The daughter-in-law was humiliated by her mother-in-law and was ridiculed for losing money. Daughter-in-law said that her annual salary is 400,000. what do you think?

At present, the rule of "the man is the master and the woman is the master" has begun to be inapplicable. On the one hand, it is because of the rise of feminism, on the other hand, the times are changing. Many times, men do no better work than women, and naturally careful women often make men sit up and take notice.

In addition to these reasons, women also want to earn money to support their families after marriage, because they want a sense of security, but most of the sense of security is given by men, and it has nothing to do with women earning money. However, at first glance, the sense of security given by men and the sense of security controlled by women are completely different.

Women who really implement the rule of "men are the masters outside, women are the masters inside" will easily find that their economic freedom will not be controlled by themselves, and they will often hesitate to buy what they like. After all, the money spent is really unhappy.

On the contrary, women who make money to give themselves a "sense of security" will not have this kind of worry. After all, the money they earn is spent with peace of mind, and they don't need to ask their husbands for advice about anything. They can buy whatever they want, so that economically free women can really get the sense of security they want.

Most men agree that women can earn money to support their families, but there is a premise that women can't earn more than men, which seems contradictory. However, it is easy to explain this problem by linking men's thinking with men's faces. Although women earn more to support their families, men don't think so.

In men's eyes, the pillar of the family should be themselves, not women. It is an indisputable fact that the economy determines the family status. Although women will not consider this aspect, men will feel deprived of their rights. As a result, they will either be suspicious all day and feel that women are not under his control, or they will hold their heads high and be flustered in front of women.

Don't believe that some women in the world would rather quit their high-paying jobs and choose a job that can make a living for the sake of men's face. This kind of behavior is really stupid to outsiders, but for the parties, it is a perfect display of love for their husbands.

In any case, don't deprive yourself of "security" and "economic freedom" that you can control. When there is an emergency and it is really needed, women will find out how weak they are and how far they are from the happiness they imagined.

Li Bai graduated from high flyers in 985 College. She has been regarded as a "little genius" since she was a child. She lived up to expectations on the road of learning. As soon as I graduated from college, I was poached by a large listed company with high salary. Although she has to start in the company since she was a child, many people don't doubt her future potential.

My boyfriend Du Peng, whom I met in college, is not as good-looking as Li Bai, and missed the threshold of a company with an annual salary of 100,000 yuan. Du Peng doesn't care. After all, Li Bai earns almost as much money a year as he does, even worse.

Du Peng is very satisfied with his present situation. Although Li Bai is very busy every day and doesn't even have time to date, Du Peng will cheer for Li Bai every time and tell Li Bai, "I have everything, you don't have to fight like this." Li Bai refused Du Peng's kindness every time and stubbornly said, "I can't live up to the high hopes of the company leaders."

"High hopes? How can a small employee at the bottom enter the eyes of the big leader? " Du Peng said so, but Li Bai didn't refute it and passed it with a smile. Du Peng gets off work early after dealing with the company's affairs every day, and works until he gets off work. He also got the acquiescence of the leaders.

Li Bai always wants to know, "why do you get off work so late?" It's too easy. " "Your boyfriend is smart and capable, so naturally I can get off work early." Du Peng said that Li Bai didn't care, still stubbornly completed the tasks required by the leaders, and even took the initiative to learn some experience from the old employees. Soon, Li Bai, who has a glib tongue, won the unanimous approval of the old employees.

Li Bai's promotion seems nothing strange. After all, everyone knows her efforts. Although Du Peng is smart and capable, he can't show his unique characteristics among a group of smart and capable people, so he is a small employee as always.

After learning the news of Li Bai's promotion, Du Peng curiously asked Li Bai what her current annual salary was. Li Bai replied, "Just like you." In a word, Du Peng blushed. After all, after watching the previous movie, he said "I support you" in front of Li Bai.

Seeing that Li Bai was getting better and better, Du Peng remained unmoved and lived a simple life. It was not until I occasionally heard Li Bai say that she was a middle-level leader with an annual salary of 400,000 that she suddenly realized that unconsciously, she was so far away from Li Bai.

