Why did Xue Baochai feel helpless in front of Xia Jingui?

Xue Baochai plays a very important role in A Dream of Red Mansions. Xue Baochai is as beautiful as Lin Daiyu, but her personality is quite different. Lin Daiyu is stingy, always self-centered and mean to others. However, Xue Baochai has a smooth personality and is good at housekeeping. Outsiders speak highly of Xue Baochai, and everyone likes her very much. In Yuan Chun, when he visited his mother, he deliberately set up Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai, showing how excellent Xue Baochai was.

After Xue Baochai's brother Xue Pan married Xia Jingui, the whole family was frightened by this Xia Jingui. She took Baochan as a pawn, plotted to harm Xiangling, and made a scene with her mother-in-law, which made Xue Pan afraid to go home and refused to come back. Visible this Xia Jingui is a very malicious role, but even if Xia Jingui again malicious, her skill is just three feet cat kung fu. Compared with Xue Baochai's ice snow cleverness, she is far from it. Since Xue Baochai is so scheming, why not interfere with Xia Jingui's behavior and let Xia Jingui run amok at home?

Bian Xiao personally thinks that in that feudal era, it was always the daughter's family who got married, so Xia Jingui married the Xue family, that is, Xue Baochai's sister-in-law and Xue Pan's wife. On the contrary, Xue Baochai is an outsider. How can an outsider meddle in his brother's family affairs? It was impolite at that time.

Both Xue Jia and Xia Jia are in business. In fact, Xue Jia Shepan is reckless. Dumb bully? Said, how can such a brother do a good job in the family business, so the Xue family's business is gradually not as good as before. Xia Jingui is also a famous businessman, and they are both suitable. Because of this, Xia Jingui can be arrogant in Xue family.

Because she is the only daughter of Xia family, the combination of her and Xue Pan can be said to be a kind of marriage. If we have sinned against Xia Jingui, or forced Xia Jingui away, it will do no good to the Xue family. So even if Xue Pan, also want to let Xia Jingui three points. Xue Baochai is a smart person. She can analyze the pros and cons, so she won't interfere with Xia Jingui's run amok.