Educating children must not use the thinking of adults. How can adults educate children when they fight?

Educating children can't use adults' thoughts, and can't impose adults' thoughts on children. When the children are all together, we must let them know where the mistakes are. When the child doesn't know where the mistake is, don't criticize the child in a hurry, help him slowly, realize the mistake, and then don't shout and mumble when preaching, otherwise it will be counterproductive. Children have developed bad habits and should be relieved slowly. Don't be a wrench, get rid of it gradually. Don't be too hasty Because children are different from adults, right and wrong are still a little vague. In their eyes, what suits them is right, not when it suits them. This requires parents to wait patiently.

How do parents educate their children when they fight? First, analyze the causes of children fighting. Children's self-awareness will gradually sprout with age. When he (she) meets someone who disagrees with him (her), he (she) will be beaten in this way to show his resistance. If parents encounter such a situation, it is necessary to analyze the causes of children's fights and further find ways to deal with them. In addition, parents should learn to see their children's emotions clearly first, and then ask them why, and listen to their explanations and reasons.

? Secondly, don't indulge children, and love must have certain rules. If it is really the child's fault, be sure to let the child admit the mistake and let the child apologize to the other party.

? Third, distract him, or let him calm down for a while, and don't call names directly, which will only make him more rebellious. There is also teaching children to control their emotions and not to lose things easily. Of course, appropriate punishment is ok, but don't overdo it, it will hit too hard.

? Fourth, create a harmonious family atmosphere for children. Don't always blame children easily. Many times, you should find your own problems first. For example, there is no unintentional quarrel between husband and wife, and there are not many complaints at home. Part of the reason for children's irritability also comes from inner insecurity, which is mostly caused by parents.

? Fifth, teach children how to vent their emotions. Children will encounter certain troubles, and it is necessary to vent their troubles reasonably. Therefore, parents should promptly guide their children to talk to adults about their inner feelings and release the unpleasant and depressed emotions at that time.

? Sixth, usually care more about children. Some children will fight to get their parents' attention. Therefore, parents should pay attention to their children's health, improve their self-confidence, praise their advantages and let them feel love and care.

? Seventh, parents set an example for their children. Some children will beat people because of their parents' beating behavior, and children will imitate their parents' behavior when they see it. Therefore, parents should review whether they have the habit of hitting people.

? Eighth, take children to do outdoor activities, familiarize them with natural life, play with them more and form good habits.