What should we do when we encounter unfair treatment in the workplace?

What should we do when we encounter unfair treatment in the workplace?

It’s better to do the right thing, and then do that person who others can’t stand but can’t kill.

It’s rather idealistic, but please listen to me.

When it comes to interests, the workplace is like a battlefield. Sometimes you can be dragged into the water and receive unfair treatment without doing anything.

At the end of last year, I faced some people and things one after another, and for the first time I faced what my seniors had warned me. "You are protected too well and think too well about human nature, so you can easily be taken advantage of."

I thought it was a joke at first, but I firmly believe that working hard, going the extra step, and thinking about others will get the same feedback. . I am indeed lucky to meet positive people along the way.

But suddenly I realized that being bitten is not necessarily because you did something wrong, and not being trusted is not necessarily because you did not do your job well.

Everyone is making outlook and summary at the end of the year, but I am troubled: Do I really still insist on my own standards?

Then I remembered a few people.

Shao Feng, the youngest academician, said that simplicity and purity are the values ??he recognizes. If you believe that the future will be good and those who truly create value in the future are more valuable, then you should know how to choose.

Yukito told Etsuko that the park’s recreational facilities, bridges, rails, and wires were all inspected without our knowledge. So the streets are brightly lit, children can play safely in parks, people can ride on trams and cross bridges.

The goal of people who do things that are taken for granted is to provide those things that we even forget about.

Zhou Lian wrote in his diary: He has the habit of free discussion, the character of being willing to reconcile with others, the courage to be willing to compromise in the face of the truth, and the mind to argue with reason without hurting harmony.

I am a person who likes these people and is passionate about these words.

So I silently made up my mind:

If you do the right thing, you will not expect others, will not care about evaluation, and will no longer want to defend.

If you encounter unreasonable people and things, you are still willing to pay. That is your own choice. But, learn to protect yourself.

There are times in the world when there is nothing you can do no matter how hard you try, but you can choose to try your best and work hard even if you are powerless.

What I care about is whether I am doing well, whether I am working hard enough, whether I am doing the right things and making real progress.

It’s hard to be yourself, why do you still have to be yourself? Because I want to.

What others do has nothing to do with you.

But it is a wake-up call after all.

I hate these people and things that made me realize that reality is cruel and unfair, but I am also grateful to them for making me finally realize the cruelty.

The sooner you know the cruelty of the workplace, the sooner you can think about the next path to take, and by extension, life, and think more about how you should take the next path.

There are people in the world who reciprocate your kindness, and there are also people who are indifferent to your kindness, and there are even more people who take advantage of your kindness and in turn make you an army. Faced with the latter, if you still want to accumulate kindness, you really need to let kindness have a bit of edge.

In the workplace, edge is strength. Persuasive enough, one's professional abilities.

When you have the strength, you can choose to play or not play office politics, do or not do the right thing, instead of being forced into the whirlpool and unable to escape, and being questioned by colleagues but unable to do so. explain.

Don’t be the initiator of dirty things, but be the one who recognizes them clearly. Be that person who, even if you are pulled into the bottom of a well, still fights back forcefully and jumps back up.

There is a lot of darkness in the workplace, and so is life. And all our efforts, as well as all the abilities we have accumulated, those abilities that have been tempered by time and finally condensed, are to protect ourselves, not to fall into the darkness, and to be able to fight back forcefully.

Finally, back to the sentence at the beginning:

First do the right thing, and then do that person who others can’t stand but can’t kill.