Don't treat meanness as humor.

? Just now, I had a falling out with my friends for many years.

? When we were studying, we didn't intersect, and neither of us was each other's favorite type. After graduation, because the unit was close and we often walked around, the relationship was good.

? Her marriage partner was introduced by me. For the first time, they disdained each other. After many years, the two were still single, and then they got married. After marriage, because of the conflict of ideas and personalities, we often quarreled with each other, and she blamed me.

? I needed someone to work in a company, so I recommended her. Because of the conflict of ideas and personality, we couldn't get along, so I left.

? We will chat, but we are not interested in chatting often, just like just now. What she said will choke you, and she thought that she was just joking.

? Some people may feel humorous, but they don't feel mean at all. It is the unprovoked expansion of the self that you only care about speaking happily, but don't care about the feelings of others.

? I seldom talk about my son, especially with her. There is nothing to talk about. Once my son had a bad thing after the final exam, so I went to her to vomit. As a result, she flew into a rage, accused me of showing off in front of her, and told me clearly that I didn't want to hear it. I closed my mouth silently, even though I thought my son had nothing to show off, and I never liked to show off.

? Just now, I was talking to her about stocks, and I mentioned that the market jumped up and down to show that I couldn't understand it. She replied: If you could understand it, you would have become a big V. Or to her, it's really a joke, but the so-called humor of holding a gun with a stick for a long time is really uncomfortable.

? I write an article on a certain platform, which was introduced by her at first, because I usually like to write and draw. After a period of tempering and adapting, I have written it with ease. Sometimes when it comes to this piece, she also answers a few words in a sour way.

? There is no need to care too much between friends, but what do you think if one person always brings you negative energy? If a person doesn't have a sense of humor, don't joke, otherwise it will backfire and make people unhappy.

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