What have you learned from stepping into society?

1, the laziness you stole will be taken back from you.

When you use books, you hate them less. When you enter the society, the laziness you stole before will be taken back from you in various forms. It may be that your education is not up to standard when you apply, it may be that you have worked overtime to complete countless tasks that cannot be completed in time, or it may be that you have got different salaries for the same job.

2. Learn to save face for others. Never underestimate the word "you are wrong".

The words "you are wrong" will always play a destructive role and have no good effect. These three words usually bring an unhappiness, a quarrel and even turn friends into enemies.

Parents often say "you are wrong" to their children, which will alienate them, make them feel uncomfortable, and then produce rebellious psychology.

If you want to solve the problem, you might as well admit that "I was wrong" first, which is of great benefit to dredge interpersonal relationships and solve problems. Think "I was wrong" first. In this way, any problems will be solved and any contradictions will disappear.

3. Learn to listen and pick up words from listening.

Listening is a virtue and a science; The ability to listen is an art as well as a skill. Learning to listen is also respect for others. Only by listening can you get to the point. Knowing how to listen is sometimes more important than talking.

4. Learn to praise others

Zan is a gas station that can continuously output positive energy. Praise is a kind of comfort and affirmation, which can make interpersonal relationships harmonious and enhance each other's intimacy. Therefore, we must learn to praise others.

Don't waste time on unnecessary arguments.

Many times, there is no need to care about some small gains and losses with others. When you should turn a blind eye in life, you don't have to be serious. "Never argue with others unnecessarily", repeating this sentence can suppress the anger in your heart.

There is only one way to win an argument, and that is to avoid it.

6, don't complain, complain, unfair, this can only prove your own ignorance.

At work, don't complain all day, complaining that the unit is unfair to you. Take a closer look at the efforts of colleagues around you. It is your ability to secretly learn from others' practices and finally realize your wishes. Complaining all day can only prove your ignorance, and it is useless for others to see your jokes.

7. Don't speak too straight. When the leader asks you for advice, speak tactfully.

When discussing a problem or having a meeting to study it, when the leader asks everyone to express their views, don't be too straight, keep three points in your mouth, and what you say must be euphemistic and humorous so that everyone can accept it.

8. Everyone only says three words, not all from the heart.

You can "speak behind closed doors" to people close to you, you can say nothing, or you can brazenly say that everything is easy; For outsiders, we must be vigilant, follow the sense of boundaries, be cautious when speaking, and keep half of what we say to our lips, depending on the occasion.

9. Never follow the crowd.

You should have your own ability to judge right and wrong, stick to your correct views, and don't follow others' advice, which will make people feel that you are insincere. After a long time, others will perfunctory you and show you insufficient respect.

10, you must actively study your own business and silently improve your professional level.

Just entering the society, we should take a long-term view, be good at accumulating our own professional knowledge, take the initiative to learn, and study diligently. There must be a big gap between those who study and those who don't. Therefore, opportunities are all won by ourselves, and opportunities must be reserved for those who are always ready.

1 1. Choice is more important than effort.

If you make the wrong choice, your efforts will be in vain. This truth must be understood. Whether at work or in life, if you choose the wrong person and choose the wrong direction, it means that your efforts are in vain, and it also means mental and material damage.

Choice hides the tacit knowledge and knowledge you have accumulated invisibly; Choice carries the depth and breadth of your understanding of the world and the breadth of your vision; Choice can show your comprehensive analysis ability and judgment ability; Choice can show your decision-making power.

12, learn to take responsibility

Enter the society, learn to take responsibility in your work, be responsible for your work, yourself, your colleagues and your boss, and you will become a qualified employee and have opportunities for growth; Learn to be responsible for your family, your parents and your small family.

13, learn to manage money

The so-called "if you don't manage your money, money will ignore you" means learning the truth of "Qian Shengqian", having a certain economic foundation as the backing, and learning to scrimp and save for a rainy day.

14, you must choose the right person in marriage.

Take your marriage seriously and choose the right person as your life partner. Marriage is different from love. Marriage requires two people to spend their lives hand in hand.

15, don't change jobs frequently, which is not conducive to your development.

You must choose your work carefully, make a good positioning and planning for your work, and it is very important to make yourself a kind of person. Don't change jobs frequently, it will leave you with impetuous and unpractical feelings, and the employment rate in the future will be reduced, which is not good for your future.

16. Word of mouth is greater than income.

Being a man, character is greater than money, kindness is more important than interests, and don't ruin your reputation for a little advantage.

17, ignore the jealousy of others, you just need to work hard.

