Everyone knows that "children and grandchildren will have their own blessings", but actually the second half of the sentence is the essence?

The next sentence of this sentence is "Don't be a horse or a horse for your children and grandchildren". The meaning of these two sentences is that the children and grandchildren have their own luck and blessings, and parents do not need to be a cow or a horse for their children and grandchildren. , paying too much. It can be seen that the latter sentence is the essence.

This sentence comes from "Zengguang Xianwen", and there is an interesting story behind it. It is said that in the Ming Dynasty, there was a scholar named Luo. Although he had been studying since he was a child, he failed to achieve anything in the exams, so he went to work as a teacher in other places. At that time, he already had a wife and children. Luo Xiucai, who fell in love with everyone, clapped her hands and walked away, leaving her to take care of the housework and raise her son alone. A few years later, Luo Xiucai went home to visit relatives. He saw that his son was already seven years old. Out of professional habit, he thought of taking the joint examination for his son. Unexpectedly, he was asked two questions in a row. Under the instructions of his mother, his son continued to answer incorrectly. Although his son is seven years old, he has never gone to school. He usually helps his mother with housework at home, making a joke about chicken shit and milk.

Luo Xiucai was so annoyed, thinking that he failed in the imperial examination and his son was not smart, he abandoned his family and ran away in anger, and even became a monk directly. His wife deeply felt that she had neglected her son's education, so she began to work hard to make money, and saved up tuition fees for her son to go to school. The child was also very ambitious, and he continued to study and eventually became a champion and returned home. In order to repay his mother, he held a big banquet. Luo Xiucai was very happy when he heard this and hurried home from the temple all night. But the concierge at home didn't know him. When he went in to inform him, he just said that a monk had come outside to ask for alms. Naturally, his wife didn't know it was him, so she sent someone to take the money and send it away. Luo Xiucai deeply regretted what he had done before. , so I wrote four sentences on the wall. ?Farewell to my hometown in the eighteenth autumn, I will not accept thousands of dollars for rice; children and grandchildren will have their own blessings, so don’t work for your children and grandchildren?

Since then, this sentence has been passed down, and the literal meaning is understood, The first two sentences tell his own story, and the last two sentences are exclamations, and "Don't make horses and oxen for your children and grandchildren" is the essence of this poem, but the one I hear most is "Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings." I don't know. What is your different understanding of this sentence?