A joke of mutual help

The countryside is like a big family, especially a big family. It is common for generations to live under the same roof. Most of the neighbors live in harmony and respect each other for decades. Even though they are not related, they have been close for a long time. In rural words: bow your head and don't look up, villagers in the village, just say something.

As the saying goes, every family has its own problems! In rural areas, every household has to be busy with farm work in a few acres of farmland and worry about some trivial matters. "No one can tell, no one can manage" is a common saying of the old people in our rural hometown.

A simple sentence, straightforward, tells how many families will face or are facing some "family troubles" in the future. In terms of handling, each family also has its own advantages and tricks. In short, they are all trying to promote the harmonious coexistence of extended families; However, some families are not so smooth and harmonious when they "handle", and some even look down on their neighbors.

Families with many children in the past, now their parents are old, gradually losing their labor force and enjoying their old age. Especially for the elderly who have lost their other half, they need their children's filial piety and care more.

So supporting the elderly has become an "arduous task" for some families. Half-heartedly take turns to eat, take care of each other and supervise each other, lest the family "suffer" or the elderly "favor" the family. In fact, these trivial things and living conditions will be found in rural areas and cities, but rural areas are particularly prominent. Often because of eating one more meal, or which family takes less money, a "family" person moves his mouth and quarrels.

Some families' daughters-in-law are even more outrageous. They not only regard their elderly parents as "nannies" at home, but also often call names and show them "dirty eyes" from time to time. Not to mention the hardships, how uncomfortable and chilling it is for parents who have been farming all their lives; Even the neighbors can't stand it.

In rural areas, if you have both children and daughter-in-law, it is a shame to send your parents to a nursing home. Not only looked down upon by villagers and relatives; Even they are ashamed. Therefore, some elderly people will take the initiative to ask to live in a nursing home, and they will not "suffer indignities" at home. If such a thing happens in the village, the villagers will know the general situation, "There is another unfilial son!" " "

It is our responsibility to support the elderly and honor our parents. Even for families with many children, it is our responsibility and obligation to take care of them in turn and live for a long time. Eat one more meal and you will never be poor; With less money, you can't get rich. You are all parents, and you are all family. Why do you care? Although they also have their own old-age insurance, it is also their due income and will never be forcibly occupied by their children and daughters-in-law.

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