What unspoken rules do you think about in society?

1. When you bring small-priced items such as snacks and breakfast to others, and they want to transfer money to you, just accept the money honestly. Don’t think that the other person will think you are stingy, and he will feel uncomfortable if you don’t accept it.

No one is short of these few dollars, and no one is willing to owe you a favor for these few dollars.

2. If you want others to think you are generous and willing to make friends with you, don’t treat them to a daily meal worth 1,000 yuan as soon as you meet them, but treat them to ordinary meals worth 100 yuan 10 times in daily life. .

3. Always retain the mystery of 30.

This will give you more room in your daily communication life, and can also enhance your personality charm.

4. Don’t complain in front of older people or elders that life is too difficult and the world is not worth it.

You thought you were just complaining, but it felt like a mockery to them. How young are you to say that the world is not worth it? How can people older than you live like this?

5. No one is perfect. In the workplace, you will inevitably encounter some strong competitors and make some mistakes.

Some people correct themselves when they make mistakes, while some people insist on things they shouldn’t insist on for the sake of face and position. We must learn to "learn from the foreigners to develop skills to defeat the foreigners" and learn from the other party's strengths to make up for ourselves. shortcomings.

6. When communicating with others, try to talk about topics that the other person knows, is interested in, and cares about, say what he likes to hear, and praise others more.

7. Don’t make random comments about others or gossip in private.

8. Don’t lend money to others easily.

If you borrow, be prepared that you may not get the money back.

9. No matter how good the relationship is, you must be careful when speaking. It is your ability to decipher the subtext that others have not expressed.

Often the people who can hurt you deeply are the people closest to you.

10. Everyone has to endure nausea to get rich. If you say you can’t do it because of nausea, then don’t be jealous of how much others make.

| As a sales person in the workplace, no matter how stupid the customer is, you have to be patient and coax him.

| For those who work in technology, no matter how unreasonable the demand is, they still have to develop it.

| As a supervisor, you will be criticized by your subordinates while being a good licker for your boss, and there are many colleagues who are competing for the job.

Who has an easier adult life? You have no right to look down on anyone. Even if you really look down on him, don't say it.

11. When you feel tired from browsing Zhihu, just click the screen twice and you will find different gains.

12. Don’t give advice to people with whom you have a casual relationship, even if your advice is absolutely correct.

13. Look at yourself objectively.

If you don’t have the ability, just say you don’t have the ability. Don’t say that the general environment is not good. You are not the person who destroys the general environment.

14. To be able to speak is not to be glib or to talk nonsense, but to be sensible and reasonable, to act appropriately, to speak well-founded and convincingly.

Whatever you say when you meet someone is not called being eloquent, but being tactful.

15. Don’t interrupt others casually.

It is impolite to interrupt others or interrupt in mid-sentence. People who interrupt others and interrupt randomly are even more annoying than those who speak at length.

16. Don’t be a teacher.

No one else