On a casual date, when Du Peng saw Li Bai's heroic act of paying the bill, he felt very uncomfortable, because in his opinion, only he could do such an act. Moreover, Du Peng felt that Li Bai was slowly disappearing from his life. Even if he stays tough, Li Bai will leave him for work reasons. Seeing that the two men are agreeing with each other, Du Peng is worried.

"Li Bai, I, Du Peng, formally propose to you today. I can spend the rest of my life with you. Will you promise me? " Early in the morning, Du Peng ran to the door of Belle's company and proposed to Belle with a ring she had saved up to buy. Seeing more and more people going to work, they all stopped to see them. Belle blushed and said, "Let's talk about it at home."

Du Peng said again, "Will you marry me? Trust me. " If Li Bai's colleague shouted "agree with him, agree with him", Li Bai frowned, stamped his foot painfully, took the ring and said, "Go home first, I'm going to work." "Well, I'll wait for you at home." Before Du Peng left, he did not forget to cast a grateful look at Li Bai's colleagues.

"Li Bai, I know you are very busy at work, and you may need time for the wedding. Why don't we get the certificate first? " When Li Bai heard Du Peng say this, she couldn't help saying, "Is it too soon?" Du Peng quickly replied, "If you are unhappy, get a certificate. This is not a problem. " Without much thought, Li Bai agreed directly.

After receiving the certificate, Du Peng kissed Li Bai's face and asked Li Bai to live in his house now. Li Bai said, "Will it be very troublesome?" Just after that, I thought that she and Du Peng's parents had only met several times, and I couldn't help but panic.

Du Peng's parents are two traditional old people who attach great importance to having children. Although the wedding hasn't been held yet, the two old people have regarded Li Bai as their daughter-in-law. Brix just walked into Du Peng's house. After the initial greeting, Li Bai's future mother-in-law said, "My family can only have one child, Tucki. You should have more children to carry on the family line. "

Bai was so embarrassed that he didn't know what to do at once. Du Peng said, "I like children, too. It's fun to have more children. " Li Bai was speechless, and a striking red color appeared on her neck. Li Bai's future in-laws are very satisfied with their daughter-in-law. Although they didn't have a wedding, they have become a family.

When the family didn't talk about two things, Li Bai's mother-in-law heard that Li Bai earned 400,000 a year, more than Du Peng. She said bluntly to Li Bai, "It is shameful for a girl to show her face when she goes out. If you ask me, you should stay at home and teach her children. Don't do that job, my son can support you. "

Bai Ligang put forward the idea of rejection, and Du Peng took it over and said, "You should take care of your family life in the future. After all, your parents are old and you have to take care of them. There is no time to go to work after giving birth, and there is no need to do this job. " Li Bai said: "No, my work has just improved, and the company leaders have great expectations for me. I can't just quit. "

Besides, if I earn a lot, I can pay for my family. Besides, Du Peng didn't earn as much as I did, so he had to resign. When Li Bai's mother-in-law heard this, she pointed to Li Bai and said, "How can you say that about this girl? Losing your son's face is small, but losing your family's face is big. Stop it. Quit your job tomorrow. What can you do with that money? Let your son support you. "

When Li Bai walked out of the door, Du Peng hurried to catch up and said, "Don't be angry. My mother did it for your own good. You have to believe me, I can give you a happy life. It is because I love you and can't bear to let you suffer that you quit your job and enjoy life wholeheartedly. Not good? I have to do the hard work. Don't worry, I have everything. "

"But I can't bear to part with it." After Bai Ligang finished, Du Peng replied, "I can't bear to work or look down on me." Li Bai quickly said, "No, don't think about it." While speaking, I touched the marriage certificate that was still warm in my pocket and said to Du Peng, "Will you support me in the future? I can resign. "

"I support you," Du Peng said, and quickly told his parents the happy news. As a result, the wedding was settled as quickly as possible. Li Bai's parents are very confused about their daughter's choice. In their view, there is really no conflict between work and marriage, but what is done is done. My daughter has grown up and can make her own decisions. Let her go.

Li Bai's wedding was very deserted. Except for relatives and friends present, none of Li Bai's former colleagues were present. It is said that after Li Bai resigned, the leaders who always cared about her lost their temper. Colleagues ignored the opposition of the world and were not qualified to attend the wedding, so they had to make a few wishes and let it go.

