I have no ability to brag and joke.

There are two kinds of people in this world, one is the rich and the other is the poor.

Simply put, because rich people have the ability, they can be as rich as an enemy and live an enviable life; Poor people, because they have no skills, can only live in poverty and embarrassment.

There was once a very famous man, Guiguzi, who summed up those "incompetent people". They often have these three characteristics.

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First, the eye is superior but the eye is inferior.

1, what is a superior eye?

Seemingly ambitious, bent on doing great things, hoping to achieve something, but in fact can't even do a little thing well, which is called bullying.

I have no ability, I don't understand at all, I can't give an accurate positioning, which leads to arrogance. My ability is insufficient, I don't know how to study quietly, and I start from small things.

But blindly said that he was unlucky, and God didn't give him a chance to show his talent. What I want to say is that even if there is an opportunity in front of you, I'm afraid you can't play any tricks, can you?

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2, for their own face, in order to live bright and beautiful, infinitely cover up their inner emptiness. Hiding in the crowd, you can only be the "strongest king." In fact, you know nothing and nothing.

This kind of person seems to be excellent, but in fact, it is just a flower shelf, which is different from the inside and outside, and it is difficult to reuse.

3. The more arrogant you are, the more you like to make up the numbers, the less valuable you are, the more incompetent you are, and it is difficult to make great achievements.

As the saying goes: "If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world?"

Everyone's success is accumulated from small things. Therefore, if you want to succeed, you must ask yourself to start from small things, don't be picky and don't pretend.

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The second, knowing but not refined, pretending.

1, knowledgeable but not refined, pretentious people often have no skills, but are weak at the outside.

This is actually the present social situation. There are more and more college students, but there is only one diploma.

3. See how many college students know nothing or even a professional skill after graduation. They don't know what they can do or what they want to do.

At that time, the education of parents and teachers was to be admitted to the university unconditionally. As long as the university comes out, there will naturally be no worries about work. However, the reality has seriously awakened them.

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Although they have received college education, they lack professional knowledge and skills, and are typically knowledgeable but not proficient. I have learned a lot, which is very complicated, but the professionalism is not strong, and I don't need much at all.

This is also the reason why it is particularly difficult for contemporary college students to find a professional counterpart.

Therefore, it is not difficult for us to draw a conclusion that if we want to achieve something, we must strive for perfection and not become superficial.

How can you succeed if you look knowledgeable and actually don't understand deep things at all and pretend?

Third, love to brag and complain.

1. In life, people who love to brag and complain often have no skills, but just make a living with their mouths open.

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2. Being a man, the most important thing is to be down-to-earth, do everything well, have a correct attitude and take it seriously. If you do things well, others will naturally trust you and have a sense of identity with you.

Talk big all day, flatter yourself everywhere, even if you can get away with it for a day or two, it won't last long, and you will be caught sooner or later.

Telling the truth, doing practical things and being honest are often easier to gain recognition and affirmation.

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In addition, the same is true of people who love to complain. Slightly unsatisfactory, it is someone else's problem, never take the initiative to find the reason.

Complainers can't find their own problems, so they can't change their shortcomings, let alone make progress. After a long time, I can't break through the bottleneck, and I may even be like this in my life.

4. Being a man, whether you have the ability, is not blown out, but made.

Truly capable people, needless to say, don't even care about other people's opinions. They use actions and strength to prove themselves, surprise others, and even envy and hate.