Why do fathers always deny and belittle, and always look down on their children?

There may be many reasons why fathers deny and belittle their children. Here are some possible explanations:

1. Inferiority: Fathers may have inferiority complex, and may enhance their sense of self-worth by denying and belittling their children. This behavior may be a pattern formed by his own childhood experience.

2. Stress and expectation: The father may have high expectations, and he may think that the child should reach certain standards or achievements. When children can't meet these expectations, fathers may feel disappointed and depressed, showing negative and demeaning behavior.

3. Education mode: The father may have a strict or strong education mode, and he may think that he can educate his children to become better by blaming and denying. However, this kind of education may lead to children's self-esteem.

4. Communication problems: The father may not be good at expressing his feelings and needs, and may choose to express dissatisfaction or disagreement by negating and belittling. This kind of communication may be learned from his family or cultural background.

Whatever the reason, this kind of negative and belittling behavior towards children is unhealthy. If you feel hurt by this behavior, I suggest you seek support and help. You can communicate with other relatives and friends, psychological counselors or psychological counselors, who can provide appropriate guidance and support.