How to comfort a long-distance relationship

How to comfort long-distance friends? Long-distance love has gone through a lot of hardships, but it can't be eliminated in a few words. Pay attention to your own methods and some skills!

First, speak just right.

Different people have different understandings and understandings of a sentence, so if you want to comfort a person, you must first understand his psychological thoughts and make appropriate explanations and comforts according to his personal preferences, so as to truly show your concern for him and really help him. But in any case, some words should never be said. For example, I told you not to. I warned you before.

Second, know how to end the conversation at the right time.

If your friend is very depressed, end the conversation immediately, meet him as soon as possible and solve the problem face to face. It's possible that ta is just sad because she misses you. If you comfort ta blindly on the phone, ta will feel very tired in a long-distance relationship. At this time, he will immediately end the conversation, buy a plane ticket, and then appear in front of ta for the first time. In this move, ta probably remembers a generation asking others about the specific situation. When you are far away from your lover, you can't know his life for the first time. The only way is to find out what happened to your ta through others.

Third, be a qualified listener.

Because you and your lover are far apart. You can't communicate with ta face to face at all, maybe only by phone. But you should listen to ta carefully, because even if you can't see each other, you can feel your seriousness through words.

Fourth, in view of the problems of ta, give some suggestions to ta.

Couples should help each other. This doesn't mean that you have to be useful to lovers. Maybe you can't help ta, but your help behavior does reflect your concern and concern for ta. You really want to help ta, and you really want ta to be good. And you have to make suggestions, not just long speeches, because that's not real advice, it's more flashy. Your suggestion should be useful and really solve his problem.

Fifth, guide ta to see the bright side of life.

Eliminate the psychological gloom of friends, because it is very necessary for ta to live a better life. But how to help ta get rid of negative emotions is not a simple matter. The most concise and effective way is to tell a joke or show ta some funny pictures. You can even make your own photos funny and send them to ta. As a result, ta will definitely laugh.

Sixth, use mobile phone expressions.

People's expressions are the concrete language that can best express personal psychological changes. If your mobile phone has the function of sending characters, you should make good use of it. Generally there are these expressions: happy, sad, depressed, surprised, excited, angry and so on. In the process of talking with friends, you can express your current mood from time to time, which can deepen your understanding to a certain extent. Some happy and surprised expressions can bring some warmth to others and make people feel closer.