My wife always says, "I'm not happy about our divorce." What should I do?

Then divorce. A woman like this who always talks about divorce does not know how to cherish marriage. When encountering problems, the first thing she thinks of is not how to resolve conflicts but directly divorce. Then divorce her. Let her regret it.

Such a woman is often very willful, and she is the leader in the family. She will quarrel with anyone who does not follow her wishes, and her children will not be well educated, her husband will not take good care of her, and she will not care about the family. Just like to eat, drink and have fun by yourself? Is your wife like this?

I had an aunt like this before. Because she was younger than my uncle and beautiful, she felt that she wanted to be pampered and treated like a princess. I don’t do anything at home, and I don’t care after the child is born. What I like most every day is watching TV and gossiping with several women of the same age in the village, calculating this, calculating that. If my uncle tells me, I will quarrel, and he will divorce me if he can. Anyone who doesn't go to the Civil Affairs Bureau is a fool. There are many unpleasant words, so why would such a wife marry into the family? Provide it!

Divorce, divorce decisively.

After her uncle divorced her, her life was not easy. Although she did not have children, the family she remarried could no longer compare with my uncle’s family situation. Moreover, the man also committed domestic violence. These were all There is no way to verify it, I just heard it from people in the village, but it is true that she was not having a good life.

So when you say that your wife says, "I'm not happy about our divorce," it's mostly out of anger, and it's just an attempt to think that you don't dare to divorce her because you don't have the conditions for her. In fact, she is immature and has no sense of responsibility and has not fully devoted herself to family life. She is still immersed in her single life and cannot extricate herself.

The word divorce cannot be said casually, because a woman doesn’t know when her husband will directly say, OK, let’s see how it ends. Originally it was just a sentence meant to scare him and control him, but instead, this willful sentence became a sentence that ruined everything.

Don’t be aggressive in marriage. After all, we are all living under the same roof. There is no point in being so domineering. Home is not a place to be reasonable, but a place to talk about love. Could it be that your wife didn’t even ask for a divorce? Am I afraid of really losing you? If she calmly quarrels with you after telling you about divorce and clearly looks down on you, why would she want such an unequal marriage? There will be no happiness at all.

It is said that "it is better to demolish ten temples than destroy one marriage." If you want to persuade peace rather than break up, just think of what Ma Yili said: Marriage is not easy, do it and cherish it. She said that when you get divorced, just go in with one ear and out with the other. She may be saying it out of anger, so just bear with it and let it pass.

Just purple.