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A man who is calm and unhurried in situations is fatally attractive to girls.

How to have further contact with MM (time: the beginning of chasing)

1. The most important thing at this stage is not to be anxious, and not to make things so clear that others can see them at a glance You can tell that you are chasing someone.

Think about it, most people will not fall in love with you at first glance, but they will also not hate you at first glance. They are all ordinary people’s children (unless you look like Chow Yun-fat, Andy Lau or Kevin Coster) (Na), goodwill needs to be realized as understanding continues to increase, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from a girl’s perspective: If you rush over to find someone so directly, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find out that I don't like you after being in contact for a while, wouldn't it be like playing tricks on you? So if you come out with a determined attitude from the beginning, you will basically be put back immediately.

2. Start with a low profile

First of all, you must position the relationship as a "friend". It is originally an "ordinary friend". If you want to become a "good friend", it is okay if you have good taste. Ask the other person to become a "confidante" or something like that, but never say "chasing you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have less chance to "reject" you - how can she reject you if you don't pursue her? !

This can reduce the psychological pressure on girls and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't imagine that you will agree to marry you after only three days of knowing each other. You need to fully communicate and understand each other. Feelings do not arise out of thin air.

3. Don’t be too impatient in the process of dating.

Be relaxed and don’t pester others all day long. You will get tired of anyone who treats you like this. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing a girl is eight words - "hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the culmination of many years of hard work by my classmate).

Of course they won’t think well of you if you keep pestering them all day long. If you cool off for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your presence.

Also, don’t have the ambition of “I won’t marry you unless you want me”. It’s not good if the price is too low. Sometimes you can use some tricks.

4. Create opportunities appropriately

As mentioned earlier, don’t make things immediately turn into “you are chasing someone else”, and you need to get the opportunity to get close to girls. It all depends on your creativity.

You can collect intelligence and find ways to turn waiting around into an encounter; you can also pretend to be casual and find the most sufficient reasons to invite the other person to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it really doesn’t work, you can ask your seniors for advice.

5. Don’t: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things and give them to others. However, they don’t know that this is the most taboo thing for chasing girls.

As the saying goes, "No reward for no work". If you give people things like this, you are putting pressure on them. People will feel that they owe you something, so they will find a way to pay you back. If they can't pay you back, they will Find a way not to associate with you so that you don't always owe you favors.

If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well ask a girl to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive place to play together. Girls will naturally be able to see that you spend money. It's a lot of money, but after all, the money is spent by two people together rather than turned into things to take home.

3. What exactly is a “girlfriend”?

1. "Girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise

When you start dating a girl, you change from "ordinary friends" to "good friends", and then to To "a very, very good friend who talks about everything", you "accidentally" held her hand on a sunny afternoon; to "the moon above the willows", you suddenly attacked and kissed her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks that you are her boyfriend.

I know that the wisest person didn’t even ask “Will you be my girlfriend” until we went to bed? In the end, the girl got anxious and said, “Why don’t you ask me to be your girlfriend? ”

So, don’t rush to pierce the window paper. The more hazy the situation is, the better it is for you.

2. What is "confession"?

As mentioned before, confession is actually just a formality. The correct sequence should be: Only when she has actually become your girlfriend can you confess your love to others, and it will be a matter of course. Many people don't understand this issue and always think that someone agrees to be their girlfriend first and then does whatever they want. I can only say that it is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".

3. Is there ever a time when you “have no choice but to express your feelings”?

Yes, for example, a third party appears, or the relationship between you and the girl is not mature but the two of you may be separated for a period of time.

The confession at this time is an immature confession, and the risk is very high. It is similar to the serious situation when playing Go. The lagging side is forced to release the "winner's hand", and if it wins, it wins. If you lose, you can only say "Unlucky people are born".

4. Don’t say the word "love" easily

I often see "bold confessions" appearing on forums. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment, and even a kind of responsibility.

Men who say "love" casually are irresponsible.

4. Civilized love should not be forced.

1. Not every girl can be pursued.

A good girl will always be pursued by many people. No. Maybe everyone's wish comes true, but there will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the most advanced principles of chasing girls, you still can't catch up with anyone in TWINS.

Think about the problem from another angle. A rural nanny who has not graduated from elementary school, no matter how nice she is to you, earns 600 a month and buys you 700 gifts (overdraft), and is willing to "play a role" for you. "You won't fall in love with her either. If she cries and pesters you every day, you will definitely feel annoyed.

So love needs a material foundation, or at least a balance.

