Those principles in the marriage chapter of "Da Nao Chronicles"

In "He Jin", Wei Xiaopo married two sisters. Grandma is kind and generous. The tenants paid rent, kept food, and fed themselves; they fed the family pets well and kept them smooth and smooth; the husband loved flowers, so he built a garden at home, filled with all kinds of flowers for all seasons. The beautiful scenery and the decorations in her home were praised by her relatives and servants. However, the eldest grandmother was ill-fated and passed away due to a serious illness, leaving the financial power of the family to her younger sister. The younger sister is the opposite of her elder sister. She is suspicious all day long, defrauds everyone of their expenses, beats and scolds the servants, the cat loses weight, and the dog loses weight. The family becomes more and more depressed, causing everyone's dissatisfaction and ruining the reputation of the Wei family.

The quarrel between my younger sister and my elder sister’s son led to a saying: "If you are mean to a family, you will not have long-lasting justice." This sentence is selected from "Zhu Xi's Family Instructions", which means: If we are mean to others, Logically speaking, those who make a fortune by treating others unkindly cannot enjoy our wealth for a long time. In other words, this kind of family fortune will soon decline. No matter what position we are in, we must not be a mean person to leave a good impression on those around us and gain good reputation.

In "One Hundred Butterflies", the velvet seller Xiao Chen San falls in love with the embroiderer Xiao Yu. Xiao Chen is popular, smart and comely, and everyone is willing to buy his velvet flowers. Xiaoyu is a beauty, a beauty with ingenuity and skill. Her embroidery is deeply loved by everyone, and the curtain "Hundred Butterflies" is a sensation in the whole city. But Xiao Chensan’s mother did not agree with this marriage. Why? Xiaoyu is so good-looking, so smart, so capable, she is a top-notch person, and she has also caught the eye of her son. It is difficult to decide whether she will marry her in the future. How can she have any trace of her mother-in-law? You can have a daughter-in-law, but in your son's mind, your daughter-in-law cannot be more important than yourself. The marriage between Xiao Chen San and Xiao Yu was ruined, and a huge emotional change took place between mother and son. The son hated his mother, and the mother was unrepentant.

It is such a lamentable thing that mother and son turned against each other because of a marriage. As a parent, even if you are dissatisfied with your child's partner, you cannot object to it openly. You must be smarter and do not use stupid tricks to arouse your child's resentment and break up the family relationship. It is good for parents to be more open-minded about their children's marriage, which is good for themselves, their children, and the harmony of the family. In short, they would rather demolish ten temples than ruin one marriage. A couple knew each other well and decided to start a family. It was also a decision made after careful consideration for them.

"Little Empress" tells a taboo and beautiful story. Xie Putian, the current owner of the Xie family in Laidie Garden, is a handsome painter who loves art and is especially good at charcoal portraits. Xie Shuyuan is a beautiful and delicate lady, and her posture is very beautiful at all times. Xie Shuyuan was Xie Putian's aunt. Even though his family was in decline, he never treated Xie Shuyuan harshly and treated her with consideration and consideration. They fell in love, knowing it was wrong, but couldn't let go. Walls have ears, and this matter was noticed by outsiders, and rumors continued. In desperation, the family moved south to Kunming. They lived happily. Soon Xie Shuyuan became pregnant, but she was under great psychological pressure and her mental state was extremely poor. During childbirth, one body and two lives are lost.

A forbidden love ruined two people. Such love is actually rare in real life. Most of what we hear and see are works that have been processed through literature and art. But it also serves as a wake-up call to the men and women in the world, not to cause irreparable consequences for the sake of temporary joy and excitement.

"Late Blooming Rose or Nonsense" tells a sunset farce. Qiu Yunlong is a two-faced singer, and he is doing well. He has a wife and daughter and lives a carefree life. When he was over fifty, Qiu Yunlong fell in love with a bus conductor who was an old lady. For this reason, he wanted to divorce his wife. He said: "I would rather live a few months delicately than live a few years in a miserable state." One day, Qiu Yunlong suffered a large-scale myocardial infarction and almost went into shock. He was hospitalized for rescue. He had to be accompanied by his family members, so he invited The ex-wife comes. At this time, Qiu Yunlong thought of the good thing about his wife and was very grateful. Not long after I was hospitalized and received my salary, I smiled and passed away.

People have lived for most of their lives and are getting old. Why bother with these things anymore? Coveting for temporary happiness, I feel happy, but my reputation is ruined. I am alienated from the people who treat me sincerely. I am ridiculed by the people around me, and my life becomes a farce. My reputation is rotten into the mud after my death. What do I want? As people get older, they should cherish the people around them and leave no regrets, because no one knows how many days are left!

"Forget Me Not" tells a cruel and realistic story. Xu Li and Lu Man were a perfect couple, but Lu Man died young, leaving Xu Li to live alone. Xu Li regarded his deceased wife's ashes as a treasure. Half a year later, Xu Li met another girlfriend, Lin Qian, and soon fell in love and planned to get married. The traces Lu Man left at home aroused Lin Qian's dissatisfaction. She gradually occupied Lu Man's position in Xu Li's heart and erased Lu Man's existence. Another six months later, Xu Li moved. He took everything with him except Lu Man's urn. He forgot.

The so-called eternal love is really rare. No matter how passionate the love between lovers was, as time goes by, it will all turn into ashes, and who will remember whom? Very cruel and realistic. It is said that love is stronger than gold, I will love you forever, but if one of you disappears for a long time, you really can't remember his face.