The failure of life

Words written before:

?As I am about to turn thirty, I am once again facing the impending bankruptcy of my business. I have lost count of how many times this has happened to me. In the small space, I was moving around trying to change my destiny. I persisted for three years, but now I have nothing left.

After countless sleepless nights, I always wonder if I am the only one who is always like this and defines myself as a loser in this society.

?However, standing in front of the door of middle age, unable to be independent, looking at the foggy road ahead with doubts.

?Stand up at thirty, and have no doubts at forty.

?But if you are still confused, how can you stand up with your head held high?

Failure No. 1: I saw too much success when I was twenty

This is a society that worships success, especially young people who become famous. It seems that if you slow down a little, the chance of success will be the same. You pass by.

I have forgotten since when I have firmly remembered the example of Bill Gates dropping out of Harvard, starting his own business and founding Microsoft, and becoming the richest man in the world. I have forgotten when the thought that not struggling means being ordinary has been firmly rooted in my soul. I still remember that in middle school mathematics class, the mathematics teacher looked at me with disdain and said in front of the whole class: "You will never become a talent." At that time, I was also answering me with disdain from the bottom of my heart. Teacher, I will definitely become an owner in this society in the future, because the idea of ??not being willing to be mediocre has already penetrated me at that time.

Looking back, from that time on, the bane of life has been sown. I wish I could understand at that time: If you can't do mediocre well, how can you become a non-mediocre person.

Success requires a solid climb step by step, as well as the blessing of the right time, place and people. However, failure is not necessary. It can make anyone start over from scratch or have nothing. We can always see the winners because they shine like the sun, but we cannot see the losers because they will just hide in the corner silently.

Perhaps the biggest failure of young people is seeing too much success, so that they underestimate success, thinking that they have seen a shortcut in life, but not knowing that this road only belongs to a few people.