I like a male colleague in the company. He is warm-hearted and friendly. He is a bit of a sissy. Sometimes he will take the initiative to help me rub my shoulders and touch my head.

He should be passive. If you are passive, there is basically no hope, so if you like her, take the initiative and at least give him a hint (seeing that he should be a stupid and introverted type), but some people only know it later, so you should be patient and careful. Besides, he tried to explain to you, but you turned him down, which shows that he still cares about you, but your response made him very disappointed, especially for this type of man (brother is also this type of experience). He may think that you don't care about him at all and don't respect him enough (because such men are generally not confident enough), so he doesn't want to talk to you very much. . . For this type of man, it is all so-called face and self-esteem. . . But if you take the initiative to be nice to him, it is actually very easy to catch up with this type of man!

Boys generally don't like girls who are taller than themselves, of course, this is also related to the so-called face. . . But of course, it is not absolute. Some short people like tall people, and vice versa. Don't go too far, just OK~~~

Good luck! !