The blind date was rejected by the woman. How to fight back correctly at this time?

Before starting today's article, let's talk about the blind date demand that we occasionally see in shopping malls during the Chinese New Year.

The dating wall is divided into male and female areas, and each form of dating has its own basic information and mate selection conditions.

After reading hundreds of dating tables, I found that the conditions of mate selection for men and women are gradually differentiated.

In short, men generally only ask for the height and age of women when choosing a spouse, and rarely mention education, income and family background.

Women's mate selection conditions are somewhat harsh, such as income, house, car, and even academic qualifications and height requirements.

The small sample reflects the common phenomenon that the division of labor between men and women is still different even in today's era of yearning for equality between men and women: women still believe that men should carry the banner of earning money to support their families, and men still hope that women are more willing to be husband and wife.

Because there are too many differences between men and women, many wonderful things have happened. Women blindly ask each other for material conditions, but often ignore their own promotion and joke again and again.

0 1 The first blind date was inexperience and was satirized and humiliated by girls.

Contributor Fu Yunchao is 27 years old. He had been studying abroad in his early years and returned to his hometown in the past two years. He was going to start a business, but because he had no experience, he lost all his money and found a unit to do it honestly.

Fu Yunchao belongs to a man of great ambition. He doesn't think he should get married and have children until his job is stable, so even if he is urged by his family, he says he is not interested in getting married.

Later, perhaps influenced by my family, I saw the blind date activity posted downstairs, and the devil also participated.

This is the real first blind date banquet.

In social activities, he met many peers, but he was generally shy and didn't talk much.

Girls and girls stand together, boys and boys sit together to play games, and no one is the host at all.

Just when Fu Yunchao was bored, he suddenly saw a girl and suddenly brightened up. The other girl has long black hair, wearing a black dress, camel-colored trench coat and boots, which is very temperament.

He summoned up the courage to ask for contact information. The girl casually sat next to him without saying anything and began to ask him for detailed information.

The girl asked, "Where is your home?"

Fu Yunchao said: "It is local. It didn't take long for me to come back from school. "

The girl asked, "Where do you work and what's your monthly salary?"

Fu Yunchao truthfully replied: "It is in the xx building not far away, with a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan."

The girl was stunned and sarcastically said, "5000 yuan? This is also a blind date. What's the difference between this and not making money? It is simply worthless. "

Say that finish, the girl got up and left, leaving Fu Yunchao alone. He can't figure it out. What's wrong with 5000 yuan? Very little?

02 friends circle sends real family situation, blind date woman makes peace actively.

Later, several girls accosted him, but when they heard his salary, they turned their heads and left.

Fu Yunchao never gave up and asked, "How much do you think men should earn a month?"

One of them said, "You can only come on a blind date with a monthly salary of over 10,000 yuan and an annual income of 200,000 yuan. Who wants to come here to find a poor man? "

Obviously, the connotation of blind date has changed. I used to look for eye contact, but now I am looking for people with good material conditions.

Fu Yunchao shook his head and turned away.

When he got home at night, he remembered the first girl who satirized him, so he decided to look at the other person's circle of friends.

It turns out that she works as a teacher in a yoga studio, and her usual life is also very rich. She likes to travel and eat delicious food, and she often punches in online celebrity stores.

Fu Yunchao sent such a circle of friends with revenge: "I attended a blind date today and found that my monthly salary was 5,000, but they didn't know that I had a car, a house and a rich father."

Photo 9: Gongge, home decoration, father's car, photos of traveling abroad, professional examination certificate, single diving photo, skydiving skiing photo.

Taken together, these pictures can obviously prove that he is not an ordinary family.

Moreover, this is indeed a real photo of yourself. When he didn't have a job in his early years, his parents gave him a lot of pocket money a month, which was considered as real food and clothing money, and the money that failed to start a business was also taken care of by his parents.

Now, just because I don't want to get old, I find a job to make ends meet, but I also have a car and a house, which is of high quality in the blind date market.

Sure enough, the circle of friends sent for half an hour, and the blind date girl found it.

She asked, "I didn't expect you to dive and skydive."

He replied, "Haha, there are many things you didn't expect."

After that, he stopped replying. Who ever wanted to chat with him every once in a while, until one day he got bored and blacked out the other person directly, which was the evil spirit.

03 "Even on blind date, you can meet true love"

Fu Yunchao said: "What I hate most is such a woman. Blind date can pay attention to material conditions, but at least talk about spiritual things such as hobbies. Can you live a good life just by having money? Not necessarily. "

Therefore, he decided to participate in blind date activities in the future, or take the information of 5,000 yuan per month to participate. No matter how good the family conditions are, they are not his own. He wants to find a simple girl, not a girl who comes only for money.

Fu Yunchao's point of view is rare.

Especially among young people nowadays, he is a rare idealist. He believes that blind date does not hinder the meeting of true love, and not everyone is mercenary.

As a bystander, you can only give him the corresponding blessing.

In fact, blind date is different from ordinary love. It pays attention to material conditions, extinguishes the spark when strangers meet for the first time, and regards marriage itself as a transaction.

You pick and choose, come and go. In this state of choice, picky and deliberation, it is natural that the old hand blind date will become more mercenary, and it is not surprising that the feelings themselves are ignored.