Why is Zhuge Liang faithful to "ugly wife"?

In the Three Kingdoms era, when the stars were shining and talented people came forth in large numbers, Zhuge Liang was an outstanding politician and strategist second only to Cao Cao, and his wisdom is still commendable. However, the emperors and princes in history, the Ming dynasty, which is not three wives and six concubines; Darkness, who is not romantic. But Zhuge Guiliang was the second-in-command of Shu Han and later became the actual leader. He only married one woman in his life, ugly, but faithful to her. What is the reason? This has to start with his family. Zhuge Liang and Huang Yueying stills Zhuge Liang was born in an official family in Yang Du County, Ye Lang during the reign of Emperor Guangwu of Han Dynasty. Zhuge family is a famous family in Ye Lang. Zhuge Liang's ancestor Zhuge Feng was a captain in the Western Han Dynasty, while Zhuge Liang's father Zhuge Gui was a county magistrate in Taishan County, equivalent to the current deputy mayor. Zhuge Liang's uncle Zhuge Xuan is also very capable. He did a good job in public relations, and was closely related to Yuan Shu, a big family at that time, and Liu Biao, a celebrity who occupied Jingzhou. He's kind of a buddy. Zhuge Liang has two sisters, an elder brother and a younger brother. Supposedly, Zhuge Liang's family lived a happy life, but something unexpected happened. His mother died when he was very young. At the age of eight, his father Zhuge Xuan died again, and Zhuge Liang became an orphan. Their brothers and sisters all depend on their uncle Zhuge Xuan to take care of their lives. During the chaos in the world, his brothers and sisters came to Xiangyang with their uncle. At that time, there was chaos in Guanzhong and the Central Plains was boiling. Xiangyang was a place where dignitaries and businessmen from all over the world took refuge. After Zhuge Liang followed his uncle Zhuge Xuan to Jingzhou, his life finally settled down. After a year or two, his two sisters also got married. With his relationship with Liu Biao and the fame and status of Zhuge family, Uncle Zhuge Xuan found that his two nieces were children of local clans. Zhuge Liang's sister married the Kuai family's Kuai. The Kuai family occupied an important position in Jingzhou at that time. Among them, Kuai Liang and Kuai Yue were Liu Biao's confidants, who made great contributions to Liu Biao's efforts to pacify Jingzhou. Kuai himself was also appointed as the order of Fangling County by Liu Biao, and his position was extraordinary. Zhuge Liang's second sister also married well, and her husband was Pang Shanmin, the son of Xiangyang celebrity Pang Degong. Pang Degong is knowledgeable, prestigious and respected in Jingzhou area. Pang Shanmin is also a famous man in Jingzhou, and he is very talented. Later, he became an official in Wei, and the Pang family was also a famous family in Jingzhou. Zhuge Liang 17 years old, his uncle died, and his eldest brother Zhu Gejin has gone to Wu Dong to be an official. In Longzhong, 20 miles west of Xiangyang, only Zhuge Liang and his younger brother Zhuge Jun live alone. In ancient times, especially in wartime, people usually got married at the age of fifteen or sixteen or even thirteen or fourteen. Young talents like Zhuge Liang who are not married at the age of 17 are rare. In the history books, Zhuge Liang is described as "a talent who likes to relax and hate work, a tool of British hegemony, eight feet long and very handsome". In a word, it is handsome! With Zhuge Liang's conditions, he must be the ideal target for a noble family to choose a son-in-law, but why did he marry an ugly girl? This is the result of my father-in-law Huang's voluntary recommendation. Mianyang celebrity Huang Zhi female. Her real name is unknown in history, and "Yue Ying" is her name in folklore. According to legend, Huang Yueying has yellow hair and black skin, but he is knowledgeable. However, there is also a saying that Huang Yueying herself is extremely beautiful, so she was envied by other young women in the village and vilified her appearance. Huang, like Pang Degong, is also a local clan in Jingzhou. This man is cheerful and knowledgeable. Zhuge Liang has asked him for advice many times, and Huang is also very optimistic about Zhuge Liang. One day, Huang proposed to Zhuge Liang and said, "I have an ugly daughter with yellow hair and dark skin. Although people are ugly, their intelligence can be compared with yours. " Zhuge Liang readily agreed. As soon as Zhuge Liang nodded, Huang immediately sent a car to send his daughter to get married. It should be said that not beauty is certain, and Huang's so-called "ugly girl" is also a modest statement. Compared with Zhuge Liang's appearance, yellow hair and black skin are definitely much worse. A handsome guy with good looks and outstanding talents marries a woman who is not stunning. Naturally, it will be passed down as a joke, even a joke. From one word to another, the uglier it gets, the darker it gets. Zhuge Liang chose Huang's daughter because the statement that "talent and beauty are both perfect" is also far-fetched. There is no denying that Huang's female talent from a well-known family is definitely not comparable to that of ordinary women, only among women. In ancient times, it was emphasized that "women are virtuous without talent", and few women could read and write. It is unusual for a woman of a large family to be "knowledgeable". Therefore, when Huang said that her daughter's talent can rival Zhuge Liang, she should mean that her daughter's talent is the best among women, not that her daughter really has Zhuge Liang's talent and wisdom. Since Zhuge Liang's criterion for choosing a spouse is not "both talent and appearance", what is it? Huang's wife is the daughter of Cai Yan, a famous family in Jingzhou. The Chua family has considerable influence in Jingzhou. Cai's other daughter married Liu Biao, a priest in Jingzhou, and Cai's son Cai Mao was Liu Biao's most trusted and dependent general. The Chua family has a great political background in Jingzhou and is a famous family. With such political capital, even if Huang's daughter is really ugly, are you afraid that she can't get married? Besides, he is not so ugly, and he is outstanding in learning. He is a standard lady. Although Zhuge Liang was brilliant, he was still a little-known scholar at that time. If he wants to get ahead, he must rely on his family background and marriage background. Therefore, it is Zhuge Liang's wise choice to marry Jingzhou. In fact, with the relationship between Huang and Zhu, Zhuge Liang has further ties with Jingzhou's political and military circles. Through these channels, Zhuge Liang, who lives in Longzhong, can quickly understand the development of the current situation, the political trends of various figures such as the imperial court and governors, and the insider activities of various political groups at that time. This information is very important to Zhuge Liang, who is paying close attention to the current situation and analyzing its development direction. Later, when Liu Bei visited the shanzhai, Zhuge Liang took out the famous planning case "Longzhong Dui", which was a set of strategic thoughts formed after he fully understood and correctly analyzed the world situation. Therefore, the marriage between Zhuge Liang and Huang is difficult to escape the suspicion of political marriage. Then again, although there are political factors in the marriage between Zhuge Liang and Huang, it is a fact that they are faithful to their ugly wife. This is undoubtedly related to Zhuge Liang's lofty aspirations and indifferent personal qualities. He is determined to defend his country. What he needs is a wife with both ability and political integrity, not a beautiful and useless vase. And this "ugly wife" didn't disappoint Zhuge Liang, not only because he was a strong pillar of his life and career development, but also because he had a successful start in life and had no worries. More importantly, she teaches his children well. In Maweipo, Yang Yuhuan, one of the four beauties, was given a piece of white silk by Li Longji who "loved" her. The love story between Yang Guifei, a beautiful woman, and Xuanzong, Tang Zong, is called the swan song of the ages, but it is just an ideal cloud of literati. The ugly love story between Huang Yueying and Zhuge Liang is true! Author: downtown Yibo