2. Chasing girls is a serious social activity.

Don’t annoy others and leave a way out for yourself. Why should a man worry about not having a wife? Some girls are indeed snobbish (a minority). If you are not convinced, you can work hard and use facts to prove that "she was blind at the time." Never mislead others or yourself.

Two final points:

① Never appear cynical in front of MM. Being cynical sometimes means "you are a failure".

Answer: Nothing - Trainee Magician Level 3 5-7 17:09

My friend, you are really quiet (introverted and cold-looking). It's obvious that things are just lice on a bald head. Why wait until a few days later when she gives you the shell when you should be bold enough to confess your love to her? It's best to act now.

How boys chase girls

How boys chase girls, it’s too easy. After reading this article, you will become an expert.

Don’t say anything before it’s time to get started. Some boys have only dated someone a few times and then they propose to establish a "further" relationship. This will most likely spoil the relationship. The wonderful thing about love is that everything is left unsaid. If you make it clear and the words are clear, it is not beautiful. If someone is willing to come out to talk to you alone, it means that the girl has a good impression of you. But sometimes even they can't explain this kind of good feeling clearly, but you are eager to point it out and destroy this hazy beauty. Then don't blame others for staying away from you. Look around you at all the love affairs that have died before they even begin. Many of them are caused by boys not mastering the heat.

Put away your fists to attack better. What should I do if a girl rejects me? Some people say that we should pursue and persevere. Not really.

Unless you are a person who doesn't care about anything, it will be difficult for you to bear the white eyes of girls and the mocking looks of your peers. It would be better to cease all activities and retreat temporarily. This not only protects your dignity but also leaves a way out, creating opportunities for future counterattacks. Just let her make her way through the crowd. Only when you go to her again when she is badly injured will she realize that you are the one who loves her the most. Even if you really can't let go, you should pay attention to your methods when you want to find her. Don't make her think you are annoying. And this is often difficult to do.

Don’t be too explicit. Learn to care for her quietly and treat her with your honesty and kindness. Only then can you get her attention among the crowd of boys croaking around her. Remember, only special you will attract her special attention.

No entry unless required. A boy who always runs to a girl's dormitory will not arouse much favor from the girl. Some student union cadres often go to the girls' dormitory under the pretext of work, and then stay there without leaving. As a result, they bring a lot of inconvenience to others, and the effect is counterproductive. The fundamental reason for this result is that it is too explicit.

Strategically despise..., tactically attach importance to.... Sometimes the girl you like will have some contact with you, such as talking, chatting, working together, etc. You'd better look at these things with a normal attitude and don't carry baggage and worry about gains and losses. For example, don't pay too much attention to what she said unintentionally. Some boys are prone to being sentimental, which is why. But you should pay enough attention to every such opportunity. For example, you should pay attention to the sense of propriety in your first conversation. It is best not to involve love. You might as well talk about your childhood. It would be bad if you go straight to the point! Girls must be wary of you like a wolf.

It’s best to flatter less often. If you praise her for her beauty, if she is really beautiful, then you are just the 700th person to praise her for her beauty, and the deepest impression on her may be the first person to praise her like this; if she is ordinary-looking, you will No one can tell what kind of results complimenting her will produce. If she finds out you don't mean what you say, you're dead. Remember, you can only coax a girl after she becomes your girlfriend. Starting to coax her before you even catch her is a sign of failure to grasp the heat.

Be less chauvinistic. A boy finally invited the girl he had admired for a long time to dinner, which cost him half a month's living expenses. Later, when he went to pay the bill, he found that the girl had already paid for him, and he wanted to pay her back. The girl doesn't want to. He felt that the girl had taken away his face and was very angry. The girl was so angry that she cried. Originally, the fact that the girl paid the bill for him meant that she had a crush on him, but instead of trying to please him, he lost his temper. No wonder he wanted to become a bachelor. Almost no girl will have a good impression of boys who don't respect women, remember! Remember!

Unite the majority. Almost every girl has one or two most intimate girlfriends. When other roads are unavailable, they are your successful path to victory. You can use them to know whether a girl is interested in you, and you can also use them to convey your meaning. This is much better than if you just say it. But don't ignore this new force. I have seen boys succeed through this method more than once.

Finally, I would like to remind everyone that there is never a fixed formula for love. The way others succeed may be your failure; the way others fail may be your failure. I am only mentioning some principled things here, and they must not be applied mechanically. If this ruins your good deeds, don't come to me. If a girl doesn't like you, not even the Jade Emperor can do anything about it. As the ancients said: Subduing the enemy's troops without fighting is the best strategy.

