In southern Fujian, my girlfriend's name is the same as that of an elder of my father, and there is another word that is the same as my grandmother's.

Manchu can be used instead of Chinese.

The Manchu people's bad habit of learning Chinese in Qing Dynasty-taboo that the names of the younger generation overlap with those of the older generation, and they are Min Nan people of other nationalities.

However, your father's China taboo is "crossing the line". Manchuria is thousands of miles away from Min Nan. It is not a family. Why do people change their names, importune and go too far?

You can also leave that ridiculous Manchu father without marrying her, so as to avoid trouble in the future, and then make a dispute between Manchu and other nationalities, and the joke will be big. Go out and make your own bill.

In recent years, there are too many wonderful people and things, which makes people feel bad about returning to the Qing Dynasty and can go to Guinness.

Or, you can reason with your father and explain the difference between Manchu and Chinese. If it is taboo, you don't need a Chinese name. There are no taboos in Chinese. Many China's father and son or grandparents have the same words in their names.

Besides, grandma's name can't be the same as the family man's name. The taboo of Manchu is only valid for Manchu descent, and the blood system of Han nationality is irrelevant, except that grandma and his girlfriend are both people with foreign surnames.

Trouble, it feels like dog blood.