Some words should only be said to those who understand.

Have you ever had such an experience?

A sudden temper is probably a grievance that has been accumulated for a long time

You obviously feel aggrieved and want to complain, but when others ask you what's going on, you still pretend to be fine. I digested it secretly alone, as if nothing had happened.

Have you often been like this, swallowing all the sadness and grievances alone?

Always smile when meeting people and pretend to be having a good time.

Slowly, one day we will understand:

No matter how much quarrels there are, there is no point, because not everyone is reasonable. There are too many words to say without speculation, so avoiding them in silence is the best option. No one can hurt you, and you can protect yourself.

Understanding or not understanding is just a matter of not caring. No one is a fool, because you can never wake up a person who is pretending to sleep.

There is no such thing as a joke in the world. All jokes have serious elements. Many truths are spoken through jokes. So people who don’t want to understand will pretend they don’t understand you.

When you are sad, don’t chat with anyone, let alone talk to everyone. It’s not that you don’t want to say something, it’s just that the other person will never understand your suffering. Some thoughts can only be buried in the heart, not because they don't want to tell them, but because no one can tell them and no one can understand them.

Because 80% of people will be indifferent, 19% of people will gloat about your misfortune, and the 1% of people who understand you are more than capable. All you can do is hide your grievances, put a smile on your face, and learn to grow up step by step.

Not all grievances can be expressed, and not all worries can be told to others. Even those who can understand may not want to listen because some of the words are too heavy.

Some things can only be understood by yourself, and some things can only be said to yourself.

Don’t shed tears easily. In the eyes of others, your tears are cheap and you are not mature and rational enough. When you feel sad, just look up at the sky. The sky is so big and will tolerate all your grievances.

A person who doesn’t understand you and doesn’t want to understand you doesn’t care about every word, word, look, action, or thing you say. Even if you talk at length, the other person will ignore you. If not seen.

For people who don’t understand you, you can clearly feel it. You obviously have a lot to say, but because of the other person’s tone or attitude, you find that everything you say is redundant.

Don’t try to be sincere to everyone, because your true words are trust in the eyes of people who love you; they are an intrusion in the eyes of people who don’t love you.

People who don’t understand you won’t care about your feelings. Even if you talk about it with tears streaming down their face, they will be indifferent.

There is no real empathy in this world. Some things are not that you don’t want to say, but you want to say them to people who understand. Otherwise, everything is just scratching the surface and meaningless.

Sometimes, there are some things you just want to say to someone who understands you.

After all, if you don’t say something and keep it in your heart, it will ultimately hurt your body. People still need to express their feelings and thoughts without hurting themselves too much.

Those who understand you, who know your sadness and happiness, who know your joys and sorrows, are often people with consistent views, who care about you and take the initiative to put themselves in your shoes. people.

In fact, you can feel whether a person is willing to listen to you. If you send him a long paragraph, and he only replies with the word "hmm" to you.

You should understand that your enthusiasm is in the wrong place.

Boiling water must be placed in a thermos cup so that it will always be warm. And enthusiasm must be responded to by those who respond, otherwise it will only be lively in the eyes of others.

It is a blessing in life to have so many people who understand you.

If no one can understand, then chew the words into pieces and swallow them, and digest them silently by yourself.

As things change, you will realize how ridiculous the complaints you once wanted to say were ridiculous. Happiness is when you can talk to the right person. No matter how much people talk to people who don't understand you, it's just a joke.

In life, many people are people who watch the fun and gossip. As long as it does not endanger them, they always have the mentality of watching jokes and not taking it too seriously, so they will not be distracted. Be considerate and understanding of you.

For those who just want your good but are unwilling to pay, stop here. You have to learn to cherish those who are really good to you.

Be comfortable with people who understand you, stop being with people who don’t understand you.

After all, there are really not many people who can accompany you to the end.

He may not necessarily be those who amaze the time, but those who are gentle with the years.

In the vast sea of ??people, it is rare to meet someone who can understand what you are saying. However, it is extremely difficult to retain someone who understands you.

After all, a person who understands you will not be tired to get along with. Besides, he can still accompany you throughout this life, and your life will be very happy.

When you come home from work in the middle of the night, instead of complaining and blaming you, he will help you heat up the meal countless times and wait for you to come home to eat. I listen to you talk about the problems, doubts and frustrations at work, and I am willing to listen to your nonsense.

People who understand you will feel distressed when you frown, and want to hug you tightly when your eyes turn red. I feel sorry for your grievances and understand how difficult it is for you.

In the days to come, leave your sincere words to the sincere people.

"I know, I understand, I understand." This is a more affectionate confession than love and liking.

It is lucky and a blessing to meet someone who understands you!

If you are lucky enough to meet one, please remember to cherish it. After all, they are rare in the world, just like giant pandas.

I hope we can all meet someone who understands us.