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I have been pursuing girls based on the following experiences collected from seniors, Now write it down for your reference:

1. Thick-skinned: This is very important. Jordan Chan said something in the movie Young and Dangerous: If a man is thick-skinned enough If so, then he has already won half the battle in chasing girls. hey-hey! ! Later, I tried everything and tried everything.

2. Infatuation: No matter how wronged you are, you have to show that it doesn't matter, and you have to find an opportunity on a special occasion to say to her: "XXX (name of person), I know you don't like me, I I also know that feelings cannot be forced, but... (remember: your eyes must be gentle to the extreme at this time, and then you look at her affectionately) said: You can't stop me from liking you, I To love you. I beg you not to regard me as your burden. You can live your own life. I only hope...just a small hope (the eyes must be wet) that you can keep me company. I will take care of you and protect you by your side...even if...even if (tears, tears are needed at this time, and it is very difficult to say it), treat me as an elder brother, younger brother, and do nothing to anyone, As long as you don't let me leave you, (cry, you must cry, as sad as you can), that's enough, that's enough... (Mumbling to himself) Remember this Never say anything to a girl like my life is yours and I can’t live without you. Girls hate it when a boy is in front of her.

3. Sweet mouth and smooth tongue: I can't teach you on this point, I can only rely on you. At this point, I would like to remind you: no matter what clothes she wears or what makeup she puts on, as long as she asks you, you must say "good-looking". ”, and even add some extra flair. Girls naturally like to be praised.

4. Stability: This point is compatible with the third point and is indispensable. Stability is missing. Girls will say you are a playboy. Without a sweet mouth and smooth tongue, girls will say you don’t understand taste.

5. Romance: This is also up to you, choose the right one. It's enough time to give her a surprise. Those who are rich will benefit greatly from this move. Don't be afraid of spending money.

6. Be careful: No matter what, think about her first. (Don't. Thinking that you will suffer a loss...etc.) Take good care of her, and you must make her feel like she can't live without you.

7 Summary: If you have learned all the above points. If so, I would like to say "There is no girl you can't catch" (this sentence does not include the huge difference in appearance, for example: the man looks like a tortoise, and the woman looks like a fairy). In short, the word "heart", Use your heart to understand what she is thinking and what she is thinking. Finally, I wish all lovers in the world to get married.

(Warning: Never use the above points to deceive girls. If you are caught, I will do it. Notice to all the infatuated brothers)

[Repost] Tips for chasing girls! ! !

1) It is better to pay attention to her so that she can pay attention to you -

If you want her to pay attention to you, it is actually best to start with yourself, including paying attention to her daily clothing. , pay attention to some details of her life, what she likes to eat, her hobbies and interests, etc. Once you have the opportunity to chat with her, you will naturally open up the topic and explore it. When she knows that you are paying attention to her, she will be surprised. The ground will also draw her attention to you and may leave a lasting impression.

2) Avoid erratic first dates -

After all, the first date is important. Most girls prefer frank words to hesitant words. , therefore, it is better to boldly assume a date to show your sincerity. This is worse than simply asking her when she will be free and other empty questions. Otherwise, the girl will be confused and wonder whether your date is true or false. Uncertain dates lack sincerity and can easily lead to trouble.

3) You should be careful, caring and sincere -

If she agrees to your date, it initially proves that she has no resistance to you, and even has a good impression of you, and has the potential to develop into a friend. If you have the opportunity, you might as well pay close attention to her dress that day and give her a compliment, which is enough to make her happy.

In addition, you should make preparations before dating, such as asking in advance what dishes she likes to eat, and then booking three restaurants with different atmospheres and food (of course, it is best to be in the same area). Let her choose at that time, so that she will naturally feel that you are so attentive and the most important thing is the sincerity from the heart. It will be even more unacceptable for you to open the door, pull up the seat, send her home and other opportunities to show your grace. If you ignore it, remember that she will pay special attention to and care about your performance in these details.

4) Avoid talking endlessly about past relationships -

If you like a girl, it is understandable that you have a lot to say to her, including your past and present. But many men make a mistake, that is, they talk about their past love history on the first date, hoping that the other party will understand their past. However, this often ignores the girl's feelings. When she goes on a date with you, is she just listening to you? Telling about your ex-girlfriend? Moreover, most girls like to be unique in their boyfriend's heart, and they will never allow their boyfriend to still have another person in his heart. Jealousy has long been closely linked to love and cannot be controlled by reason, so once it comes to talking about the old When it comes to Japanese love, it's better to be careful and be more considerate of each other's feelings.

