People are too honest, what should we do?

Since you don't like your own personality, learn more from others. Buy more books about people and connections, learn from good role models around you, see how they handle interpersonal relationships, and listen to what others say. Pay more attention to yourself, try to relax when getting along with others, tell more jokes and ease the atmosphere between each other. Once a person's personality is cultivated, it is difficult to change, but as long as you are cruel and force yourself to do it for 1.2 months, over time, the personality you want and others like will be cultivated. Come on!