When you surpass others a little at work, others may make irresponsible remarks and be jealous of you; However, when you greatly surpass others, others will certainly envy you. Therefore, when you encounter this phenomenon in your life, all you have to do is to work harder, don't worry about it, keep your mind straight and forge ahead, and all the problems will be solved.

18, don't just look down at the cart, but also look up at the road.

At work, besides being diligent, don't be a workhorse who has been pulling Xiangqian Che. Look up at the road and you will find many better opportunities. This is an essential ability for an organizer and leader, otherwise, you will miss a wonderful life.

19, we must respect our predecessors in our work.

No matter how high your education is, no matter how strong your ability is, when you first step into the society, you should also hide your "skills", keep a low profile, respect your predecessors who work with you, learn to integrate into the collective life, and gradually get everyone's recognition of you.

20. the gains and losses of the day before going to bed.

Develop a good habit of summing up the gains and losses of the day and "review" your daily life. It is best to keep a diary. When you take out your diary one day, you will find your greatness, which will benefit you a lot and give you an unprecedented sense of accomplishment.

2 1, stay away from useless social and negative energy people.

A really smart person must know how to give up two useless social activities. One is a person who complains all day. This kind of person will make your life worse. Be sure to stay away from this negative energy person. The other is useless socializing, parties that have no interest in you, and uninspiring conversations. You must stay away from it and don't waste your time. Even if you use this time to sleep, it is much better than accepting this kind of socialization.

1. Don't shout "unfair" because society is unfair.

Acquaintances can use the back door, and friends are preferred. This is the present situation of society.

If someone asks you for advice, don't really give it foolishly, be sure to think it over before you speak.

The other person may just say some polite words, he just wants to get your approval and praise. If you really give an opinion, the other party will be unhappy.

If you want to be a leader with a promotion and salary increase, you can't just concentrate on learning technology.

Those who are promoted by superiors are often not the best skilled people. In management, the more important abilities are the execution ability to push the project forward and the communication ability to coordinate the relationship between superiors and subordinates.

In society, it is difficult to find the pure friendship without interest in school.

When you are in power, a group of people will gather around and want to make friends with you. They are very enthusiastic. When you lose power, these people will change their attitude towards you.

Don't give in easily on matters related to your own interests.

Concessions often can't solve the problem, others will only think that you are easy to bully, or even worse for you. So we should actively strive for our own interests.

6. Don't change jobs frequently, focus on a certain field and become an expert in this field.

Many technologies require the accumulation of experience and the precipitation of time. Job-hopping is too frequent and you can't get in touch with the core technology. Only by mastering the core technology will you be more valuable.

7. Don't trust other people's opinions easily, but learn to judge right and wrong by yourself.

Other people's views on something are only his one-sided words, and everyone will say something beneficial to himself. You have to listen to more people's opinions and infer the facts before you can see the truth clearly.

8. A person's reputation is very important. Don't ruin your image because of petty gain.

If you have a bad reputation, you can't move.

9. If you change jobs several times and feel dissatisfied with your job, it may be your own problem.

Every company is not perfect, and there are more or less unreasonable places. If you think a company has prospects, you should try to accept its imperfections. No one will tailor a company for a migrant worker.

10. Be low-key and do high-profile things.

Be humble and polite, and show your manners. Proactive, stand out from the crowd.

1 1. Sometimes, choice is more important than hard work.

Choosing the right industry and following the right boss will make your career develop faster.

12. Be a man and know how to choose.

When you pursue what you want, you often have to give up something. If you want everything, you will often get nothing in the end.

13. People should learn to take responsibility.

You only need to study when you go to school, and everything else is carried by your parents for you. When we step into the society, we should take the initiative to share the responsibility for our parents and contribute to our family.

14. In the workplace, if you don't understand the meaning of the leader, you must ask more why, and remember not to pretend to understand.

The leader won't mind you asking him more questions, but he will be very concerned that you will misunderstand. The leader said a, but you heard B.

15. Not many people care about you, so you should learn to care about yourself.

16. Learn to learn actively and don't dawdle.

After five years, the ability and knowledge of those who study hard and those who muddle along will be very different.

17. Learn to look at problems from the boss's point of view.

What the boss needs is someone who can help him solve the problem. Doing things from the boss's point of view can not only break the limitations of your own thinking, but also gain the appreciation of your boss more easily.

18. Don't try to convince others.

Everyone's cognitive range is different, and one can't understand what is beyond cognition. What I want to say is beyond the cognition of the other party. No matter what, he won't be persuaded by you.