5) It is advisable to give her a small gift to make her happy -

Just think of it as a small meeting gift, and choose an exquisite small gift for her in advance, such as a A fresh and bright tulip, a box of beautifully packaged chocolates, a necklace with a simple design, and an interesting little book. Gifts are more about heart than money, and they are also small. Don’t be too hasty. The first date will be a success. Buying her gold jewelry or expensive leather bags will only frighten her, and it will be even more embarrassing when she pushes you and gives way.

6) Avoid boring topics, boring conversations, and dullness -

Since you can seize the opportunity to talk to her, you should communicate well. You can listen more carefully. Ask questions about her current situation, hobbies or views on things to deepen your knowledge and understanding of her, and let the topic continue naturally instead of saying yes or no, which would be boring. of.

Similarly, you should also talk about topics that you believe the other person is interested in, instead of just talking about your expertise or ambitions, and pay more attention to her reaction. Don’t get bored on the first date. If you leave her, there may not be another date.

7) The whole date should end successfully -

After the meal, you can ask her what she thinks of the meal and whether she is interested in going to another restaurant or continuing. Stay for some desserts, which will make her feel your thoughtfulness. Desserts after the meal are a good suggestion. You can use this time to talk and laugh. After dinner, you should send her home and say simple words to her before leaving. Say: [It felt really good to spend this evening with you], which will make her even more happy. At this time, when you ask her gently: [Can we continue to go out to eat and talk like this? 〕

I believe she has no room to reject you anymore.

How to chase girls

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The information below is captured from the game "Beauty Terminator". Enjoy it!

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"The more times you touch a woman, the easier it is for her to fall in love with you"

After touching a woman, it is easier to increase mutual intimacy (physical contact is to bring you closer) The best way to distance yourself from a woman, but how to touch her without leaving any trace requires excellent skills), if you have the opportunity to touch her knees or hands, that would be perfect. But if you are the first Don't do this if you meet on a date. In coffee shops and restaurants, you'd better choose a side-by-side seat (this is how opportunities are created). If you choose a face-to-face seat, you won't have the chance to touch. Touch each other.

In terms of a woman’s body, the left side (roughly the left side, but for a left-handed woman, it is the right side) is an unusual area and it is easy to feel itchy. , the left side of the breast is a more sensitive area for women.

Therefore, it is best to keep the woman on your left. If you use your left hand to hug her from behind, she will fall into your arms. Then look forward to further good results.

lt;The difference between popular men and unpopular mengt;

Popular men always keep a distance from non-ideal women, while for women they admire, Ways to put her by your side.

Women will definitely be curious about attractive men (curiosity is a fatal flaw for women). This curiosity can be used in interesting conversations, and It can be used for fresh intelligence information.

If you are not popular, even if the other person is very curious, they will only try their best to avoid you when they see you. There will always be unpopular men around you. He is quite lonely, and wants to be in a lively atmosphere at all times. If you want to be a popular man, you must have self-confidence (being confident but not arrogant is the only way to pursue a girlfriend, remember!), and good interpersonal relationships. , I believe this, a good girl will belong to you.

lt;From friend to lovergt;

I finally have the opportunity to ask her out, but I don’t know what gift to bring , it is best to bring a flower on this occasion, so that you may be able to pin it on her chest (gift giving is a matter of knowledge, but it is unwise to put flowers on the chest of an "unfamiliar" woman) or hair, it will naturally form an opportunity to kiss each other.

As for dining, you may have to be a little more cautious the first time, but after the second time, you can choose food for two. Enhance mutual intimacy.

If you and her can eat big mouthfuls of food, then your relationship is not just friends, but a couple.

lt; Let yourself You have the opportunity to step into her inner world gt;

After the other person becomes your girlfriend, many people are distressed that their relationship cannot go further. In fact, if these people are not too If you don't care, you often let the opportunity to enhance your relationship slip away quietly. Among women, they attach great importance to boys who want to help women get their coats, because at the moment when they take off their coats, if there are men present, it is easy for women to fall in love with each other. When taking a taxi, if you can say: Put the things that are easy to forget with me, it will bring you closer to her. But if these behaviors are used improperly, , that would be self-defeating.

lt; Create accidents;

Mystery is very important to women. Compared with introductions from others or acquaintances in the workplace Men who meet by chance are more attractive to women. If this accidental situation happens repeatedly, women will definitely believe in the existence of fate.

But you can create a second love. Is it a coincidence? In fact, this is something everyone can do. If you want to meet a girl no matter what, you can check her commute route and other related matters in detail. If you want to create a second chance, The opportunity will be much easier

Only by accepting the female gaze can you be a successful man. Women always pay attention to the true nature of men, so when they understand that the true face of men is not the type they like, they will most likely Take the opportunity to escape.

