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After Mianchi's meeting, Lin Xiangru made great contributions again, and the prince of Zhao must be delighted. This behavior of saving face for the king at the state banquet also made the prince of Zhao trust Lin Xiangru more. Lin Xiangru also joined the ranks of the firewire promotion. So, what impact will this situation have on General Lian Po, an official in the same dynasty?

1, offer a humble apology, as a famous allusion in history, praised an act of taking the initiative to admit one's mistakes, correcting them when one knows one's mistakes, and losing face.

This paper can be said to be the perfect solution for a scholar to meet a soldier. In Lian Po's eyes, Lin Xiangru was promoted step by step only by mouth, which made him quite angry. After all, the same dynasty is an official, and each of them shares a pool. You, Lin Xiangru, cut a dash at the state banquet, and I, Lian Po, also guarded the border to prevent Qin Jun from moving, which can be said to be a meritorious person. The treatment of the prince of Zhao really disappointed Lian Po.

In this case, Lin Xiangru did not take a radical way of confrontation, but adopted a soft-headed cold treatment scheme. This is also an inspiration for us to make decisions when we encounter fierce conflicts and contradictions.

Let's see how Lin Xiangru did it. The first step is to avoid and wait for the other party's anger to subside a little. The second step is to lower the head. The third step is to talk about the common ideal. The fourth step is to publicize this common ideal to the other party through special channels. Once successful, you are wily.

During the cold treatment in Lin Xiangru, I thought at first that he would rely on the Prince of Zhao to make peace. In fact, in this case, relying on leadership to reconcile the contradictions between the two should not be elections. When the prince of Zhao promoted Lin Xiangru, he must know that Lian Po would resist. If I were the leader, I would make two plans, one is to mediate the contradiction in person, and the other is to see what Lin Xiangru does. If a man can do it well, it is the best choice. If you can't do it well, you need them personally, and Lin Xiangru's future career will be compromised. A more insidious monarch may not even want to go out in person, but let two people fight against each other to check and balance.

It's just that Lin Xiangru is doing quite well and resourceful. We can imagine, bow their heads to avoid meeting each other just for everyone to see, and finally tell the servants and followers how to let Lian Po know the meaning.

The last common ideal is also a very high starting point. Say "I'm not afraid of Lian Po?" , this sentence alone, the effect is not big, may also anger Lin Xiangru, but we put the second half of the sentence together to see "people who fight for the country, don't hurt each other, let others see the joke" this sentence is very powerful, binding Lian Po to the level of national interests. If Lian Po continues to make trouble, it will not only represent his dissatisfaction with Lin Xiangru, but also his dissatisfaction with the country.

Of course, I don't think the original intention of this sentence is as despicable as my disassembly analysis. Judging from the later stories, Lin Xiangru is really united and really thinks about the country.

3. Read some information. Some people say that at this time, Zhao and Lin Xiangru represented the pro-Qin faction, while Lian Po represented the isolated Qin faction. The struggle between the two people in this article actually reflects the struggle between the two factions in China to some extent. The promotion of Lin Xiangru by the prince of Zhao has already reflected the major policies in the eyes of the prince of Zhao at this time, and Lian Po can only bow.

4. Tell me more about Lin Xiangru's promotion. We heard from Lian Po that Lin Xiangru was born in a bad family, but the most important thing about his promotion was that he won recognition in front of the leaders and improved his national prestige. The same is true in reality. No matter how talented you are, except those who have nepotism, you can have a broader career prospect only if you try your best to get close to the leader and show your skills. If you are not in the core business field, the leaders can't see you, and such people will make slower progress in the end.