his love and took him seriously.

After a while, Baoyu came. He changed his clothes and threw himself into Mrs. Wang's arms. Mrs. Wang rubbed his face all over, and Baoyu moved Mrs. Wang's neck to gossip. This intimate picture of mother and son makes Jia Huan envious and jealous. His mother, Aunt Zhao, has never caressed him like this, let alone Mrs. Wang. This is the tenderness he wanted but never got.

It is understandable that Mrs. Wang treated her son like this, but Baoyu asked him to pat him and hold hands, which made him laugh. Aren't there many maids who like Baoyu? Why did Baoyu come to rob Cai Yun? Jia Huan finally can't press this tone. Seeing the oil lamp, he had an idea. You all like Baoyu, isn't it because Baoyu looks good? Do you still like him if I burn his eyes blind?

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If the hot face incident is just an intrigue between children, then the false accusation incident marks another big step for Jia Huan on the road of malice.

Jia Huan finally returned to his eyes. On the thirty-third session, "Brothers and sisters were eyeing each other, swearing at each other and lashing at each other." The first sentence said that Jia Huan had falsely accused him, and the second said that Baoyu was beaten. Jia Huan didn't have many scenes, but as Huimu said, a little talk and a few words played a role in fanning the flames, which made Jia Zheng so angry that he drank "bring Baoyu" and made up his mind to kill Baoyu.

To say that this ancient playboy is not good, there are many codes of conduct, such as not being depressed, not running around, not talking back, not talking back. In a word, if you make a mistake, you will be praised by your father and even beaten. So Baoyu and Jia Huan are the same when they meet Jia Zheng. One is "panting" and the other is "scared to the bone", calling him my brother.

This time Jia Zheng saw Jia Huan running around disgracefully, and he was so angry that he didn't beat him. However, Jia Huan improvised and successfully diverted Jia Zheng's attention. Jia Huan said, "I didn't run before, because I passed by and drowned a girl in that well. I think my head is so big and my body is so thick. It's really terrible to soak. " Later, Baoyu raped Jinchuan, and Jinchuan jumped into the well in a rage. Jia Zheng was ignited and gave Baoyu a good beating, which shocked the whole court. Both Jia Mu and Mrs. Wang threatened to die before Jia Zheng stopped.

Jia Huan should be happy to have dug such a big hole for Baoyu, but I guess he is not happy either, and it may be more envy and jealousy. He originally wanted to make Baoyu suffer, but after Baoyu was beaten, he made a mess up and down, and everyone didn't care about him. On the contrary, it proves Baoyu's position in the eyes of everyone. He didn't get more love because Baoyu was beaten. He was a real bad guy.

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Jia Huan made a lot of noise, and he found that he didn't get any tangible benefits. As usual, everyone dislikes him. Nobody takes him seriously except Cai Yun. He is a bit resigned. The sixtieth time, Jia Huan wanted to ask Baoyu for nitrate roses. Fang Guan reluctantly gave Jia Huan a packet of jasmine powder. Jia Huan reached out to pick it up, and Fang Guan threw it on the kang. Jia Huan is not angry at all. He picked it up on the kang, held it in his arms, and went to Cai Yun happily. Cai Yun smiled and said, "They are lying to you. This is not nitrate, but jasmine powder." Jia Huan smiled. "Nitric acid powder is all the same. Save it for wiping. It would be better if it was higher than what you bought outside. "

It was supposed to be over, but Aunt Zhao quit. She decided that Baoyu's "slut" looked down on Jia Huan and deliberately played tricks on her. Aunt Zhao is a little overreacting, but it makes sense. She can intuitively feel the girls' aversion to Jia Huan. Although Fang Guan's powder change was not intentional, her dislike for Jia Huan was real. This can't be said to be kind, just seeing that Jia Huan is not bad, he stepped on his foot. No wonder Aunt Zhao said, "Baoyu is his brother, so I dare not bump into him. Don't his cats and dogs dare to ask? " She called Jia Huan a dirty and inflexible thing and had to be angry with these girls. Jia Huan was ashamed and anxious, saying, "I was provoked into trouble, beaten and scolded, and you usually kept your head down. Now you are inciting me to make trouble with the girls! "

Although Jia Huan is a little unwilling, he doesn't want to make trouble, because every time he makes trouble, he is beaten and scolded, and Aunt Zhao won't support him, and he will bear all the consequences alone.

