2019-06-26 Those who are immovable and cannot bear it have a heart that is difficult to cultivate!

Those who are immovable and cannot bear it must have a heart that is difficult to cultivate!

1. Whether a person has face or not is something he or she makes, not just pretending.

What is cultivation? It is about learning solemnity, it is about learning one’s own self-cultivation, it is about learning face, it is about learning benevolence, justice, propriety, wisdom and trust.

You must look at people with dignity, your eyes cannot be dazzled, and your eyes cannot be biased, it is real. There is something special about looking at people, which is called looking at people politely. Because of your eyes, people can see where you are looking at them. Wherever your eyes look, it shows that you are an uncultivated person. You can't look around with your eyes. Eyes are the windows to the soul. If your eyes look at other people's eyes where they shouldn't, they will immediately know that you are a dirty person.

2. Remember: always think without self. Just don’t have yourself. Every time I do something, I think, "Oh, it wasn't me, it was my colleague. I'm very grateful to him." "Oh, I didn't do this, it was everyone's help." No-self means not having myself. I often think about it: I haven’t done anything, so what virtues and abilities do I have? I am very small. Looking down from the plane, people are smaller than ants, and cars are like ants.

Always practice non-self thinking. Think of yourself as having nothing - I came into this world with nothing, and I left with nothing. I don’t fight for fame, and I don’t fight for profit. Money has no attraction to me, and profit has no attraction to me either. I don’t even have myself, so what fame and fortune can I strive for? If there is less competition for fame and fortune, this person will live a comfortable life. With less desire, this person can live a free and easy life. What is "freedom"? It's just the same as before. All property, even if you own it, is your temporary possession and is temporarily entrusted to you for safekeeping. For example, before you died, this house was in your name. When you leave, will this house belong to your children? So this house still belongs to you? No more. Do you own it or does the child own it? Can you have it all? Can you have it forever?

Stop wondering. You temporarily own it and then it is owned by someone else. This is not true ownership.

So we must learn to tolerate humiliation. There are setbacks, slanders, and blows in a person's life... Faced with all these, we must learn to endure humiliation.

3. What is humiliation? The state of patience is very high, and patience is the state of a Bodhisattva.

A person who can endure is a very cultivated person. If you don't quarrel when others quarrel with you, you are well-educated.

Regardless of whether it is a man or a woman, if someone jumps up after being scolded, this person has no cultivation. If someone's whole body moves after being told something, this is also a person who has not cultivated well. For example: when someone says, "You are very rich," your face will immediately show that you are very rich. This is also uncultured. He said she was beautiful, and immediately she couldn't sit still. She put on makeup and makeup again, and she looked like an uncultivated person.

"Rurubufang" refers to a person who has a state of mind. Whether you talk about him or not, it has no impact on him.

4. Remember, there is no way to endure. What is "no life"?

That is to say, I don’t even have the heart to be patient. "Dharma-forbearance" means the patience of the Dharma Realm. Because I don’t want to be patient at all, because I don’t feel like I have to be patient at all. I don’t even have the heart to be patient. What do I have to be patient with? If someone scolds me, I say "I'm not angry". When someone talks about me, I feel like it’s just their opinion. What impact does it have on me? Why should I be angry with him?

Let me tell you a joke. There was a man who was very good. When he went to other people's companies, they asked him: "Who are you?" He said with a straight face: "You don't even know who I am?" As a result, others said that he was a mentally ill person, and even he was a psychopath. neither knows. He thinks he is famous, but in fact he has no reputation at all.

The problem with people is that they are too self-righteous. "I have never done anything wrong in the past. I have always led others. How was I in the past?" Hey, your past is the past.

Remember, this is a past tense. You already don’t have it. If you use the past noun again, you just don’t have it.

If you take out something that you don’t have, you will be a person without reason and wisdom.

5. If the devil is in the body, the person will become mentally ill.

So we must learn to endure the law of non-birth. Although I want to be patient, I don't even have the heart to be patient. I fundamentally believe that patience that has not been born is called Dharma-forbearance. There is no feeling at all that we have to endure, and that is the only way we can be without life. That said, I don't feel like I have to endure it.

Many people feel that they have to endure: "I can't be angry, I must endure it. I am a Buddhist practitioner, I must endure it. You can scold me, you can hit me, I am Be patient. "In fact, this is not the highest level.

If you have the ability, when he scolds you, you don’t feel that he is scolding you. He is giving you a step to improve your realm, which is a way to increase your superiority and increase the source of your improvement. He gives you this realm and allows you to progress faster. If he scolds you, just listen, correct him if he scolds you, and encourage him if he doesn't. Because no one has come to scold you on the street yet. If he scolds you at home, treat him as a state. This kind of patience is actually a kind of Dharma patience, which means there is no meaning of patience in it.

The problem of many people is "I can't bear it anymore, I can't stand it anymore." This "I" is really harmful. Forget "I"! Forgetting yourself is the improvement of your realm. Because without yourself, you won’t be angry, you won’t lose your temper, and you won’t be greedy, angry or foolish. Since ancient times, many people have died just to save face. Nowadays, many people participate in motorcycle races. When he went out to participate in the race today, he knew that he might not be able to come back. He didn't even care about his life, but he just wanted to earn this face. So let go of yourself and don’t lose face!

Learn how to endure without rebirth. It is a wall that hinders the improvement of realm. In a sense, I want to dig down this wall of yours, because this wall of yours blocks wisdom. So you feel pain.

6. Learn to be patient. Remember: not fighting back or scolding him back is also patience. There are two types that are the most unbearable: one is couples. Because the grievances between husband and wife have been accumulated over many lifetimes, when the couple quarrels, the anger is really unbearable. This anger is the most unbearable. If you can endure the anger of a couple, it will not be easy for you as a person. Patience between husband and wife is the most unbearable thing among all the unbearable things.

Another type of relationship is the relationship within the unit. Tolerance in the workplace actually means patience to get along with others, which is also very difficult. Changes in the environment cause changes in your heart. It is difficult to maintain a relationship between husband and wife at home, and it is even more difficult to have contact with people in work or public places. People everywhere will quarrel, and people everywhere will curse. It is not a matter of language, but that your external environment is actually the result of the evil obstacles you have accumulated in your past lives.

7. Remember: the past is not available, the present is not available, and the future is not available. Nothing to gain. What is "no gain"?

My heart is gone, and so is my person. My mind is no longer affected by any external environment. It is as if there is nothing in my mind. This is a higher state.

For example, people are queuing up to buy something at a special price. The person who has "nothing to gain" means that I have not thought about it, and I have no heart to do it. It doesn't matter whether I get it or not. I have no mind of desire, I have no mind of hatred, I have no mind of ignorance. If there is no such mind as greed, hatred and delusion, what is left is conscience. The state of selflessness is achieved by achieving selflessness. That is to say, you no longer have yourself. When you reach your realm, you really no longer have yourself. "I'm not angry anymore, I've figured it out, because I'm nothing great. I'll tell you what you want to say, and I won't do it if you don't let me do it."

You have no desire for others. , there will be no desire or delusion in your heart.

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