19. If someone helps you, you should express your gratitude with substantive actions.

Don't just say thank you, either invite someone to dinner or send a gift to express your gratitude.

20. Even if someone hurts you in words, don't lose hope in society.

Although not everyone has goodwill, after all, there are far more good people than bad people. With the growing strength of the motherland and the gradual improvement of people's lives, society will surely become more and more beautiful.

1. The older you get, the more you will find that money and looks are really important.

As you get older, you will find that money and length are too important to you. This sentence applies not only to women but also to men.

2. The stupidest person at work just works hard and waits for promotion silently.

At work, honest people always want to be promoted through hard work, but often it is not honest people who get promoted, because a kind word from others may be more useful than working hard for a year.

3. Sing what people say and the mountain you climbed.

Everyone likes to hear nice words from others, so people who can talk will always say the right words in the right place, because you mean listening to others. This is not hypocrisy, this is reality.

Learn something you have always wanted to learn, regardless of age, because it is never too late from now on.

Everyone has one or several things he wants to learn, so don't hesitate from now on, because it's never too late to start at any age.

Be sure to have a good relationship with your own leader, and no one will neglect others.

After work, you must keep a good relationship with your own leaders, especially the leaders in charge who can decide your future. At any time, the leader will promote the closest person.

6. In the eyes of leaders, your pattern is very important.

Leaders often evaluate employees from the perspective of pattern, because in the eyes of leaders, pattern represents being able to bear hardships, willing to suffer losses, not greedy for petty gains, working hard, not complaining, and obeying arrangements.

7. It is important to learn to plan time.

Everyone has a limited time every day. The difference between people lies in whether you make good use of your time. Therefore, it is very important to plan your daily time.

8. Make clear the logic of employing people. Apart from the background, what is the logic for ordinary people to be reused?

If you have no background and connections, it is very important to understand the employment logic of your unit, such as work ability, interpersonal skills and business level. After you figure it out, just work hard and practice hard. Ordinary people really have no other shortcuts.

9. Education only represents the past, and learning ability represents the future.

Many people always talk about academic qualifications, but after work, they often look at your working ability rather than your academic qualifications. Your working ability comes from your learning ability. So, you can have no education, but you have to work hard.

10. Don't always think about saving money by saving. Learning to make money is the most important thing.

Many people earn thousands of dollars a month and are reluctant to eat or spend. If they want to save money in this way, they can only save a few thousand dollars a month. Only by learning to open source can they learn to really make money.

1 1. It is better to spend time with your family at home than to attend meaningless parties outside.

Many times we can't help doing many things we don't want to do, such as attending some meaningless parties, but suddenly we find out where all the time has gone. At this time, you will understand that it is better to spend time with your family at home and make up for your family.

12. Many people want to separate after marriage. Marriage is not easy, ok, and cherished.

I heard many friends say in front of me that they regretted getting married and wanted to leave. This is normal, because marriage is not easy, please go forward and cherish it.

13. When you encounter difficulties, you should consult your predecessors or experienced people, because ginger is always spicy.

For seniors, the difficulties you encounter may not be difficult for them. There is absolutely no harm in asking them more. After all, ginger is still old and spicy.

14. A person's background is both innate and acquired through hard work.

Many people have a certain background from the moment of birth, but for those who don't have this condition, they can only get it by their own efforts.

15. insist on recovery before going to bed every day.

Time before going to bed every day is precious. It can make you calmly think about what you have done all day and how to do it better. Insist on the good habit of washing dishes before going to bed every day, which can benefit you a lot.

16. See Xian Si Qi Yan, See Xian Si Qi for introspection.

No matter who you are with, there must always be someone who can let you learn his advantages. Of course, you should also find his weaknesses from him, so that you can avoid such shortcomings in time, so that you can make faster progress.

17. Whose youth is not confused, some things will only be understood after experience.

Whose youth is not confused? When you pass your age and look back, you will have a deeper understanding of what you have experienced.

18. No matter how you mix, you must always have a sense of crisis.

Many excellent people have lost everything just because they indulge themselves. Therefore, no matter how well they get along, they should always have a sense of crisis. Otherwise, the song "Start Again" is really for you.

19. Life lies in exercise, and exercise focuses on persistence.

In the past year, the word "life" has been deeply understood by everyone. For the sake of your health, you must keep exercising.

20. How can married people have no pressure, but they are all hidden in their hearts?

How can a married person be free from the pressure of life? It's just that many people don't show it on their faces, but hide it in their hearts.

Conclusion: Stepping into the society has made me understand a lot of life philosophy, which also means that we are no longer young, and we will eventually lose our youth and take the time to understand more life truths.