When you have a cold war with your partner, who usually breaks the deadlock first?

Usually he is the one who breaks the situation. Because I am not a person who gets angry easily. If I am really angry, I will not bow my head at all. I don’t know whether it is right or wrong to have such a temper. Moreover, my partner is actually an easy-going person. He is usually very tolerant. If I tell him that as long as he can solve the problem with a little abuse, suffering, and torture, he will probably not fight with me, and he will probably not argue with me about family relations. The same goes for above. Therefore, many times, when I quarrel with him because of his family, most of the time he won't give in.

If we quarrel, it is probably because I have stepped on my bottom line. He knows this. I will not bow my head when it comes to the bottom line. If he doesn't speak up and give in, then I would rather leave than stay. My bottom line was very low and I only set three. First, the people in the man’s family should not worry about the money in my pocket and that of my parents’ family. Likewise, I will not ask them for half of it; second, no family member other than him can point fingers at what I do; third, , the child's problem, as long as there is one point where he wants to give up, then he has to dodge as far as possible.

We had a quarrel together, which was quite violent. It was when we were pregnant with a child. The color Doppler ultrasound showed that the kidney aggregates were separated at 3.2 on the left and 3.5 on the right. It was 20 weeks at that time. What the doctor said is observation. If it doesn't increase in the later period, there will basically be no problem. And if it doesn't rise more than 1.0, it won't be a big problem. Then, in this matter, their family has been challenging this bottom line, and has been trying to persuade him that he does not want this child. Haha~~~So, I made a statement, if you don’t want it, then I don’t want it. I want it. I will take the initiative to file for divorce, and you just need to sign. The court will approve it.

Later, he took the initiative to make some guarantees to me, saying that he would not interfere with me anymore (he did what his family could not do). He went to many hospitals for check-ups, and there was no problem at all. Inside, there are still people playing the role of experts, even saying that if the children have any problems, don't tell them. Later, the child was born and everything was fine. It's just that some relationships can never go back to the way they were before.