How to distinguish ridicule from well-meaning laughter?

? How to distinguish sarcasm from a well-meaning smile: 1 Essentially: 1. Mock means to laugh at each other with words, and the smile contains irony and dissatisfaction. Usually refers to making fun of those who are dissatisfied with what others have done or make low-level mistakes. 2. A kind smile is a friendly smile from the heart.

? Second, distinguish the cause and purpose of laughter: 1. If it is a joke between friends for fun, then the smile is well-intentioned, with no essential teasing meaning, and belongs to a well-intentioned smile. If the joke goes too far and hurts others' self-esteem and face, then the nature of this kind of smile is different, that is, ridicule. Some people make fun of others as a springboard to achieve their goals in order to raise themselves and belittle others. This smile is basically without the word goodwill, it is pure ridicule. A person knows nothing about one thing, so he takes over. In the process of doing it, some actions are very funny, which makes people want to laugh at first sight. This smile is not sarcasm, although it is far from kindness. However, it is because of funny actions that people laugh. He hasn't thought about it. He smiled naturally and aimlessly, but it was a kind smile.

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Third, after the analysis of the above smiles, even joking should be based on people and things. Whether you are joking for fun or to achieve a certain goal, it is also a joke. These two meanings are different. Therefore, in life, even between acquaintances and colleagues, we should make jokes, try not to hurt the elegance, and we must grasp this degree, because some people will laugh it off and don't care. However, some people are introverted and don't like joking. They won't understand your smile, and they will take your kind smile as ridicule, which will affect their feelings.