It would be best to make some changes to suit her preferences. And a particularly good memory is a female characteristic. Some men have forgotten a sentence, but women remember it very clearly. , so you have to remember every word you say to her

lt; What kind of gift will she like? gt;

In terms of giving gifts, if your girlfriend likes small items, you can give her rings, watches or small flowers. If she likes large items, you can give her large dolls or No matter how big or many bouquets are, you can win her favor.

Generally speaking, most people who like small items are more mature people, because these items can be placed on their own

It is within the controllable range, so most of them will not act as they please. Women who like big dolls are probably a little childish, so when she is happy, she may pester her boyfriend. However, she may also get tired of hugging the doll. After that, I don’t want to hug you anymore

In this regard, although women who like small items will cost you more, they seem to be easier to cultivate long-term love.

lt; kissing Shortcut gt;

When kissing a woman, there is a principle, which is to press her against the wall. Women can find steps by leaning against the wall because I can’t hide (-Yes!! Yes! If you want to kiss a girl, give her a step up. Even a "forced kiss" is very easy to succeed!). The situation of being unable to escape and avoid is a very important factor in psychology. When you want to become a beauty hunter Before you become a master, you must be familiar with various techniques for understanding women's psychology in order to win the final victory.

Finally, when choosing a bar or restaurant, it is best to choose one with steps, because this will give you more excuses You can get close to her. If you can hold her hand, it will peel off another layer of her defense, and all that is left is to kiss her.

lt; If you are too submissive to women If you use your words or attitude, you will definitely fail;

Women are both cute and terrifying animals. The main difference between women and men is that women have two-sided personalities. They look quite soft on the outside, but they can be pretty on the inside. It is said to be a dominatrix. Men who are not good at pursuing women will easily succumb to this kind of terror.

Men who are not used to facing such women will succumb to women's words or smiles. Become less independent.

lt;How to pursue a more intellectual and emotional girl?gt;

Women can be roughly divided into two types. One is for girls who can put themselves up Men who are superior to others are quite obsessed with them, while the other type is obsessed with men who are always derogatory to them.

Men who are not good at understanding women always beautify women, so they are less able to make precise suggestions. Objective opinion.

On the contrary, if a man is good at interacting with women, he will not blush or gasp even when he says something unpleasant, and there will often be some good opportunities around him. Appear.

lt; Sometimes you might as well act coquettishly to her gt;

Of course it is best if men and women have the same personality. There are often two people in the world who are called "Born Together" Yes] In addition to having many commonalities between these people before they met, they also have many similarities when they live together.

In fact, it would be very good if men and women could complement each other. In the group of women who are bosses, in order to prove their income, they often show their strong side to others. If your female partner is this type, you might as well find an opportunity to act coquettishly to her in turn. .For women with strong [self-esteem], it is easier to capture her heart

What these girls say and do are basically the same. The most important thing is to satisfy her self-esteem, so Sometimes you might as well play the role of a slave of love. When getting along with these women, as long as you remember the principle of never going against her, it will be unexpectedly easy to pursue them, and they will be an ideal partner.

lt; Show your gentleness and considerategt;

Doing this kind of gentle behavior should not be too deliberate. You have to seize the opportunity and do it with a very calm attitude.

If you can show a kind smile to puppies and kittens, or show love and affection to small flowers and grass, it is very important. At this time, she will definitely think that you have such feelings for these little things, so for women There is no doubt about your emotion, and at the same time, she will definitely be convinced that you are a very gentle man. In this way, you are already half successful.

lt;The sea and the sunset are the best combination to seduce womengt;

Since ancient times, women have longed for water (yes, the best place for a date is the sunset at the beach!!)

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In most love-style songs, there seems to be no setting in the middle of the day, and no one will not be immersed in sentimentality just because they see the sunset on the seaside. A love relationship must first be immersed in In sentimentality, you can only feel the emotion after feeling the loneliness of being alone. If a woman agrees with this situation, she will also agree with this emotion.

lt ; Give her her dreams when dating gt;

Some people think that girls are easily deceived, but is it really so? In fact, when girls face the prince charming in their hearts, they will even The idea of ??being willing to be cheated. So when a well-dressed man appears in front of them, these girls will probably gamble their luck according to their own wishes.

So the most important thing is that you have to give Regarding the other person’s dreams, at the beginning, your attitude or commitment towards her cannot be changed. To put it more clearly, give her her dreams. If you continue to let her keep her dreams, your relationship will be deeper.