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Even if people all over the world don't like him, there are colorful clouds, which is also good, but he finally lost colorful clouds because of excessive suspicion. Cai Yun took a bottle of rose dew from Mrs. Wang's room to Aunt Zhao. Later, it was reported that she stole it. Baoyu hindered Tanchun's face and agreed, saying that he was bluffing them with rose dew, and this subsided. But Jia Huan quit when he found out. He decided that Cai Yun and Baoyu were good, and Baoyu took the blame for her. No matter how Cai Yun explained it, he wouldn't listen. Finally, he broke his hand and left. Cai Yun hid in the quilt and cried all night. At this point, Jia Huan and Cai Yun broke up completely.

Many people can't help saying that Jia Huan is so stubborn, stingy and ignorant. No wonder nobody likes him. He deserved it! But I tried to look at it from Jia Huan's point of view and thought he had his reasons. With his life experience, he can't understand Baoyu at all. He didn't believe that Baoyu would take the fall for a servant girl for no reason unless he got some benefits. As for the sake of his third sister, it is sheer nonsense to coax him. I didn't expect that Cai Yun, like other maids, liked Baoyu and was duplicitous, which really chilled him. In the past, all his sincerity towards Cai Yun was in vain, and he thought of her when he had something good. As for the rose dew, it was preserved by Baoyu's kindness. Isn't this his shame? Are those things that Jia Huan values? What he values is Cai Yun's heart, which is not on him. What's the point of wanting those things?

The only girl who cares about him has also been robbed by Baoyu. The world is really unfair to him! Jia Huan's heart became colder and harder, and hatred was buried deeper.

I am not surprised at what evil things Jia Huan did in the last forty years after the downfall of Jia Fu, because the seeds of evil have been gestating in his heart, and it is only a matter of time before they blossom and bear fruit.

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Is Jia Huan going to spend his life in the dark? I am afraid so. Is it possible that one day, Jia Huan suddenly found his conscience, abandoned evil and turned over a new leaf? Absolutely difficult. Unless you have to meet a master, you can see his inner darkness and make it disappear. But what kind of chance does a person have to meet such a good thing?

Jia Huan's tragedy stems not only from his unmarried female identity, but also from his lack of love and the love of his parents. His parents have never seen him. Beneath his petty appearance, there is a sensitive and fragile heart that needs to be comforted, but no one has ever patted him on the shoulder and said, son, you deserve everything.

Jia Zheng is honest and never smiles at his son, either hitting or scolding him. It is a very slim thing to get fatherly love from this traditional father. Not to mention Jia Huan, Baoyu didn't get any love from Jia Zheng. It's up to mom next. Anyway, Mrs. Wang let Baoyu roll in her arms and complain. Aunt Zhao will only scold Jia Huan and stir him up. Jia Huan is very wronged. Aunt Zhao was filled with indignation, fearing that it was not a big deal. Where did she have the energy and ability to comfort Jia Huan? She only scolded him, and this scolding was always on people. She directly defined Jia Huan as "dirty and dull" and "not allowed to go to the high platform". Aunt Zhao talks too much, so Jia Huan can only pretend to be inferior.

Imagine if Jia Huan was wronged and Aunt Zhao said, "It doesn't matter, it's just that you lost a few dollars. You are the man of Jia family. Don't be as knowledgeable as those little girls, just give them a reward. I'll give you money to play. Winning or losing is not important, happiness is the most important, and you are the best in your mother's eyes. " With such affirmation and self-confidence, Jia Huan will certainly not grow into a wretched appearance, nor will he laugh at losing money like Baoyu. Then girls will not look down on him, he will be more confident and his life will be different.

However, Aunt Zhao is still busy. Where can love flow to Jia Huan? Of course, this is also determined by Aunt Zhao's living environment, so we can't be harsh on Aunt Zhao. Everyone has limitations, and it is impossible for people to do things beyond their own cognition. Maybe this is fate.

Jia Huan struggled to grow up in such an environment that lacked love and was full of contempt, ridicule and abuse, and then he involuntarily became a bad boy hated by everyone.

Whose tragedy is this?