witty response

Therefore, the first principle of witty response is to "recognize each other's assumptions." Even if this assumption is unreasonable, the implication is "Do you want to play?" Ok, I'll play with you. Playing with you means not denying your hypothesis, but I will beat you on your hypothesis.

Maybe you will ask, if you agree with each other's assumptions, how can you get the upper hand? Then there is the second principle: continue to exaggerate in the direction of the other party's hypothesis until you find a point that suits your own interests.

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What we talk to each other will inevitably conflict. Sometimes the conflict is intentional, and sometimes it is unintentional. We don't probe into his motives, but only talk about how to resolve such embarrassment, safeguard our own interests and "pull back" our own face.

A witty answer can not only protect your face, but also give the other party a powerful counterattack. More importantly, you can make onlookers think you are humorous. Have poise. There are principles. I will trust you more from now on.

There we met a conversation that embarrassed us.

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The first step is to agree with the other person: "Well, what you said (the good side) does have some truth!"

The second step is the turning point of the plot: as for (the bad side), you may not know that things have changed. ......

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On Sunday, my sister Yu Tong and I went home together after the book launch. On the way, we made fun of each other. I said, "You are so beautiful, and you have to cultivate Buddhism and immortals. Look at yourself. Why don't you have a boyfriend now? " She jokingly said to me, "it's because I have you in my heart!" I love you! " At that time, Sister Jaco was waiting for my answer! But my brain is short-circuited, and I have no idea how to respond to this ridicule.

Reflecting that I didn't give a witty answer at that time put me in an awkward position, so we were silent for several seconds! The air is so quiet! Sister Yutong also laughed at me and said, "Handsome! You are too young, learn more from your sister. " At that time, Sister Jaco told me that I could answer this question: Sister, you are a beautiful book, and I want to read it slowly. But today I learned the principles of recognition and exaggeration. I might try to say: Well, thank you for your love. (First principle, agree) But many people have said that they like me, but in the end they all ran away with others ... would you? (second principle, sudden change of plot)

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Tacit coping can effectively cultivate your sense of humor, resolve embarrassment and enhance charm, so set the following goals for yourself.

Target 1 1: 30 noon 1 1: 40, set yourself a daily situational dialogue of 10 minutes, and then respond with two principles of witty answer, and write it on the mobile phone memo. Deadline is 2019 65438+1October 20th.

If someone maliciously slanders me: Are you epileptic? You can't even hold the cup. Look at all the spilled wine.

I can say this: I did spill the wine in the cup. You may not know that my hands shake every time I meet a barking dog. I don't know why. (Things have changed)