Never explain yourself to others

In life, we always care about the opinions of others, so we always like to explain and prove ourselves in order to cater to everyone.

Pay attention to our surroundings: "If I do this, what will others say about me?", "What will others think of me?", "Will they laugh at me?"... .

This kind of person lets other people's evaluations dominate and regards them as more important than his own opinions, and is easily influenced by them.

In particular, everyone has different opinions and opinions, so other people’s evaluations are often different. You have to struggle with it or even don’t know what to do. You are always in the state of “I don’t know what to do” all year round. I was surrounded by embarrassment and tension, and I couldn't find my way out.

If you care too much about other people’s evaluations, you will lose your way and cannot find the way forward.

What's worse is that other people's evaluations may not be correct or completely correct. If you care too much about other people's opinions and easily adopt other people's opinions, the results may be worse.

If what you hear is some opinions that have personal biases and personal goals, or some opinions that are afraid of chaos, have ulterior motives, and have ulterior motives, you should listen to them without any screening. If you accept the letter, maybe you just fell into someone's trap, and they are secretly complacent and calling you a bastard!

In life, we are always used to explaining ourselves to outsiders; explaining who we are and what we have done.

I am afraid that others will misunderstand me, but I often forget how I see myself.

But have we ever seriously thought about why we care so much about other people’s opinions?

Life is your own. You can live it how you want. You never need to explain it to others. People who understand you don’t need explanations, and people who don’t understand you won’t believe any of your explanations. .

Wear what you want to wear, do what you want to do, and be with the people you like.

There is no need to frame yourself in a fixed frame, and you never need to waste words with unnecessary people.

We just need to be ourselves. Whether you are facing the incomprehension of others or being in an unfriendly environment, you can choose to laugh it off.

Because everyone needs to control their own life, and we do not need to live in the expectations of others.

In the end, you will find that everyone has a different way of thinking. You cannot satisfy everyone. Just be yourself. If you only care about what others think, you will not survive. Got to be extremely tired.

There are two major misunderstandings in life: one is to live life for others to see, and the other is to see other people’s lives.

It seems that because you can't prove your own happiness, you need to prove it through the eyes of others. In fact, this is a kind of vanity and inferiority complex.

Don't live too passively, because this will make you very hard.

As long as you feel happy, there is no need to prove anything to others.

Don’t look at others and take the wrong path under your own feet.

Life is so interesting, exaggerated, hypocritical, and packaged, and only those who don’t know you like you.

Someone who really knows you will definitely recognize that what you say is the one who left a comment for you.

Don’t live as a struggle in the eyes of others, live as a free life in your own eyes.

Once a person forces himself to live what others expect him to be, he is no longer his true self.

Just like the classic line that was played badly in TVB: "The most important thing in life is to be happy." Why should you embarrass yourself and wrong yourself?

Shouldn’t people live a free and easy life, enjoying grudges and grudges?

Yes, why do you have to force yourself to live according to others’ expectations?

You are your own, and if you want to live, you have to live your own life, that’s all!

I find that as I grow up, many things are insignificant, and I don’t bother to explain some misunderstandings. I care about less and less things. If everything gets to the bottom of it, it will become complicated. Sometimes I will repeat it. Ask yourself, "What do I care about?"

If something is lost, you can buy it again. When a friend passes away, it means that the fate is over. Lovers are destined to come and go. People who are open-minded will never have trouble with themselves.

Don’t try to find lost friends or pester lovers who don’t love you. This kind of obsession will only make people hate you more.

Some people are always afraid of other people's eyes and comments, and then live in fear of becoming what others see.

I would like to ask you, are you happy like this?

Always care about other people's opinions and ignore your own feelings.

You always want to live a life that others think is wonderful, but you lose your true self.

The reason why people feel happy is because they live the way they want. For those who care about others, you just live the way they want.

Of course, it is indeed difficult to follow your own path and let others have your say.

But if you can think of it, no matter how well a person does, there will always be people criticizing you behind your back, then will you still care so much about what others say?

Who doesn’t talk about others before others, and who doesn’t talk about others after others?

This is the world that people live in. Either you tell others or you are told by others, it will never change.

Sometimes, the more you care about, the more tired you will be, and nothing will change at all.

Don’t care too much about other people’s evaluations. If they understand you, there is no need to explain; if they don’t understand you, explanations are useless.

People are multi-faceted. In real life, nothing can help you understand a person better than direct contact and direct communication.

Trying to describe a person's whole picture from other people's mouths is simply a fantasy.

What's more, he treats everyone differently?

If you want to truly understand a person, then get in touch with him. Only what you feel personally is how he treats you.

May we all live our truest self!