Humorous men are always considered immature? Men who are mature on the surface must be mature on the inside?

Generally speaking, humor is also divided into occasions. If you tell a joke at an inappropriate moment, you are suspected of overexertion, which is easy to arouse others' disgust. Similarly, men who appear to be too mature will also be evaluated as "honest but too boring" For women, it is generally believed that "gentle" men are the most mature and attractive. In other words, they have a certain sense of existence in the crowd, but this sense of existence is not obtained by ridiculous grandstanding. Generally speaking, men's maturity can be embodied as "restraint" and "gentleman": don't say more, think about it; Don't show aggressive attitude; Pay enough attention to your girlfriend when she wants to pay attention (such as dinner and family dinner); Emotions are invisible, and deep and heavy voices can also appear mature.

For most women, maturity is actually associated with a sense of security. They are used to instinctively judging whether a man can give her financial dependence from his clothes, manners and conversation. This completely subconscious judgment will affect their evaluation of a man. Therefore, on the whole, a man with a strong figure, a suit and tie, a good upbringing and a quiet and calm manner seems to be rich enough, competitive enough, single-minded and easy to get along with.

In addition, different people have different views on this issue. Some women think that a humorous man is very attractive. Of course, if a man can have the characteristics of humor and maturity at the same time, plus handsome face and power and money, he is the standard hero of romantic novels circulating in the market, and love is bound to be unfavorable.