Li Bai has some grievances, but she can't say it. She began to look forward to the coming new life. Li Bai's first taste in marriage was not sweetness, but bitterness. Although Li Bai, who had been extravagant before, had restrained himself and simply bought a skirt that he didn't like before, he was scolded by his mother-in-law. Bai Lixin said, "Didn't she just spend a few dollars on a skirt?" As for it. "

In order to maintain the apparent friendship, Li Bai has always endured the sarcasm and difficulties of her mother-in-law. In addition to the ingredients used for cooking every day, whenever Li Bai buys foreign goods, she will be scolded by her mother-in-law for "losing money" behind her back. Li Bai was very angry at this almost humiliating remark, but she didn't choose to attack it, not because she didn't have the courage, but because she now lives in Du Peng.

Du Peng's good efforts before marriage are a joke to Li Bai. Du Peng, who gets off work early every day, still enjoys his good days as always. When Li Bai urged him to make progress and learn from his former self, Du Peng would say, "You are lucky, but my luck hasn't arrived yet. Don't worry, have a nice day. "

Li Bai was very angry, but she had nowhere to go. She continues to endure this unhappy life, and she inevitably regrets her hasty resignation or even marriage. She knew that she couldn't solve any problems in the future and thought about how to make herself go out to earn money again.

In-laws obviously don't make sense. The husband will feel humiliated. Helpless Li Bai can't sleep every night, sitting under dark circles day after day, until her mother-in-law can't help but say, "I have spent all my money at home, and I still don't know how to clean myself up and go out to shame."

Li Bai was a little nervous and couldn't help saying, "I have lived for 400 thousand years." Who told me to resign? " How dare you talk to me like that if I hadn't resigned! "She threw away her broom, stared at her mother-in-law and went back to the bedroom. At the moment of closing the door, Li Bai heard her mother-in-law say vaguely, "I admit that I used to be terrible, but now I have nothing in my heart." "

Li Bai was unmoved after hearing this. While she was still alive, she packed her bags and went to the company where she resigned. "I agree to start over, but you must start over. Can you accept it? " Or the leader who took good care of Li Bai met Li Bai. It stands to reason that he should refuse directly. Maybe when he saw Li Bai's haggard appearance, he couldn't help feeling pity and gave Li Bai a chance.

Du Peng, who was told afterwards, felt that his dignity had been hurt. He asked Li Bai what she meant. Li Bai did not answer. She simply looked at the information recorded before. Du Peng nagged Li Bai in his ear and looked down upon him. Li Bai, who couldn't stand it, picked up his suitcase and lived in the company dormitory.

Although Li Bai resigned once, her former colleagues in the company did not feel sorry for Li Bai because they all knew why Li Bai resigned. She has connections, and the promotion speed is even faster than before. In addition, she can do things and is well received by the company leaders, so the annual salary will naturally rise.

Li Bai thought the initial impulse was a joke. Despite Du Peng's dissuasion, Li Bai, who got the lost property, lived in the company dormitory wholeheartedly. The busy life of 3. 1 every day even makes Li Bai forget the fact that he is married. At first glance, she is getting more and more energetic, and she doesn't look married at all.

Li Bai is still planning his future, but I don't know whether Du Peng will participate in it. Lin Jun knows what kind of life Li Bai wants, which is nothing more than happiness and freedom. And all this, Du Peng seems unable to give. With the separation time getting longer and longer, the marriage between Du Peng and Li Bai has existed in name only. This is not a world, it is only a matter of time before it ends.

We should abandon the old concept of "men are the masters outside and women are the masters inside". Who says women are inferior to men? Who says women should be canaries? Women who have no self-confidence are naturally in a passive position after marriage. After all, life depends on men. It is what every woman needs to do to make herself economically free from external factors and give herself a unique "sense of security".

I believe that a woman who can achieve economic freedom will also bring great help to her family and make it easier for her husband and wife to achieve real equality. At the same time, * * * will also contribute to the family and make the feelings between husband and wife deeper. Therefore, a woman with economic freedom and security will make her marriage more stable and richer.