The girl was chatting very well and suddenly became cold. We were chatting well on WeChat.

In order to reduce the cost of pursuit, many relationships start with "Let's add WeChat first", and Liu Wei is one of them. After we witnessed the end of his last relationship, not long after, he happily told us that he was pursuing a girl.

After a while, just when we all thought he had developed the relationship from online to offline, Liu Wei said with a grimace that he didn’t know why the girl suddenly ignored him.

My heart skipped a beat and I hurriedly asked, "Did you give her any money?"

Liu Wei said "no"

He breathed a sigh of relief, it was all Caused by telecommunications fraud.

If there is no deception, then why do girls who have a good conversation suddenly ignore you? There are reasons for boys and there are reasons for girls. Reasons for girls:

1. She is just lonely for a while

The relationship between men and women is not just a relationship between male and female friends, so the opposite sex that girls chat with cannot be just Someone you like or care about.

When a girl is bored, or when her relationship is not developing smoothly, if a man appears in her world, although he has never met him, he will give her a good feeling, and I will have a lively chat with you.

When reality calls her again, her attention will return to real life, and you are just the person on the Internet who can talk to her about her concerns.

2. While chatting, she found out that there is nothing she wants in you

Some people chat with the opposite sex to relieve their loneliness and depression; Because looking for what you want, such as money, vanity...

When a girl chats with you for a while and finds that you are not the person she is looking for, she will slowly Ignore you, or even block you directly.

3. She has found a better chat partner, even her other half in real life

Girls who can have a hot relationship with the opposite sex on WeChat usually lack the ones in real life. Love.

They need to find recognition from chatting with the opposite sex and the feeling of being sought after and loved. If she has already met such a person in reality, then why would she abandon the one right in front of her and choose you who is far away?

To put it bluntly, it still feels wrong. You are a good chat partner, but you are not someone who can make her attracted.

4. Girls’ living conditions have changed

Our lives cannot always be the same. Maybe we have moved away from the original place because of work; The post suddenly became busy.

Naturally, many things were left out, including you. However, being able to suddenly ignore you because of changes in life also shows that you are not important to her. Reasons for boys:

1. You said the wrong thing, even if you don’t know what you did wrong

Girls have more delicate hearts, and of course they are more sensitive than boys. Maybe a simple joke may seem normal to you, but to a girl, it may be just a joke.

Therefore, if a girl suddenly ignores you while you are having a good chat, the first thing a boy can do is to reflect on whether he said something wrong.

2. You ignored her

If a girl says you are not available when she needs you, then don’t let her take the initiative to find you afterwards. She held grievances and her little dignity in her heart.

If you have been chatting with a girl on WeChat for a month and still haven’t moved from the virtual network to reality, you can basically judge that it’s no longer possible.

So, don’t have too many illusions, so you won’t be too disappointed.